So she said she will think about us seeing each other again?

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and I am not harrasing her everyday, as she is even back to calling me sometimes to see how i am doing. Question... There is this guy she knows from 4 years ago and just reunited with in college class. My friend saw them at the store with some other people and told me. I confronted her very little just to ask who he was. She said he was a friend and I believe her, as she does have some guy friends and not a slut. So, I asked her, is that all, she said " he said that he liked me" and " I told him that we were together" ( this 2 weeks ago when we were still together) I know I am suppose to back off and give her space, but I just have to know a few more things about it. She says she misses me and I wont pursue it unless I ask her:: So the guy, whats his name? you didnt say if you liked him at all? does he know that you just want to be friends and dont like him any other way? How often do you talk to him? Can I ask these questions to see if she gets offended?

And If I do ask her those questions, and she gets mad, should I take it as she is lying and likes him, or take it as she is telling the truth and just is still mad at me and doesnt want to discuss it because I dont trust her????

Thanks

Answer 1

Dude, move on. Women who care about you and who are interested in you don't make you chase them or play these silly games unless they are total nutjobs, and then you don't want them in that case either. Get a clue.

Answer 2

Has she given you any reason not to trust her? She says they're friends just leave it at that you might would want to just drop the whole thing but if that is to hard for you to do ask if ya'll can go hangout all 3 of ya'll (maybe some other friends too) together. Hope it works out:)

Answer 3

I would consider moving on..

"think about" anything , usually means "I've already decided to move on--"

Answer 4

I would so ask her...how are you ever going to kow unlless you do. if she gets offended her lose not yours.