I have a nice body but I don't feel the need to do this. As a matter of fact, I think it's not appropriate. I find alot of women think they have to dress this way in order to get men attracted to them.
This is not true, men go for personality over looks.
What do you guys think about this?
2007-09-06 06:53:02 · 18 answers · asked by Purple Vengeance 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you. A lot of women feel the need to wear little clothing because they think that's what guys want to see. And yeah, it's true that guys might find it hot. However, they won't respect girls who dress like that. They'll just treat them as sex objects rather than human beings. The best way to gain respect from a guy is to just charm him with a great personality. Guys generally respect girls who don't try to draw attention to themselves.
2007-09-06 06:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Fonzieo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men go for personality over looks in the LONG run. In the short term we are very visual. There is, however, a happy medium that a lot of women don't understand. You can be sexy without going overboard. If you have everything (and I do mean everything) exposed, I cannot possibly see you as anything more than temporary entertainment. If you are dressed like a librarian I am going to think that you are very boring. What a lot of women have to learn to do is keep a balance in their clothing in order to both get a man interested but also keep his respect. An example of this is if you have a lot of cleavage going don't wear the shortest skirt you can find because you have overloaded my mind with sex and you are now a sex object, and vice versa if you got a real short skirt on don't have your "girls" hanging out there because once again my mind is overloaded. In the end a little skin helps but a lot of skin hurts.
2007-09-06 07:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by cmack45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant agrreeee with you more..girl its a shame that as women we have absoulety no respect for our body..i see to many women wearing reavealing clothing that says one thing about them and that is i am easy come and get me...WHy do they do this...why cant they see that they are only puting a negative vibe out there....i see alot of spanish women wearing tight and girl i mean tight extra tight clothes that show all they stuff i mean you see they outline of their pu sssyyy and a ss hanging out..its really upset me to see women do this....i agree with you when you say that a man would go more for a omen with class and dresses like she got class than some one that just is all about showing their stuff to all mankind.....in new york thats all you see...women coming to work wearing pants and skirts that are supper tight...there is a spanish lady that works in my building and i am like damn that shi t could nt be any tighter...i mean she dressed like she is going to a club..i always laugh to myself..but men like it though they get turned on by that...i think it totally skanky.....why do women do that...i am so comfortable witht hey way i dress..sometimes i dress down for work..but most of the time i am dressed and then on weekends i dress down if i am going out to a party then i really dress up.etc
2007-09-06 07:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me looking at a pretty woman is like looking at a piece of art. i admire women that are fit and don't mind showing it off; and if she has a personalty too that good..and just cause she is dressed sexy and looks good don't mean i want to be with her i just like looking and admiring. you will get all kinds of answers on this but most guys will look and like it...and for a woman showing her nice body is an ego trip like the guys with big mussels wearing tank tops and showing off. its just up to each person let them be....if you want to hide yours that's fine too...but don't condemn others that don't agree with the way you are.
2007-09-06 07:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do not go for personallity over looks. We are very visual and most women know that. They suck us in with their looks, hook us with sex and before we know it we're in a relationship with a terrible person. Now, aside from that, they do it because they like their bodies and want to show them off. You don't feel the need to do that but it's your choice to not show your body off just like it is their choice to show theirs off.
2007-09-06 06:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men "only go for looks over personality!" Chemistry is the key ingredient that keeps the man in a relationship..... i think its great when women with "nice" bodies to reveal their shapes........ its those fatties that should keep themselves covered at all times................ Hey if you got it, flaunt it!
2007-09-06 07:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys go for looks just because they are men, others do look for personality but thats after they get what they want.
2007-09-06 07:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Contessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally like women who knows how to carry themselves well..that does not means that they should reveal there body.
2007-09-06 08:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know about the best. But, in India, the things hidden have attracted more onlookers than otherwise.
2007-09-06 06:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what type of guys you want to attract.
if you dress like a hoochie you will get hoochie love.
but looks are really what attracts a person at first...then personality.
2007-09-06 06:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋