I was v v good friends with a guy, until I passed out from drink one nite (I dunno where), and woke up naked on my living room floor with this guys fingers in my crotch. I hate him now and I want him dead. I'm not reporting him, dont ask why and don't tell me too. When I woke up all I did was pushed him away and calmly told him to leave (think I was shocked). I've told him i want nothing to do with him, and he hasnt contacted me and has shown remorse but i'm STILL so angry. I wished i'd punched him and kicked him and clawed at his fat ugly face. I so, so badly wanna email him telling him I wanna kill the fact b*stard.
It happened 4 months ago tho, so I dont know if I should. Plus our mutual friends might think i'm stupid. I've got SO much anger, what do i do?
2007-09-06 06:45:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS: I'm 19 he's 42. And I've only slept with one guy, not him, .
2007-09-06 06:53:39 · update #1
Your problem is no longer with him... It's with you. You need to do everything you can possibly do to try and get back to normal fore as long as you stay in your condition, you will alienate everyone else around you. What happened was wrong, but why should that stop you from living your life the way you want. He physically didn't take anything from you and mentally you are the one taking away from yourself.
The best way to confront a sex offender such as this guy is with complete calmness. Anger will basically be ignored, so you must hold steady and explain to him why what he did was wrong. Your mind set with this guy should be to prevent him from doing this again instead of focusing on yourself. You will find that by establishing a meaningful conversation, you will accomplish more and this act in itself could set you on a track to recovery.
2007-09-06 06:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ilya S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal to feel shocked, and you don't need to forget this , but don't make it keep you angry all the time, just remember not to get drunk again with people may do something you don't like
2007-09-06 13:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 42-year-old man should know better.
I think he should definetly be reported, but you should have been more responsible when getting drunk around people you can't trust.
2007-09-06 14:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by false.pretense 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have asked this question twice. I thought you were not awake
2007-09-06 13:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by mickeymouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude fuq that, i'd be very heated @ that guy to. remorse, because he knows he did wrong. why don't you kick his butt @ school & when they ask you why you attacked him tell them why!
2007-09-06 13:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that totally stinks.....
If chuck norris knew about this.....he'd round house him then throw him into the sun..
2007-09-06 13:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋