Singles & Dating - 6 September 2007

example " many fish in the sea " line stuff like that ur help would be really appreciated

2007-09-06 17:47:40 · 14 answers · asked by big daddy kane 2

Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we are very much in Love. We live together and are very serious about our relationship - we have discussed the possibilty of marriage and he has suggested the idea of proposing at the end of the year. Whilst I am very excited about this and can see a very bright future for us both I am concerend about the way he deals with arguments. I know its normal to disagree sometimes, but he has a very bad habit of 'turning the tables' so to speak. he has never done anything seriously wrong, the arguments we have are mostly over silly things like when we are tired or in bad moods, but he has a bad habit of playing the blame game and cannot admit when he is wrong. If he is at fault then he really struggles to apologise and will try & find a way to turn the situation around so it is somehow my fault. It's very tiring & I find it very emotionally draining & have considered leaving purely because I find it so childish. What should I do?

2007-09-06 17:46:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

help! im scared!

2007-09-06 17:39:22 · 13 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

My boyfriend and I get along really well most of the time, but here and there we seem to get on one another's nerves. However, rather than being able to rectify it in the moment, we tend to get super emotional and unable to communicate. Tonight we had a major meltdown, and when I finally got him to speak to me, he told me that I seem to direct my anger towards him more and more frequently. I do get frustrated and angry with work and life, however if I pull away and seek my own space apart he takes offense. He likes to take on my problems and try and solve them, only to create more stress. I ask him to let me handle my own problems, that I'll willingly take his advice but allow me to work it out myself. What ends up happening is we talk/share everything to the point I get down to my frustrations and I don't know what to do with them. I am so lost, I don't have anyone with experience that I can discuss this with. Any input is grand.

2007-09-06 17:39:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I still have a long way to go (lost 40, 50 more to go)

But I have noticed that more guys are interested in
me. Should I be angry? I feel like this is such a front.

I have not changed personality wise, I am equally as
outgoing and as nice. But now they are starting
to show me more attention.

SHOULD I BE MAD? I FEEL VERY WRONGED BY
THIS SOMEHOW?

2007-09-06 17:37:58 · 38 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2

than a friend

2007-09-06 17:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by ames 3

First, a bit of history. My girlfriend and I have known each other for just about five years now but we've only been dating for about four months. We've already said those three scary words (and meant them), and just as importantly, we still really like one another. At least from my end.

So what is my problem? Well, in four months, we haven't progressed at all past kissing. I'm not a pushy guy by any means, and I don't really care about the physical much. But by kissing, I don't mean of the French variety. I mean pecking, and I'm the one that has to initiate that. I'm not sure that she's actually kissed me of her own accord yet. We hold hands and occasionally she'll sidle up beside me... but things just aren't moving.

It's just continued for so long now that I'm scared to rock the boat. I don't know that she wants it since she hasn't given me anything herself, and I'm equally scared to just come out and ask. I'm a wimp, I know.

But I love her. What do you think?

2007-09-06 17:33:29 · 13 answers · asked by Grae 2

K....I like dis guy... hes 18 & im 14. da thing is dat i dnt wan2 go out wit him, jus b friends. IDK if he likes me but like I said in another of my questions; he started 2 talk 2 me & we talked 4 a lng time. i really really like him, but thats why i dnt want 2 go out wit him coz i dnt want him 2 go 2 jail coz my dad told me if he evr figures out dat im datin him he'll call da cops on him. some say dat hes only interested on my body, but i mean dats da first thing they look on a girl right? but hes also different from all da other guys. he dresses normal, he works ,hes intelligent and hes really funny which surprisingly dats da most important thing 2 me. Hmmm... so wat should i do?

2007-09-06 17:32:22 · 1 answers · asked by Yesenia L 1

Is that going to be a good aphrodisiac? How much do i have to eat, and when does it start to take effect? Or is it only raw oysters that do the trick?

2007-09-06 17:31:10 · 3 answers · asked by jeska102 1

Made dinner and had Barry White playing when I got home..I forgave him for what he said (about ex) I melted and I couldn't be mad anymore.....should I still bring up what he had said..or just take what he did as a sign he is sorry?

2007-09-06 17:29:37 · 8 answers · asked by Aymee L 4

2007-09-06 17:28:36 · 12 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

There are many of you who are very young...But you do not communicate your feelings or ideas very well at all...The text msg method of spelling is such a nuisance and a deterent - for me at least - to reply to your inquiry.

I strongly recommend that you take the time and effort to present your words in proper format...It is good practice for when you finish school and have to do it for real...The programs here have spellcheck - use it

Take care & good luck

2007-09-06 17:27:36 · 3 answers · asked by thud.fan 6

2007-09-06 17:24:57 · 8 answers · asked by Shell 1

i can die for this girl, ive liked her for so long.
i just dont know what to do...help me please!

2007-09-06 17:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19, I'm a virgin, and I just gotta know what the ladies are looking for. Please let me know!

2007-09-06 17:16:28 · 2 answers · asked by HockeyKrazy 2

My girlfriends older brother wants me to meet him.?

and theres a chance there might be a few friends w/ him.
is this just gonna be a "talk" or am i gonna have to fight him and his friends?


and to clearify the question me and his younger sister have being going out for 2 months with no problems at all.
so i didnt do anything wrong.
he just wants to meet me cuz im with his sister.
but she told me that he would get really mad when she would tell him stuff like
she hugged a couple of boys and kissed some1 that day so thats why i think i he might wanna fight me.

but he has no REAL reason to wanna fight and im not gonna say anything that would make him want to.but at the same time anything can happen right? and i dont even really know him so i donht know what hes gonna be thinkin at the time we will be talking

2007-09-06 17:15:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a pickle, i need advice in all this, it would be much appreciated, thank you!
Okay, so my guy is in the Marines (let's nickname him "M"), if you have read my past posted questions, you will know who i am talking about. So anyway, he's gone. I miss him a lot and he misses me too. He's been gone for a month and i got with someone during that month. The guy was a great guy (Let's call him "D"), i liked him, he treated me very well... in the end, M called me and told me he loves me. (We weren't together when he left)
He tells me he wants to get back together and so i break up with the other guy and told him the whole story of why i was breaking up with him; that i couldn't love him--that i'm in love with M. I had met a great deal of his family and liked being with everyone. But i'd continue to find EXCUSES why it wouldn't work out and i'd think about HIM. Whenever M would call me, i'd get butterflies in my stomach and everything! M is in the same pickle as me

2007-09-06 17:14:21 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6

2007-09-06 17:13:35 · 6 answers · asked by mbovictory2010 1

me and this guy was talkin about to date and one night he came and picked me up and we madeout and stuff. but then him and his best friend went to some girls house one night and after that he didnt like me anymore he liked her. cuz his friend was tellin him he needs to get him some and when he figured out she wouldnt give him none he stoped likin her and he went to this other girl, and she wouldnt give him none neither so he doesnt like her anymore neither, and he startin to talk to me again. but he didnt stop likin me cuz i wouldnt give him none cuz he told me that not all he wanted.. but thats all he wanted from them? im so confused! and i get this feelin like he likes me again but im not sure. and he was always nice and sweet to me but them two girls say he dont talk to them that much anymore and he was only sweet to them for a week but hes always sweet to me, what do yall think? please try to help im so confused!

2007-09-06 17:11:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boyfriend and my friends want us to make out but I don't know if I should or if I should just dump him?Also could you please tell me the steps on how to make out?
THANK YOU AND LOVE YA ALL!!!

2007-09-06 17:09:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

how long should i wait until i have sex with my bf? ive been with him for 4 months but i dont wanna seem easy. so how long should i wait? what do u guys suggest?

2007-09-06 16:03:12 · 6 answers · asked by cookeez55 2

2007-09-06 16:01:30 · 6 answers · asked by JennyLee26 1

I'm talking to some guy on msn and I'm on webcam and ever since I got on he's been really quiet? Am I like, ugly , pretty or WHAT?

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2007-09-06 15:55:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

What in your definition is "a beautiful lady"?
thank you for your help! <3

2007-09-06 15:49:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anna G 1

Hello all. I live with my GF and her 3 year old daughter. My GF works as a barmaid. We - me, her and her daughter geton well. Her daughter likes me. We talk about our future together - marriage etc. Before we moved in I agreed to look after her daughter for one of the evenings while she works. Im now being pressured into looking after her for a second night. I dont mind doing it too much but dont want to be used as a doormat. Do people think im being unreasonable.

2007-09-06 15:44:10 · 15 answers · asked by Pa J 1

My man is 43 and I am 40...We are very much in love and we are healthy....How many times shold we be doing it in a week.....? I told you this is a serious question....

2007-09-06 15:42:39 · 1 answers · asked by karens lovinlife 6

Im 5"6 brown hair, hazel eye's ummm....Im average body size ,14,I play v-ball .Funny....sometime's odd LOL!!! nice ;0 so what do u think
PS:Im bord and hve nothin 2 do :)
thx,
volley-ball

2007-09-06 15:21:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 15. My friend did it many times , like 13 . And I don't want to do it becasue of her, but the fact that I want to. Does it matter what type?

2007-09-06 15:13:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

are u in middle school or high school or maybe in college

2007-09-06 15:06:37 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do if you went to work and you were actually missing your clothes?

2007-09-06 14:54:57 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous