Singles & Dating - 4 September 2007

well i broke up with him because he got better looking and girls started hanging with him and im the jealous type its almost been a year sense we broke up and now i cant get him off my mind should i talk to him more tell him please but just to let u know im the kind of person whos very shy

2007-09-04 11:01:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

only once he cheated on his past girlfriend last year,
and he likes me and i like him...
im pretty sure he is going to ask me out but idk if he'll cheat again, i dont want to take that risk of being hurt, but i really like him...

so do you think people who cheat deserve a second change, [he didnt cheat on me, but one of his past g.fs] or should i just move on and forget him [once a cheater.. always a cheater..?]

thnx<3

2007-09-04 11:00:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

wat does he/she do to make u feel on top of the world

2007-09-04 10:57:39 · 47 answers · asked by Carolyn S 2

Ok i just got molested by my aunts fiance b cuz i was living there n all but then my aunt dont believe me after he said he was guilty of all the charges n so now she kicked me out of the house n i was living with my botfriend which is 250 miles away n now i live with my dad But my Man Shane says we can still make this work b cuz i am his one true love n he really is mine do you think we can still make this work if we really love each other???????

2007-09-04 10:55:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a guy is more 'calm', like sometimes doesnt say much ?? not as in never saying anything, just like being 'noticeably untalkative.....(but being otherwise nice kind cool bla bla )
does that make you feel like hes not interested? or arrogant? or boring????
how could i avoid it?

2007-09-04 10:54:13 · 1 answers · asked by rtyertyret 1

My boyfriend and I are crazy in love planning to get married in the spring and well he wants to have sex. I want to have sex too but to me it means so much. Its a special bond between two people in love and I want candles and music and he says sex is just sex and doesn't mean much. what do you think about sex?

2007-09-04 10:52:41 · 11 answers · asked by camdensmommy07 2

How do you act around a girl you like?

Here is a short story can you give me your opinion on whether or not you think this guy likes me?

Ok. Theres this guy in my graphic art/ webpage design class at school and he is also in my finance class. In graphic art, he is always trying to make me laugh (it works too) and he is very friendly and talks to me all the time. He also follows me to my 3rd block Pre-Algebra class. Everyday in finance when he walks by my chair, he tries to tickle me and pokes me on the back or messes up my hair. Every single time I see him, he smiles at me. Do you think he likes me? I think he does but what is your opinion?

By The Way: The guys name is Cordell

All opinions are greatly appreciated!

2007-09-04 10:48:07 · 17 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3

the guy i like is really shy around me, is it ok if i make the first move and give him my number and/or ask him out? any hints on getting him to say yes?

2007-09-04 10:48:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like girls that have morals and dont sleep around...so it always saddens me when i like a girl and i hear or see pictures on facebook of her doing disgusting thigs like drinking herself to death, taking drugs and going around with guys...but i like this particular girl and i cant tell if she gets around...what are the signs, and how can i tell?

2007-09-04 10:44:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

100 guy secrets. are they true?
I KNOW ITS ALOT TO READ, but im just wondering if these are true. So, guys tell me the truth!



1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they
always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend
11. When guys want to meet your parents...let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have
one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it
is...drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up...believe me...he will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this
makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know
what...uh...never mind!"would him jump to a conclusion that is far from
what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "um"...or makes any excuses when you'reasking him to do you a favor, he's actually
saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no",guys hears it as "try again 2morrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of
roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime...he does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve...girls are guy's weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him
wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty...even for just a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much
pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his
problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get
the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but...her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too
possessive...so watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they break up
esp. when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved
with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-
been-busted, never been in-love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl...he really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying
"Please come and listen to me"
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy started to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but
court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure
unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms...no kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be
surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than
attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is
about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable
decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he jus tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them,
they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed on you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your
boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your
boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain...when he cries in
front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only
flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intention if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things...not their hair!
97. If someone says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your
relationships.


REMINDER: Test a guy first if he's really the one. Some are just pretending to be the one.

2007-09-04 10:38:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been bf/gf for almost a year now.

2007-09-04 10:26:57 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to take a girl skating on a date (holding hands and all that!) and so need somewhere nice and in a good setting. Ideally it would be fairly central.

2007-09-04 10:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by Gavin C 2

HELP ME!!

2007-09-04 10:19:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

so at what age should u lose ur viginity
i really need to know

2007-09-04 10:12:07 · 40 answers · asked by Pierre Andrews 1

we've known eachother for a week now, and talk to eachother at least 3 hours a day on msn .

i need to know if he's only going to use me for his own pleasure... what should i do?.. please help! :(

2007-09-04 10:07:25 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK im in a long distance relationship? And i want to buy my gf a vibrator, and i talked to her about it alittle and she's alittle iffy, like she doesnt want one. What should I do? Do you think she really wants one, but is trying to cover it up?

2007-09-04 10:07:15 · 19 answers · asked by jdf 1

my ex is in the same first period as me and besides him i dont know anyone else and the teacher put him right behind and i really dont know what to do cuz the way we broke up i can never forgive him cuz he was wrong and wouldnt talk to me so i said sorry and still he wouldnt talk to me ....wat to dooo =[

2007-09-04 10:06:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-04 10:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my guy and i have been seeing eachother since mid-june. Basically our "relationship" has been based on sex and i was fine with it. Now i have really began to like him and fall for him and i don't know how to tell him i want more. Lately we've been cuddling/watching movies but everytime we see eachother we have to have sex, we just cant "hang out". it was a FWB relationship but iwant more. We see eachother 2-3 times a week, call eachother "babe" and "hun" and are really affectionate to eachother. But the thing im scared of is he is embarressed of me. Im overweight and he only has me over when his roommates are in bed or not home. Once his roommate came home when i was over and he locked me in his room til he left. And whenever i have an empty place for the night he will stay for a few hours and go home, he wont sleep over. He makes werid excuses and says "next time". But everytime he makes a new excuse. What should i do? should i tell him how i feel or just end it? i really like him.

2007-09-04 09:58:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We live in different towns because of college, but I travel 7 hours every weekend to see her. This past weekend she left me, saying that she has too much trouble for a relationship and feeling guilty about me putting so much effort into the relationship while she is not doing the same. The troubles that she is talking about is her mother's sickness. She has cancer, and it has gotten really serious lately. I know that she is going through really hard times, but why has she dumped me if I was only helping and supporting her? She also said that she wants a relationship with me when she gets over her problems, but I am really confused because if she still wants to be with me, why is she leaving me? I love this girl and I am willing to wait, but I don't want to live in an illusion. What should I do? What can I expect? Does she really wants a relationship with me or she is saying that just to be nice to me?

2007-09-04 09:58:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

They are, they only want a Thug and a Dope dealer and someone who will live off them and beat their asss, unlike the white woman, she is loyal, kind , commited and is straight forward and not to mention she knows how to keep her snatch smelling fresh unlike most sisters

2007-09-04 09:58:11 · 9 answers · asked by Loco 1

bc he asked me out and i dk what to do!

2007-09-04 09:48:07 · 48 answers · asked by ballerina 33 1

2007-09-04 09:47:54 · 4 answers · asked by party grl 1

there is this guy that ive liked for a long time.
a very good friend of mine asked him who he liked. he said he wanted to keep it a secret.
he only told her that it was someone on the tennis team (which narrows it down to 7 girls and i am one of them)
he told one of the girls on the tennis team and i already asked her but she wont tell me. she told another girl and she wont tell me either. so that narrows it down to 5 girls. then i heard the two girls talking to another girl on the tennis team and they were only giving the girl hints. they said it was either me or two of my friends. so that naroows it down to 3 girls. he has given me signs that he likes me but i dont know. the guy i like knows that im friends with the girl who asked him who he liked. i dont know. some hints hes given me were.......
1. said i had pretty eyes
2. drew a picture of me
3. he is always starring at me
4 and other things that are smaller. but he didnt do it to the other 3 girls. does he like me????

2007-09-04 09:46:48 · 8 answers · asked by Morgan A 3

2007-09-04 09:43:08 · 27 answers · asked by Schlogy 1

I have many friends why not many more

2007-09-04 09:38:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like old men.

2007-09-04 09:35:38 · 9 answers · asked by the girl ♥ 4

Before my boyfriend and I started dating we were friends for over a year. Gradually we developed feelings for each other and now we date.
The problem I have is that he has a lot of female friends. 99% of his friend base is female. Further, he's also hooked up with 90% of the friends in one way or another. His bestfriend is also female and he used to be in love with her (he told me when we were just friends) and she calls him all the time and wants him to be available if she ever "needs" or "wants" to marry him (yeah, totally weird woman).

Okay, this huge female harem is threatening to me. I do not know how to deal with all these women, especially those he's had sexual encounters with. I don't know how to act around these women, I feel so uncomfortable knowing he's had intimate encounters with them. What do I do?

2007-09-04 09:30:41 · 9 answers · asked by polaris8215 1

been dating 4 weeks, can i let one rip yet cos its hard as hell holging em in all night long.

2007-09-04 09:30:08 · 30 answers · asked by andy n 2

My girlfriend popped her cherry herself. She's still a virgin but did it on her own. I'm fine with it but I wanted to ask whether it will bleed more. She said it didn't bleed much when she popped it but I had heard that it may bleed again the first time.

Anyone know anything about this?

2007-09-04 09:27:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous