I have been dating this guy for a little over a month now, and we had a GREAT weekend together this last weekend. We were talking though Sun night, and I brought up the fact that he doesn't call me as much as he used to, and that he didn't seem as interested (hindsight, probably shouldn't have said anything, but it had been bugging me) and that I just wanted to make sure I wasn't a booty call. He pretty much went cold and told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship, and if that was what I wanted then we need to part our ways. My question, though is - if you are dating someone, isn't that considered a "relationship" - I don't know if I even want something long term or anything yet with this guy, I wasn't even asking him to be exclusive. I was going to call him tonight and talk more, as we have been sending some emails back and forth, and now it sounds like he just wants to "be friends". Should I just move on, try to be friends with him, or try to find out where he is coming from?
2007-09-04
05:06:57
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KD
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