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ia 17yrs old iam in love with a guy who is 3yrs younger then me &he also loves me a loooot.Now d problem is as we want to get married with each other after6-7yrs bt as he is 3yrs younger then me my parents will never agree 4 our relationship. ON ONE HAND WE BOTH CANT LIVE WITHOUT EACH OTHER &ON THE OTHER HAND I DNT WANT TO HURT MY PARENTS.SO PLZ TELL ME WHETHER I SHOULD CONTINUE THIS RELATIONSHIP OR NT .PLZ 1ST SUGGEST ME THEN ASK A QUETION
2007-09-04 05:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by bhuvaneswari i 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the best thing would be to wait. First of all, three years may not seem like a big difference, but it can be. Then, by the time he gets to where you are now, alot could have changed, ya know. I say enjoy whatever time you do have and don't rush anything.
2007-09-04 06:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get your dupatta in a knot. Get busy preparing the more basic elements of your future. Get started now. Believe me, this talk of who should marry whom, when and under whose conditions, will all seem quite empty and academic if you do not develop (how shall I put it) some of your other talents and potential.
Become a doctor, for example, and see how easy it is to make your own decisions and to get everyone following happily along.
If your special friend can't keep his shirt on for a few years while you create your own independent future, then he must be the plaything of his appetites, poor felllow. (And you aren't anything like that.) On the other hand, If he can wait, he will have proven himself. I should be so fortunate as to have a son-in-law like him. Then there would be nothing amiss about a thirty-year-old male professional marrying a thirty-three--year-old professional woman.
Don't flip out over these numbers. The more time goes by, the faster it passes. For example, a few years wait for me is like one of your seasons.
2007-09-04 16:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by hindisikhnewaalaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's incredibly significant to you, you have a minimum of made it less demanding for us to understand the question. So he's saying u're the two no longer waiting for marriage, maybe he's precise. each and every relationship, wether that is mom-daughter or boyfriend-female chum or regardless of, is approximately transforming into and gaining wisdom of. you will discover which you will improve and study from interactions with new human beings. maybe that is a sturdy component to have a ruin from one yet another, that way if he relatively misses you, u could pick him back. If he does not pass over u, maybe it wasn't meant to be.
2016-10-17 22:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are 17, u dont even know what real life is. live off ur teenage years with him before even thinking of settling down. before u have a taste of adulthood, working world, and most of all, maturity, which is apparently not fully developed.
theres no such thing as "cant live without each other"
as of now the only thing that phrase deserve to be applied to is to ur parents.
2007-09-04 21:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by himeyammie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, you will soon be of legal age to marry and choose your future. second if your parents object to the match THEY DONT KNOW YOUR FEELINGS FOR HIM AND HIM FOR YOU! i say that because you and he are in love continue on with the relationship.
2007-09-04 17:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by HurtAndConfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r absolutely mad cauz if u don't want to hurt ur parents then u have to do what ur parent say , not of ur boy frnd
2007-09-06 01:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by DUDE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a list of all his qualities so you can communicate with your parents what is good about him, maybe you can have him meet them?
2007-09-04 06:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by marg3030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will stop this relation to avoid hurt your parents
2007-09-04 05:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget this idea to get merry with him, what I thought
2007-09-04 05:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋