how do you get them eating out of your hands-playing it cool 1. if they have the same idea and 2. without loosing their interest??
2007-09-04 05:13:36 · 16 answers · asked by Bimbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself. Honestly, be the real you...but, don't reveal all your cards at once. Let him in a little at a time, and that is what keeps him coming back. You are interesting, so he wants to learn more about you. Don't play too many games, or he will get way bored with that. Be the kind of girl he wants to spend time with, not the kind he wants to sleep with and then move on. If he doesn't like the real you, then who cares??? You don't want to be with him anyway, you want to be with someone that is genuinely interested in you.
2007-09-04 05:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by CuitePie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple, if you can wrap your head around it: Don't want him. A hot and happy woman who's completely indifferent to him drives a man crazy.
You know the way that guys you don't have the slightest intention of ever hooking up with will flirt and charm and beg? OR the way that they all seem to come out of the woodwork as soon as you're "off the market"? That's the thread. I'm not talking about playing games -- you have to believe that you most likely would be better off without them -- but then it's that confidence and not-needing-him that is so attractive.
2007-09-04 05:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by . 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have you heard of the book called the rules. Always be busy,always be mysterious,. A man likes to fight for your attention. If a man knows you realyl well -they get bored. Men love interesting women . Believe me they will come looking for you. they are natural born hunters. Remember to look attractive and never stay on the phone too long -have something to do and rush off sometimes. A man will then say i wonder what she is doing. Let him fight for your attention.**the problem with most women they give in and just be there for a man when they ask. ***don't be there let him be jealous for your attention**** let him worry and think about you. Let him say i hope no one else is trying to talk to you. *** even when the relationship get really good ***again disappear*** let the man worry***you see if you are there all the time well he knows that and he has nothing to worry about***remember you are the prize ***let him fight for you ***men love doing that*** read the rules***the authors have been on T.V. and this works***
2007-09-04 05:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-31 12:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bimbo,
there's a sentence I never thought I'd say.
Anyway, the guy code prevents me from revealing the answer to your question. But I'll gladly give you a piece of advice - forget the games, forget the charts and graphs. If you want men to desire you, to crave you - show them you are a fun and interesting person to know. Don't sleep with them on a first date. Be someone he wants to know and spend time with, not someone he wants to conquer and leave behind.
good luck ~
2007-09-04 05:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by yoak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always hated this approach. Have you heard of the bait and wait? Meaning, leave a little bait out there, and wait for them to respond, never approach them first! I think you have to be genuine and honest. The guy will fall in love with you and so to speak "eat out of your hands" when that happens. But, unconditional love means you would do the same thing for him!
2007-09-04 05:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
act like you're not into them. While they are talking, let your attention wander elsewhere, then look back at him. Smile and nod as if you were listening. Its all about the game-if he knows you're interested, then you're less interesting to him. Give another guy a sultry look-stuff like that. Touch his arm now and then and respond with something like-"wow, your arms are so big!" (something of that nature-complimenting something). It sounds stupid, but it works.
2007-09-04 05:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never be too available with a guy, you will keep his interest longer if you are somewhat of a challenge. Be yourself, don't try to "act" a certain way just because you think he will like it. Have a life of your own, guys like it when women have their own interests, opinions, and passions.
2007-09-04 05:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you like a guy and he likes you back, just tell him all that he wants to hear, make him feel wanted even more, have him doing things for you a peice by piece though, get to know each other more, buy him little things, let him know you care, and he'll start, doing things for youon demand.
2007-09-04 05:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Smiley4ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People in general are attracted to people that have an aura of happy kindred spirit, in other words people who are upbeat, positive,don't gossip,laugh, even touchy(careful), listen, empathetic,just cant be put in a bad mood. Its been my experience that people who aren't comfortable in there own skin want to hang with people I've described.
2007-09-04 05:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by wakemovement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋