My last question asked why some women are disguested by porn. And one woman made a good point that porn lacks an emotional backstory. Which 9 out 10 times I could buy, but it seems to me everyone at some point wants to skip the lovey dovey romance and just wants to get to have some physical fun.
Now before you call me a pervert. Sex is an act, like running and swiming. Sometimes people have an emotional reason to run, like you are being chased down the street by a dog. But sometimes people just like to run for the hell of it.
So what about sex. I think women who are so disguested by porn probably feel that way because they don't understand the idea of sex purely for physical enjoyment. Because they likly don't enjoy sex on a purely physical level. They enjoy it on an emotional level which is great, but I wonder do most women ever just love sex purely on the physical level of having sex?
2007-09-04 03:44:07 · 7 answers · asked by Place holder 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
screaming inside, I did not mean to offend anyone. I am sorry if I did.
I am simply trying to understand women's views on sex.
I would not call you odd, in fact I am trying to learn which type of woman is normal, those who only like the lovey dovey part of sex or those who don't.
Yet you prove my point. Women who are not disgusted by porn can enjoy sex on both a physical and emotional level.
2007-09-04 04:03:41 · update #1
Absolutely...sex is fun (emotional attachment need not be present)...think about it, if we always needed emotions to be part of it, we wouldn't masturbate.
Sex is a recreational activity...lovemaking is what you do with someone you really dig. Both are totally kewl activities.
P.S. Porn is kewl too...I've got my own small collection. They aren't meant to be love stories...I can read a smutty romance book if I feel the need for emotion (which sometimes I do).
2007-09-04 03:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Physical Love Making
2016-12-16 05:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by keetan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
society puts limitations on how wmen should behave when it comes to anything...especially sex. eastern and african cultures have had women castrated..when they are girls so they could not enjoy sexual pleasure...and they did it in the name of what ever god or beleif they had..afterall to them, this was solely a man's pleasure. the good thing is that castration for the most part is no longer practiced.
sex is both an emotional and physical experience, i totally agree. for most women, if there is affection...it is much better. i also believe that men would like affection to be there but not a requirement. when i look at the issue of porn, this is something that helps get a man off...likewise a woman when she is alone or even as foreplay. sometimes just good old fashioned let's get to raunchy sex is great!
i do not mind porn, i love sex. it is enjoyment. don't get me wrong...i am not a player but when i am in a relationship, it is a part of it. bedroom games are much more fun when we can enjoy each others whims and fantasies...porn can be a part of that.
2007-09-04 05:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I'm offended. So, since I'm not disgusted by porn, and I don't want the lovey dovey stuff - are you telling me I'm odd? :) Yeah, I guess I'm not like the majority of women out there but that's what makes me so good.
To simply answer your question - yes, some women just enjoy the physical level.
2007-09-04 03:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by screaming inside 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some women do. Infact a lot of women do these days and they are not prostitutes. some women do have a high libido and crave for sex all the time whether they are emotionally attached or not. Some even get a high from having sex with someone they don't know.
But i would also say that for a lot of women (a higher percentage, i think), we prefer to have our emotions attached first before the 'act' of sex or lovemaking, as some of us like to call it, comes in.
2007-09-04 03:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by let'stalk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't know cos I haven't done it yet but I think the answer would be yes if you aren't embarassed and can truely go for it. Maybe it's easier if you don't know the person that well and you've agreed that it's a one off, non serious relationship.
That way you can be detached enough to focus on the physical side and forget the rest.
2007-09-04 03:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. sometimes, you get tired of all of the mental and emotional issuses that go along with sex and are simply turned on and want to have your needs fulfilled. most women will not admit to wanting to just have sex for the phisical sake of it. I on the other hand will simply because its true.
2007-09-04 03:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by can you help me345 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are called prostitues
2007-09-04 03:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Balrog 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋