Singles & Dating - 4 September 2007

I know most girls want to like nice guys, but they'll go after the 'bad boy' type every time. Why are so many girls like this?

2007-09-04 18:55:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I drink but very little and hardly ever get s*** faced.

2007-09-04 18:53:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

All my guy-freinds can get girlfriends whenever they want, they don't even have to try. and whats worse is that they don't even care, HELL THEY USUALLY PREFER TO BE SINGLE.

Im the one who actually wants a girlfriend and I get ****. I even hear that I go after ugly girls (I thought most of them were cute damn it and they have great personalities) and they still reject me, im not even trying to get hot big titted bimbos!!!

and every time I ever ask anyone for help or advice I always get that same Bullshit phrase

"Dont Worry the right girl will come along someday"

Well when the **** is that day!!! WHY DO I HAVE TO WAIT FOR IT!!! I WANT IT MORE THEN ANY 3 OTHER GUYS PUT TOGETHER

And I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about a real damn girlfriend!!!

I didn't get to go to my senior prom, but all my freinds did, hell ALL day after it in school I heard how boring it was, and even before hand I heard people saying that they didn't even want to go, that they were just going beacuse "Its Prom" AM I THE ONLY GUY WHO ACTUALLY WANTED TO GO!!! BUT NO I DIDN'T GET TO GO!!!

Its not fair, I'm nice and sweet and gentelmanly, not beacuse im trying to get into a girls pants, but because I actually like being nice to girls and I get ****!!!

Why Do I have to wait, IM THE ONLY GUY WHO WANTS IT WHY DOSE EVERYONE ELSE GET IT AND NOT ME!!

Not to sound vain and proud but They don't deserve it half as much as I do. Im the one who tries as hard as he ******* can every god damn day. Im the one who's only reason for getting up in the morning is the chance that I could meet a nice girl AND IM THE ONE WHO ENDS UP ALONE AT THE END OF THE DAY!!! AGAIN!!

And Please no religious responses, I'm a Christian, but it almost makes me mad enough to deny a just and loving god

2007-09-04 18:48:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl and she like me 2 but shes wit this guy but he is not treating her right n stuff but shes likes him anyways but it doesnt matter if i might get wit her or not ..i just wat her to be happy ..and tomorrow is skool and i promise to hug her but i dont know how n where .

so wat do u think i should do and how to hug her ??

2007-09-04 18:46:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated this really great girl that I have known since I have been in high school for a couple months and then like a dumbass I just stopped calling her. I think she is so perfect and I called her really drunk this weekend and left a message crying begging for her forgivenss ( yes, Im pethatic) she sent me a text message the next day saying she got my message and I sounded wasted and not to be a stranger. Should I call her?

2007-09-04 18:46:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

mi bf cheated on me w/hiz ex then, he said he'll think abut who he will go out w/ should i got out w/him

2007-09-04 18:45:46 · 12 answers · asked by Stacie A 1

Whenever someone tells you they need a break during a relationship do you think they really mean break or is it really a break up?

2007-09-04 18:43:28 · 16 answers · asked by Leesha 4

Do you like fake boobs or natural ones?

2007-09-04 18:41:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

aaaahhhhh!!!!! lol. but seriously. my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year+ now and we are really happy. since then, this one ex gf has been trying to come between us.
like for instance, she would adjust her screenname to match his (she is on his top friends. they are still cool, but not like that, i know this.) then when i put my page on private, she changed her name to cooperate the word "the intimidator."
that was last month. now. my bf and i had an argument and he posted something about a knife in a bulletin (he wasnt talking literally and both of us were posting jokes back n forth) and she not only changed her name to "smile n your face" but she got her sister to change hers to "all the time they wanna take your place" , quoting the old OJays song, backstabbers. basically, i wanna know if i should put her in her place or leave it alone.

p.s. he is a minister/preacher and church females will be ruthles in order to get with men with this status. what should i do?

2007-09-04 18:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by kandycisses 1

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DO you think im being bad, irrational for thinking that women who get pregnant and marry early?

women who married early wasted their life, i am so sick and tired of my friends getting married at the age 0f 18, of my cousin wanting to get married at the age of 21 without even trying to reach her dreams, as if marrying is the point and purpose of all women, im just so sad whenever many 16 to 20 year old women who have not fulfilled their dreams and career yet, and they marry and they lose many chances and possibilities in life,as if sex is all that matters, i dont
understand it, is it still love if it takes away chances that should have made a woman better?

2007-09-04 18:11:59 · 23 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

Whenever I see a question on here from a woman asking **** like

"How can I get a man"
or
"How can I get him to like me"

(Now unless the girl was REALLY REALLY REALLY ugly AND fat) it makes no sense

GOD IT MAKES ME SO ANGRY!!!

Where are these girls who are looking for boyfriends!!!

You have no idea how hard the dating scene is for a guy, IT SUCKS FOR US!! WE HAVE TO DO ALL THE WORK!!

Its so easy for women to get guys, why do they need help.

2007-09-04 18:07:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in the same chemistry class as this guy
im a sohmore he's a junior
my friend is in the same english class and she told me that he was planning on breaking up with his girlfriend.
on friday he sat next to me and it was reeeally cute how he introduced himself and everyhting and then randomy he told me " im really mad MY GIRLFRIEND is smoking cigs" and i was just liek great his girlfriend. but then today he sat next to me again and it wass totally flirtatious I CANT STEEEAL HIM FROM HIS GIRLFRIEND THOUGH!!

i want him to think of me as more of a consideration if he breaks up with that chick. i dont want to just be a friend. anything i should say to him?

like hey wanna tutor me??? lol

i heard if you use phrases liek" it was soooo HARD" it will make him think of sex :)

2007-09-04 18:05:11 · 4 answers · asked by Merideth 2

She basically told me that she likes this one guy more, who is breaking up with her boyfriend to go out with her (she has knwon him since the beginning of summer, I believe?). I guess I should have known when she spent an hour talking to this guy on the phone the other night when I was with her at a party. We were set to go out on a date after making out at the end of the party. The usual cheer me up crap applies too (I am good looking, I would go out with you if it wasn't for him, etc she told me)

Is it something I did or was it just not meant to be? I guess I got what was coming to since I have pulled the same crap with girls in the past (sometimes by completely never speaking to them again without saying a word).

2007-09-04 18:01:39 · 2 answers · asked by MLeinart7 2

Okay, My freinds say I have high standards and thats what keeps my from talking to girls and not fear. (Trust me its the fear)

I don't know what it is, but Im just not attracted to "Sexy" women, I Guess Im more of a girl next door kind of guy, I like the sweet and cute over sexy and hot.

Here is what I look for

Overall Smaller then me (Im 5'7 and 150lbs) I have to be taller and Im not fat so i don't deserve a fat chick.

Younger then me Peferebly HS Senior, (Im a college sophmore, but Im a year younger then evryone in my class, my birthday was right at the cutoff point when i was a kid) and I would like to go to Prom (I didint get to go to mine)

Not Black...I don't mean that in a racist way, Im just not attracted to them.

Not super-southern (I live in north carolina) I mean like confederate flag in there room, that damn accent, and that southern girl face(you know what Im talking about)

Heres the big one, heres the one that screws me most of all though

NO TATTOS OR CRAZY PEARCINGS!!!!

I can't stand them, I know I have no right to be picky. but Im just not into them, they instantly kill ALL ATTRACTION i have for the girl.

Other then that as long as the face isn't Horrible, And me and my freinds joke that my 10 scale has a 2.5 point curve (There 4 is my 6.5)

But unfortunately it feels like almost ALL girls are either fat or black and then jump to the other extreme of SUPER HOT AND SEXY (And even if I was into those girls I couldent get one, I would say Im mabey a 4 myself.)

what is wrong with me...

2007-09-04 17:58:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want some "Hey baby why don't you come over to my place and we can do something." I want a clean pick up on a girl. What can I say if I see a girl in a bar or club and I just want to talk and maybe ask her out. Not looking for a one night stand. So what are a few good lines that I can say to a girl if I want to just ask her out or get to know her or something if I see her in a club/bar.

2007-09-04 17:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

hai..female 20 here. Married some days ago and had first sex with my husband yesterday..well, it wasnt "sex" fully, coz when he tried to penetration it hurt tremendous after he push his penis about half inch in side me. is this normal? it hurt me a lot..after that, he quit coz he didnt want to hurt me..he said, take ur time we will try later again..after some time i found that i m bleeding...it bleed a lot then, later it became slow....even it bleed till today morning..is this normal too?do u think, my hyment absolutely broke or its just streched?

i m so scared thinking, if his half inch penis inside me hurt me like this...how can i tolarate till last???? thnx.

2007-09-04 17:42:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bro is a senior and he dont want his name online so he wants me to ask for him he is going to take the best answer and do it he is a big prankster.

2007-09-04 17:42:17 · 18 answers · asked by alpha777 1

Have you ever followed someone on Y!A and tried to learn as much about them as possible based on the answers they give? Do you keep notes on your favorites? Just wondering cuz it seems to me that some people do that!

2007-09-04 17:42:10 · 18 answers · asked by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5

2007-09-04 17:42:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

No, not that kind of date, the fruit kind. A single date. Would you give it to him or give him a hard time? Do tell.

2007-09-04 17:41:55 · 18 answers · asked by http://fuelthearmy.com 3

I'm not sure but it really feels like he's jealous. He went into my profile and read my comments (I don't mind this at all, just to let you guys know) and I think he saw my guy friends flirting with me and stuff. I told my friends to stop, but they keep doing it anyway. He hasn't said anything TO ME about it, though. One time, he did confront one of my guys friends, but he didn't tell me, and my friend told me instead and I told him that we're only friends and not to worry.
I don't want to ask him about it, because it might bring that "jealous feeling" back and then he'll get frustrated with it and argue? I'm not sure but I don't want him to be more upset. I assure him day to day that I have no other interest in other guys but him, and he fully understands yet he still seems to get jealous.
Is that natural for guys? (I don't really understand how a guys brain works...haha) And why doesn't he tell me? Should I confront him about it? :/ It's making me worry.
Thank you guys >_<

2007-09-04 17:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by 2514 2

I am a freshman in college and moved in on the 25th of August. My roommmate and I at the time had discussed moving in and such for months before we moved in. On Sunday the day after we moved in my roommmate decided she hated the school and she wanted to move out. I was VERY UPSET!!!

Last Friday I got a phone call that this other girl really wanted to be my roommmate. I was packing to leave to go home and walked downstairs to meet her. She seemed very nice didn't drink, didn't party none of that stuff.

I wanted to wait until Monday since it was my room and I had the choice as to whether or not she was my roommmate I had asked if I could wait until Monday. Well, the girl's mother was there and was pushing me to allow her daughter to stay with me. She said that her daughter would not be here until Wednesday and they would have really liked to get her stuff moved that day (Friday)

Unsure of what to do at that point I agreed and signed the contract allowing her to be my new roommmate

2007-09-04 17:34:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my last bf broke up with me at the begining of the summer because he said that he wanted to hang out with his freinds and didnt want to worry bout havin a gf.after he dumped me he was being a total jerk to me by like always ignoring me whenever i wanted to talk to him cause i was so confused and he would say all these things to me when he was around his freinds.he sent me an email sayin he was sorry. and we never talked since and through most of the summer i still liked him for sum reason and now that school started. its so awkard bewtween us and i dont know how to get over him. becuase he was the biggest jackass to me. how do u get over sumone?

2007-09-04 17:34:50 · 11 answers · asked by dandy-xx* 2

we have been off and on for 5 years (mostly on and dont council me on this cause its not part of my question). and we love eachother very much. i am a logical thinker, think things threw and make good decisions. im in college and in 2 years ill have my architecture degree. my parents are SUPER strict and dont let me stay out to late and call a billion times . im 21. i live in there house and cant move out till i graduate. (we've all decided). i love and respect them and care sooo much about what they have to say. for some reason they dont like my bf. he comes over a few times a week ad we go out. its a normal relationship until u figure out that they DONT KNOW ABOUT IT. they can't be stupid. they MUST know but ive never flat out told them. he does come over and call me beautiful and acts a litte affectionate towards me so they MUST KNoW. once i tried to tell them and they said they would lock me up if they had to cause there is no way i was going to end up with him.

2007-09-04 17:33:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-04 17:32:29 · 20 answers · asked by vivin p 1

this guy and girl see each other in the same chemistry class once a week. she's pretty sure he's interested. he looks at her in class very often. smiles alot when he talks. holds the door for her, changed his bus route for hers etc. but, he

1. can talk to girls very easily but is tongue-tied around you. he'd pop to the loo sometimes instead of going over to talk when your alone

2. he has no probs sitting with girls and all but has problem having physical contact with you. he leaves a "space" when he's beside you

3. made like he wanted your no on that bus trip but took out his phone, looked at you and kept it after awhile. and didnt actually dare take the seat beside you on the bus til you made way for him

4. doesnt talk when your/his friends are ard. and, doesnt look at you when his friend is there.
5.you text him, he texts back actually but you didnt receive it. then he texts again asking if you've received it and wishing you a goodnight.

wth is he doing?

2007-09-04 17:32:05 · 9 answers · asked by Nat 2

ok i think i might have a crush she doesn't know i exict yet how should i approach her and wat do i say to her

2007-09-04 17:27:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to surprise my guy friend tomorrow, so need some responces from guys thats a guaranteed turn on & starts rather innocently...so spill it!

2007-09-04 17:27:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

On anything you have tried or mantain

2007-09-04 17:26:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm shy. and thats because i care too much about what people think of me. what can i do to not care???

2007-09-04 17:24:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous