hai..female 20 here. Married some days ago and had first sex with my husband yesterday..well, it wasnt "sex" fully, coz when he tried to penetration it hurt tremendous after he push his penis about half inch in side me. is this normal? it hurt me a lot..after that, he quit coz he didnt want to hurt me..he said, take ur time we will try later again..after some time i found that i m bleeding...it bleed a lot then, later it became slow....even it bleed till today morning..is this normal too?do u think, my hyment absolutely broke or its just streched?
i m so scared thinking, if his half inch penis inside me hurt me like this...how can i tolarate till last???? thnx.
2007-09-04 17:42:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was the breaking of your hymen that caused the pain and blood. It should be much easier now. Just get some KY Jelly and put it on him and inside you before you try again. Tell him to enter slowly, and all will be okay. It will make it easier for him to enter you, and you will enjoy it much more. Believe me, the worse is over now, it only gets better from here.
2007-09-04 17:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
specific, that is common for virgins to bleed for some days after intercourse because of the hymen being torn (very own journey). If the guy does it precise, it is going to in basic terms harm the 1st few seconds, then it gets greater suitable because of the fact the intercourse is going on. Did he do foreplay earlier he entered you or no longer? If no longer, next time try greater foreplay for lubrication. Use lube in case you need to. If he nevertheless can no longer penetrate you, he may be too enormous for you (it happens - it got here approximately to me with an ex). Then he will purely ought to bypass midway in.
2016-10-04 00:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that your anxiety of the first time you spasmed up contracting the *****. The more he pushed the more you had that reaction. It must be horribly frustrating and the more it was the worse it got. You need some patience, it will take a while to heal. Have a hot bath, it relaxes the muscles. Too much lubricant is almost enough.
2007-09-04 17:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats normal and to even be sore or feel a dry almost sharp pain the next day or so. you shouldnt be bleeding a lot, if you are or are continuing maybe you should see a doctor. Also, just as men come in different sizes, so do females; the vaginal canal can vary in length as well, so maybe youre on the small side in comparison to your husband
2007-09-04 17:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by donna p 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well... used something that left this penis slippery... lube... and you initiate the penetration... no let you husband do it... be comfortable with his penis... and try again.. also try to see a specialist about this... maybe you are a littler dry... inside.. So... let try again with the lube.. if this no work... find help...
good luck
2007-09-04 17:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by jorge c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...this is so normal...my first time hurt alot..
no one likes their first time...
you kinda just gotta go throught the pains...
next time before you have sex...fool around a little...
get him to stimulate you "down there"
maybe eat you eat...
and very lubricated...
that way penetration wont be as painful
2007-09-04 17:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some stretches. Insert your fingers (2 or 3) and stretch yourself. You know what you can tolerate. Go slowly, you have a lifetime together.
2007-09-04 17:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by AskMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u masterbate when you were younger
in slang this is called "pop your cherry" (tearing of the hymen and so it bleeds)
i would just say masturbate everyday
and use toys
and have your husband help you masturbate until you can go into full on penetration.
2007-09-04 17:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it could always be that he's a lil too big for you...but i agree with the first answer that should help....good luck
2007-09-04 17:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by boricua1231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋