I don't want some "Hey baby why don't you come over to my place and we can do something." I want a clean pick up on a girl. What can I say if I see a girl in a bar or club and I just want to talk and maybe ask her out. Not looking for a one night stand. So what are a few good lines that I can say to a girl if I want to just ask her out or get to know her or something if I see her in a club/bar.
2007-09-04 17:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are interested in developing a relationship, not a quick hit. In this situation, the best course of action is "slow and steady wins the race." Many guys don't realize that she will signal when she is interested. Men cannot force their way, they must wait for her to signal him. The signals are usually subtle. If you are near her and simply comment on the music or some other neutral subject, and she is interested, she will let you know, by asking questions, or simply smiling and engaging you. If she doesn't hint at something, look elsewhere.
Flirting is a skill that takes time. Eye contact and a smile will go a long way. Neatness and originality count. Practice, practice, practice, even on girls who you do not find particularly attractive, they'll love it, and you'll learn from them. Baseball players work their way through the minor leagues. Never, ever suggest some deep involvement early in the interaction. You'll get the hang of it as you go along.
2007-09-04 17:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by BRUCE G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women hate lines. Just tell them somethin like this, "Hi, my name is _____. I was noticing you from across the room. Would you mind if I joined you for a drink." Buy her a drink and ask some nice questions about her. such as, what brought you out tonight?, what is your favorite band, have you seen any good movies lately, would you mind if I IM or called you sometime, etc... Always look her in the eye, so that she knows that you are being sincere. Give her that smile and you should be good.
2007-09-04 17:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no good pick up lines, because they all sound stupid. Just be your self, that is one thing guys do not understand, you are more attractive to us when you are being real and honest other than some cheap guy who doesn't know how to talk to women.
2007-09-04 17:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, am I dreaming, because you sure look like an Angel to me. or Your the prettiest girl I've seen all week. or Hey, will you slap me so I will know if I'm awake or not, I think I'm looking at a Goddess.
2007-09-04 18:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a "hey" would work if you can follow up with a good conversation. find things in common with her. be yourself.
and dont say any pick up lines that your not too sure about.
you dont wanna creep her out.
2007-09-04 17:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by riaaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you from tennessee cauz you the only 10 i see
bahahahaha
just kidding
tell her stories
like if something happens in the club say something that has happened to you that is somewhat like what happened
or you can say, "you gonna dance with me, right?"
make yourself sound confident, not too cocky or rude
2007-09-04 17:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you from tennessee? reason your the only 10 i see. are you a library card? reason i'm checkin you out are you fortunate charms? reason your magically scrumptious are you a magician? reason while your in the room you're making all and sundry else disappear. in the adventure that your precise leg is easter, and your left leg is thanksgiving, am i able to circulate to you in between the vacations?
2016-10-18 00:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HATE PICK UP LINES. there so cheesy and i and up laughing with my friends about them afterwards, just say hey, whats up? and dont say anything like damn girl you are so beautiful, cause its weird if you dont know the guy. so just keep it simple.
2007-09-04 17:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by jgksgkjfka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pickup lines are what your dad used on your mom..!! back in the day..sweetie no wonder your single pickup lines just dont do it anymore! now these days if you hand the girl a condom that's basically it.!
2007-09-04 17:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can just be normal and say hey wats up lol thta would work 4 me or would you like a drink would work nicely good luck
2007-09-04 17:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by pink-girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋