All my guy-freinds can get girlfriends whenever they want, they don't even have to try. and whats worse is that they don't even care, HELL THEY USUALLY PREFER TO BE SINGLE.
Im the one who actually wants a girlfriend and I get ****. I even hear that I go after ugly girls (I thought most of them were cute damn it and they have great personalities) and they still reject me, im not even trying to get hot big titted bimbos!!!
and every time I ever ask anyone for help or advice I always get that same Bullshit phrase
"Dont Worry the right girl will come along someday"
Well when the **** is that day!!! WHY DO I HAVE TO WAIT FOR IT!!! I WANT IT MORE THEN ANY 3 OTHER GUYS PUT TOGETHER
And I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about a real damn girlfriend!!!
I didn't get to go to my senior prom, but all my freinds did, hell ALL day after it in school I heard how boring it was, and even before hand I heard people saying that they didn't even want to go, that they were just going beacuse "Its Prom" AM I THE ONLY GUY WHO ACTUALLY WANTED TO GO!!! BUT NO I DIDN'T GET TO GO!!!
Its not fair, I'm nice and sweet and gentelmanly, not beacuse im trying to get into a girls pants, but because I actually like being nice to girls and I get ****!!!
Why Do I have to wait, IM THE ONLY GUY WHO WANTS IT WHY DOSE EVERYONE ELSE GET IT AND NOT ME!!
Not to sound vain and proud but They don't deserve it half as much as I do. Im the one who tries as hard as he ******* can every god damn day. Im the one who's only reason for getting up in the morning is the chance that I could meet a nice girl AND IM THE ONE WHO ENDS UP ALONE AT THE END OF THE DAY!!! AGAIN!!
And Please no religious responses, I'm a Christian, but it almost makes me mad enough to deny a just and loving god
2007-09-04 18:48:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I pray every night, Hell I'm the only guy I know who still goes to church.
I don't pray for winning the lottery or Millions of dollars or a harem of sexual desires, I just pray that I could meet a nice girl and he can't even give me that!!!
2007-09-04 18:51:05 · update #1
wow! i think your girlfriend will be the luckiest girl in the world. anyway I felt the same way b4 i met my gf, I mean what the hell, i have waited for a long time. it happens to everyone, they still goes through it. you cannot do anything about it,BCOZ if a girl doesn't like you then you cannot force her. one of my friend met his first girl at the age of 22. he went through the same problem you had, my advice is to look for hints, look if girls send you a good response, don't just go up and say hey you wanna hang out. if you are too desperate for something there is chance of getting hurt, don't be too ridiculous, have some patience. i know u get upset seeing your friends having girlfriend, holding them, hugging them, kissing them, makes you uncomfortable, u might feel jealous too. wait, your time will come up, have patience, have faith in yourself.
2007-09-04 19:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quote "and every time I ever ask anyone for help or advice I always get that same Bullshit phrase
"Dont Worry the right girl will come along someday"
What advice would you like? Oh if you wear red you'll find a girlfriend faster? It's not a science. There's no hard and fast find the girl for you in 10 easy steps.
Honnestly I think your scaring girls away. Your so eager to have a relationship you walk in to every relationship expecting to get married to the person.
Most people enjoy a relationship because it's light and fun, and it just happens.
"IM THE ONLY GUY WHO WANTS IT WHY DOSE EVERYONE ELSE GET IT AND NOT ME!!" you said yourself all your guy friends get girlfriends when ever they want then dump them or use them or what ever- they're getting what they want- and from the sounds of things you could have what they have- They don't have what you want, sure they have girlfriends but are any of them serious?
You will meet someone when you meet them and not a minuet sooner! Stop looking for a girlfriend, and just have fun. meet women, talk to them, get to know them- stop caring so much about the out come. They'll ether be the one or they wont be- you can't force them to be.
Sorry if you wanted the "oh poor you" response but lets be realistic - you can't force love.
2007-09-04 19:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude...1st thing u have 2 stop bein mad at every1 else and stop blaming urself 4 stuff. i 2 m what u would consider a "nice guy" which is obviously what u r. the 1st thing u need 2 know is that u cant go looking 4 love. as soon as u do that u become desperate and then ull never find it. i know u hate 2 hear it but seriously if u just wait and b patient itll happen. it sounds 2 me like u just graduated so ur probably 17 or 18 years old. thats way 2 young 2 fall in love. u should b goin out with the guys and havin fun. u have the rest of ur life 2 fall in love. dont worry. its a great thing that ur nice and respectful 2 women. the thing is that women ur age still dont realize that most guys r ***holes and will hurt them. once they realize that theyll b looking 4 the nice guys
2007-09-04 18:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will find that girls are the best of friends. They are better friends than the guys you might be hanging with! In fact, having a girl friend is an automatic if you just engage with girls, talk to them, smell them without being obvious, and enjoy them, get to know them, and ask questions. They will at the right time, take you by the hand and lead you into Paradise. I guaranty it!
Once you get over the initial fear, it is so much better than you thought, you just go on until you meet a great one, and then you get serious. Most of them are great, except for the one who have been abused, same is true for guys. And even the abused are wonderful! They are just harder to connect with in the beginning. But keep on keeping on with the bravery.
2007-09-04 19:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My b/f never had a girl until his 5th year in college.
Finally this dorky freshman came along and he swept me off my feet.
"Don't worry. She'll come." is the response he always got when he was frustrated and said something about it.
Truth is, it is still hard and hurts.
I guess rather than answering your question, I want to let you know that you're not the only guy out there who has been longing for a real girlfriend, not just some chic who'll put out, but a real relationship that has something to it.
2007-09-04 18:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by kristyronan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there's no real answer except for try, try again, but then again, that can be quite frustrating
however, you could try having some of your guy-friends play as your wingman the next time you guys decide to go out
or, if you play it cool, meet some girls at some of the church functions
oh, and about the part where you said "I even hear that I go after ugly girls ", don't worry about what other people say. you're free to be with whoever you want, so don't let other people's opinions about who you date get in the way
good luck to you
2007-09-04 18:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by elusive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all where are you? You definitely need to get laid that is for sure. I am not saying I will do the laying but I would like to know more of what is going on and not in a public forum, send me a private mail and I will try to help you out...you sound like you are really ready for a comitted relationship and I can help you. You gotta be really honest and I think you will be hooked up very quickly if you are sincere and it looks like your very very sincere. You can write to me at Belloved21@yahoo.com. I have a girlfriend who needs someone just like you but we gotta talk and I will be totally honest if you are ready to hear what might be turning the girls off and be proactive about change. Hope to hear from you soon.-Rachel.
2007-09-04 18:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt that way until I got with my girlfriend. Girls just don't appreciate the nicer guys until they've been in a bad relationship.
If I'm reading correctly, you felt almost like me. I never really chased girls though, but the only girl I chased I got. You'll be a good boyfriend.
Good luck.
2007-09-04 18:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not the only one, angry one.
Maybe because it matters to you, and so you notice those friends who have girlfriends more. There's really nothing much people can advise you on, aside from introducing you to other girls.
And uh, I kinda hope how you sound like in your question is simply just you being frustrated and showing it instead of it being a reflection of how you are all the time.
2007-09-04 18:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by HCB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things come to people who wait.
There is always someone out of a group like that that wants something really bad and others have it and don't care. But when you get it, it'll be great because it'll be special and you'll make someone really happy
2007-09-04 18:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by Rayray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋