Singles & Dating - 4 September 2007

My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs. She has been lying to me eversince. I decided I would deal with to see if she would change.She promised she would. For a short while when she lied or did something I didnt agree with, when I asked her about it she would cry. Now everytime I ask her to explain something or why she did something she gives me an answer that doesnt answer my question, and if I dont accept it she cries. But as you can probably guess by now I dont feel that the crying is sincere.Because the things she was doing before are the same problems we are having now but I just get the same results ....Tears....Help????If you understand what Im trying to say....

2007-09-04 15:34:27 · 35 answers · asked by rocky1 1

Well...to make things short and sweet, if you have found a certain boy very attractive for two years, is it possible to all of the sudden think he's unattractive anymore? Like, he's still the same guy, just older, but is it still possible that you JUST found him unattractive (you never have spoken before, only made strong eye contact with him).

Basically...When i was a sophomore, my (ex)girlfriend told me that this one gal said I was really hot, and I never knew who she was....time passed, Junior year rolls along and I finally find out who she is. The problem is, I only found out late in the year when she kept making eye contact with me (hey, she's cute...I like to stare), and then she got a BF before I could even talk to her....(this was around march/april). Well, the school year has now started up, and I'm a senior (she's a class below me). I haven't seen her yet, but I just have this stupid problem that I am always afraid she won't find me attractive anymore..help?

2007-09-04 15:34:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 21... and I saw this girl a couple of times through her cousin... we never talk..... until I saw her at the theaters once, and I have the guts to stop her... and tell her that I think she is gorgeous, and wanted to hang out with her sometimes... she gave me her #, we chatted, talk, and hang out ... Until I realize that she is 17 ... anyway.. I feel awkward and so does she etc.... we both decided to let it go.. and not hang out anymore..

6 months later, we met again... how should things from here? (we never kissed, etc..) but we make plans to hang out... she is still unbelievably cute =)

2007-09-04 15:31:12 · 28 answers · asked by John N 2

First off I am not racist or anything.........Why is it when a black guy is broke as hell there is always a sista that will love them for who they are...but when the black guy get rich or become famous or something......they always goes with a white woman.........why is it like that?

2007-09-04 15:30:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that African American men brag about dating a women of more than one ethnicity like it's a trophe? Even when it's an african american women they make it seem as though she's special because she is mixed. Does it really matter?

2007-09-04 15:27:02 · 4 answers · asked by candiceo1o7 2

2007-09-04 15:24:29 · 34 answers · asked by NY 2

My friend talked to him on the phone (I am not putting my name on here, *** represents my name)
Convo-
Hi, umm...would you go out with ******?
****** who?
****** *****.
Oh. idk
Would you go out with her now?
idk?
Is that all you can say? (10 seconds later)
I've got nothing.
Well, she said you like her like in some grade I can't remember.
(he mumbles something)
Well, I guess I'll see you in school tomorrow.
Ya, see ya tomorrow.
Okay, so I know this doesn't really say much, but ya. Or should I move on. Please help!!

2007-09-04 15:24:28 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole. 3

My boyfriend and I have been ddating almost 2 years and we have been sexually active since before we even dated. Lately we have been disagreeing about sex.. He gets mad because i am not always in the mood and he is. But he is literally in the mood all the time. I am 19 nd he is 20 and he keeps saying how he shouldnt be sexually frustrated at 20 but we have sex aroundm 3 times a month and we do other sexual things several times a month aalso. I will admit he does plleasure me more than I pleasure him, but i dont like giving head and he really wants it more. I love him so much but im not too sure i can be in this relationship anymore. I feel like he is acting like a 16 yr old boy who just iscovered sex. I like having sex w him but im on birth control and it does lower your sex drive. Im scared that if we did get past this situation that later in life if we were to get married what if ii didnt want to have sex as much. Im scared hed cheat on me or leave me. i woulld love your advice!!

2007-09-04 15:24:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

she likes to leave them open because she says it lets the cold air come in. well everytime she walks into her room with a towel she forgets to close them. she lives in an apartment complex with many windows facing her window only a few feet apart. it turns out a guy in our school lives right across. i don't know who but he emailed me wanting money. $300 otherwise he said he'll show pictures of her saggy boobs to the whole school. I didn't believe him but their was an attachment with her fully topless. What should I do? Should I tell her?

2007-09-04 15:23:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just started dating this guy. hes sweet and nice, and i really like him, but he just had his old gf move to college. She moved on sunday and hasnt told her that we're dating. he says he doesnt want to hurt her so he hasnt told her yet, but im concerned. He said after this week it would be cleared up, but i keep thinking that maybe he doesnt like me alot. I mean, he says he does, and shows it, but why cant he tell her?

2007-09-04 15:15:54 · 25 answers · asked by funstuff7 3

My ex has a problem in that his mother puts pressure on him, and therefore, he is very sensitive to pressure. At an extremely sensitive moment in our relaitonship, I got angry and then wanted to talk befor ehe took action and then went off with someoen els,e but he would not talk, because he imagined I was trying to put pressure on him. As a result, I was deeply, deeply hurt. For the past year, we have continually tried to get back in touch, but I have in all honesty been too messed up about things to be able to do that. The last time we were in touch, he stated having a temper tantrum, and I said goodbye. I said I would be back, but good-bye for now until I felt better within myself. Well, I felt better and I came back, only to find him in a new relationship. However, we spoke, and now he is beginning to understand my side of things, and why I was so hurt. He seemed interested in talking now, but I still have feelings for him, and I don't want to get hurt. How to proceed?

2007-09-04 15:14:54 · 4 answers · asked by Christina V 1

I have never asked a girl out in my life but after watching that pick up artist show i decided to try it. I went to the movies with my friends and saw the prettiest girl i have seen in awhile and def the hottest one there and decided i would try to go talk to her just so i could fail and at least say i took the first step. i went and talked to her and tried all the techniques and screwed everything up...apparently she thought that was cute...whatever. so far all the focus has been getting to this point...but now what

2007-09-04 15:14:30 · 7 answers · asked by ukuleleninja e 1

I'm nice and funny and really smart, so why don't boys like me?
I can't afford to wear expensive designer clothes, I have a little acne (nothing extreme), and I'm slightly overweight (about 15 pounds overweight), but I'm not ugly or anything. and my clothes is cute, just not expensive. but they all seem to like the skinny stupid abercrombie-zombies. And I just don't understand why.

2007-09-04 15:13:01 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-04 15:13:00 · 27 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3

I CANNOT DO THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please help me.. i cant do it... please... someone help..

2007-09-04 15:12:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend (29) is going through an "independent faze". He just graduated and is moving out of his house soon, into a friend's house. We're not seeing eachother that often anymore, and he's not calling me everyday. We see eachother sometimes three times a week, sometimes only on the weekends. Should I be worried?

2007-09-04 15:10:48 · 17 answers · asked by linda27 2

my friend was showing off about how she has a boyfreind and so i told her if i wanted to get a boyfreind i bet i could get one right away
and then this guy i know said true
does that means he thinks im attractive?

2007-09-04 15:10:37 · 15 answers · asked by sunflower_girlie 3

I'm not trying to sound like one of those bitter people here, and I honestly am not bitter about things from past relationships. But I was wondering if you think (or if you are) is it possible to be completely happy with the person you're with. I think that so many people get sucked into the idea of that "perfect" person. I think it's impossible to find someone that you find "perfect" who fits you perfectly. Am I just heartless, or would you agree?

2007-09-04 15:06:39 · 3 answers · asked by angela 2

Ok so a guy I've liked for about 6 months told my friendhe liked me, and he also said to me that i was hot.
We've made plans to meet at school, and he, luckily stepped out of his shell and approached me at school for a hug.
So i was 100% sure that He was into me.
Today, at luck i saw him so i waved. He only smiled and kept walking. Then when my friends called him back (ugh!) he seemed like he didnt want to be there and didnt talk to me directly at all.
What is his deal?
Can someone clear this up??


Thanks!

2007-09-04 15:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by Random Girl 4

He slept with other girls as I knew he would. He was honest and told me about it. He said he did it because we didn't have "the talk" before he left. I didn't say anything to him about it before he left, I wanted to see if he would behave on his own, and he said he thought that I was sleeping with others. I did sleep with one other person but only out of spite (very immature, I know). I was heartbroken and crying while he was gone. Also I found pictures of him having a threesome in his phone. He's a musician so it really is a part of thier lifestyle. He's never slept with anyone else while we've been together, and we weren't even officially together when he left, but we'd been seeing each other for months. He says he wants us both to be commited and not sleep with others, but I broke up with him because I can't deal with it. I thought I could handle it, but it was killing me--I tried not to think about it but I still did. Did I do the right thing ending it?

2007-09-04 15:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think? Do i need to improve? And if I do? on what? :(

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http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee296/SirBoxer/Joe.jpg

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the last pic I'm in the orange shirt

2007-09-04 14:41:21 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-04 14:40:07 · 2 answers · asked by ~LoVe bUt OnE~ 1

I just wanna know how to get his attention and want him to get back because we broke up.Any help?

2007-09-04 14:33:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

and then begin doing more practical things for you once in the relationship (ex. having your car checked out)?

2007-09-04 14:24:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in my junior year of highschool and i have a morning double period with my gf. there was recently an opening in an advanced singing class that you have to try out for. i want to try out for it but it would mean that i would have to leave my double period class with her. she tells me not too do it and that she would consider breaking up with me over it.
i need help because i love her alot but i really love singing as well

2007-09-04 14:17:47 · 31 answers · asked by DK455 1

what are you staring at? Is it just the butt- or the chest- stomach? WHAT?

and is it true your imagining us without our clothes on sometimes???

2007-09-04 14:10:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-04 14:03:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

the straightforward type
or the laid back idc if you like me type
or what?

how would you want a girl to approach you?

2007-09-04 13:58:49 · 26 answers · asked by hawty 3

What would you do if someone was trying to kill me?

2007-09-04 13:57:03 · 6 answers · asked by hisbabygirl95 2

im fourteen & i just did "it" with my boyfriend yesterday.im scared that i could be pregnant because it was my first time. i used a condom but i heard it dosent always work. i got my period today can i still be pregnant?

2007-09-04 13:47:53 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous