Well...to make things short and sweet, if you have found a certain boy very attractive for two years, is it possible to all of the sudden think he's unattractive anymore? Like, he's still the same guy, just older, but is it still possible that you JUST found him unattractive (you never have spoken before, only made strong eye contact with him).
Basically...When i was a sophomore, my (ex)girlfriend told me that this one gal said I was really hot, and I never knew who she was....time passed, Junior year rolls along and I finally find out who she is. The problem is, I only found out late in the year when she kept making eye contact with me (hey, she's cute...I like to stare), and then she got a BF before I could even talk to her....(this was around march/april). Well, the school year has now started up, and I'm a senior (she's a class below me). I haven't seen her yet, but I just have this stupid problem that I am always afraid she won't find me attractive anymore..help?
2007-09-04 15:34:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This isn't really a security problem, I am just STRONGLY afraid that I will change drastically overnight and she wont like it! Or any girl at that matter!
2007-09-04 15:34:49 · update #1
Dude lighten up. You're being paranoid and totally superficial. Find a girl who likes YOU, not your looks.
2007-09-04 15:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'll never know the answer to your question unless you tell her what you feel. You can't always base attraction to looks, most of the time looks are just superficial, its your personality that will always count and that will win her over to you. You need to stop over-analyzing the situation and just approach her. Nothing happens until you decide to make things happen.
2007-09-04 15:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by fgump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 12 years old? Do you really need reassurance about petty little things like this? Look Shane. Grow up. Be a man.
Trust me. Someone will like you for who you are. All you need to do is just be yourself.
2007-09-04 15:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ooh as a boy i had dat problem wit a girl i liked... i'd stare at her ppl wuld tell her i like n stuff like that but she nvr liked me in that way so i just continued 2 like her despite dat nd as time progressd i started 2 lose interest.... den da time i finally have da courage 2 approach her.... she has 2 leave 2 california... wit her fam... dis wuz like 2-4 yrs ago? nd i movd on 2 another gurl n my friends think i'm obsessd wit her n dat i shuld ask her out b4 another guy asks her out.... n dey both connect... so basically yeah i think itz possible nd if u like her tell her u like her... (not wen she has a bf or he'll kill u lol but yeah)
2007-09-04 16:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Fredrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attractiveness can be increased by personality. get to know her. even the most wonderful looking people can be dreadfully boring and you dont want to be that!
quirky looks can be cute too...you cant change so much that you dont look like you...youre a senior now....the mature refined gentleman youve evolved into will delite the misses!
just be yourself and dont worry so much.
2007-09-04 15:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by larnsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People interests are ever changing. But you have to worry about her current boyfriend first. If they break up and she takes it badly, maybe you can make her feel better.
2007-09-04 15:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by analog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as you didnt get a lot of acne (minor problem) you are fine. FIND HER.
2007-09-04 15:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by Will999909 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know if she likes you or not from the first 5 minutes of talking to her..
2007-09-04 15:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by John N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the change can be in anyone. people mature over time and this may affect it. however she could have changed her taste.
2007-09-04 15:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by loserking90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and be yourself if she still like's you will know so, relax if she dont i'am pretty sure their's other pretty girls around.
2007-09-04 15:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋