My boyfriend (29) is going through an "independent faze". He just graduated and is moving out of his house soon, into a friend's house. We're not seeing eachother that often anymore, and he's not calling me everyday. We see eachother sometimes three times a week, sometimes only on the weekends. Should I be worried?
2007-09-04 15:10:48 · 17 answers · asked by linda27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if my guy (adult male around the same age)called me everyday to check in... i'd probly tell him a gooood few places to shove the damn phone... no word a lie...
dont get me worng.. i do love him and i love to know he's thinking about me but theres times he calls i'll let it go to the machine ... everyone has busy days and i work a lot so does he when i see him it's important to me and when we both have time to talk we'd rather talk in person.. it's just the way we are..
2007-09-04 15:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by arei 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God, no! Honestly, by the time my boyfriend and I had been together 6 months I could count the number of times we'd spoke on the phone on one hand! Come to think of it, I only remember ever speaking to him once for about 30 seconds. That was because we saw eachother a lot, spoke by text and msn which is cheaper as we were both on credit, and neither of us minded. Now I have a contract phone I phone him pretty much every day, and sometimes we'll be on the phone til like 2am. But we've been going out a year now, and it's only really been like this for the last two or three months. Trust me, nothing wrong there at all!
2016-03-18 00:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea because I don't date. But my son's "girlfriend" (34) texts him at 6:30 a.m., calls at 7:45, texts all day long, calls at 5:45, some IMs, then they talk from 8:30/9:00 to fall asleep time. I don't think she trusts him because they met over the internet. I know this because my Son was living with me during the separation part of his divorce. It drives me nuts and I'm not even part of it. Worried, I don't know if you should be. You need to call him and tell him you really miss him when you don't talk every day. Be pleasant and upbeat, but don't sound needy. I assume you've gone together for some time.
2007-09-04 15:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is the way me and my ex were. I worked 40 hours and week and went to school and she still demanded that I saw her everyday I had off from work. Drove me crazy cuz she thought that seeing her three full days a week and sometime inbetween work and school wasn't enough time of her......that is why I broke up with her....but she was crazy. lol. Just talk to him about it, but dont be pushy! He might just have a bunch on his mind right now. Talk to him...trust me it will work out.
2007-09-04 15:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by sora1387 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand, he can't giv u all his time not bcoz he don't love u anymore. Thr is a few reasons why he do not call u everyday, but atleast u the both of u knows wat u feel for each other clear enough for him not to seek for another romance with another girl.
Juz look at the bright side. I am facing the same problem as u, but my situation is more complicated than urs. So somehow, u r still lucky dat he still save time for urs and his bonding session...=]
2007-09-04 19:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't be worried give him some space while he is getting himself together. The last thing you want to do is smother him!!! But if need be talk with him and tell him you understand that things in his life are changing and that you have his back no matter what. Basically show him that you are understanding and not smothering and he will draw to you more.
2007-09-04 15:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by chauntee d 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No? I see my girlfriend about 2 times a week, sometimes only the weekend and we never talk on the phone.
If you want to talk/see him everyday, it might seem a little bit clingy, and that is a real turn off.
2007-09-04 15:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by heavy_cow 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
your boyfriend is 29 and JUST now moving out of his house please tell me he wasnt living with his parents. if he is 29 and just not moving away from mommy and daddy..you have a big problem.
well if he called you everyday before and was really sweet and all that and it has slowed down or just stopped, you need to be worried. esp if he isnt saying sorry for it. you need to talk to him and be up front cuz him playing these games at 29 is dumb
2007-09-04 15:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by litlmizbeautiful 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds a lot like my relationship...on how much we talk and see each other. i get upset and worried sometimes but then i think...he's an adult and if he didn't want to be with me...he wouldn't. there's no stopping him from breaking it off if he wants to he will. so stop stressing...us girls are guilty of sabotaging our relationships bc we over analyze things. as long as the time you spend together is great...don't sweat it.
2007-09-04 15:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jax 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I'd be annoyed.
just mention that you know he's busy with his life changes right now but you would like to spend more time together...tell him you want to give him a strip tease or something that should get him interested!
2007-09-04 15:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋