I met my current boyfriend about a year ago, but he was too shy to ask me out. We lost touch and in the interim I dated another guy. I had sex with this guy, and it happened to be my first time. I have strong convictions about sex, but little self control and a lot of curiosity. I just sort of gave in, I was never in love with this guy and never saw a future with him. He is the only one that knows that I had sex with him. I never told any friends or anyone else for that matter. Unless he told some of his friends- we don't even socialize in the same circles, no one knows but him and I. I see myself having a serious relationship with my current boyfriend. He has the same strong convictions about a sexual relationship that I share. I know the right thing to do is tell him I am not a virgin, but how do I do it without sounding like I have a flippant attitude about it? Saying, "I was just curious", which is the truth, sounds a lot more harsh than, "I was in love with him."
2007-09-04
12:38:56
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Michelle
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