i like this guy and we started talking around a month before vacation started. now were back to school and were talking again. that one day i saw him in the lunch line and he noticed i got a new haircut. i was hapy and surprised at the same time. i feel as if i like him and i want to ask him if he would give me the chance to get to know him better. but im afraid he's the kind of guy who goes silent after i ask and ignores you. but hes a really nice guy. so do you think its too early to ask? or.. what?
2007-09-04 13:05:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should wait until he asks you. If you come on too strong, you'll scare him away.
2007-09-04 13:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...hard to tell. I mean the fact that he already notice you in a way like none other i. e. your new haircuts. Just so you know guys don't notice those things, unless they care or like that person. Most of the time those things go unnotice. I think you should just follow your heart and do what it thinks is the best. I mean it's not like you're asking him out. You're just saying hey, I want to get to know you better in a friendship kind of way, which one day could lead to something else. I wish you the best of luck and hope I helped.
2007-09-04 20:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by just another girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The sooner you ask him, the better. The worst thing he can do is ignore...at least you get to know right away and move on. Take control of what you want...invite him out.
2007-09-04 20:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become good Friends and he might ask u out if he doesn't after a while then ask him if he goes silent then just dump him tell him that Ur not into him anymore.
2007-09-04 20:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Fu{k u b*tch go to heII {F.T.W} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him as a friend. hang out and stuff like that. then if after a few weeks and you still the same feeling for him and vice versa (base on your spectaculation). ask him.
2007-09-04 20:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by justhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe a little, give it time....ask a friend to throw that idea of you and him together hypothetically and see his reaction. If its good than go for it, if not he is not worth your time. Hope this helped.
2007-09-04 20:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ask the question, you've already accepted "no" as the answer.
2007-09-04 20:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you like him or first get him to tell you who he likes so if its not you then you wont have to talk about it anymore
2007-09-04 20:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by Luke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it... but be prepared
2007-09-04 20:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋