im fourteen & i just did "it" with my boyfriend yesterday.im scared that i could be pregnant because it was my first time. i used a condom but i heard it dosent always work. i got my period today can i still be pregnant?
2007-09-04 13:47:53 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
too young to be doing "it" with anybody but yourself.
go to the market , pharmacy,.. buy a home pregnancy test.
2007-09-04 13:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No I don't think you are pregnant,but for someone who is playing very adult games you are lacking in the knowledge that will keep you safe.Your boyfriend is breaking the law by having sex with a minor.14 is way too young to be indulging in this sort of behaviour.Come to think of it the bleeding may be from the ruptured hymen and not your period.
2007-09-04 14:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Charlotte's Dad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen condoms always work.......I have never had one break and i'm 32. This is what you need to lookout for 1) condoms that teens keep in their wallets that get ruined from sitting on them and heat. buy the condoms yourself. get spermicide and lubricated that way you will know they are good. 2) don't let them keep on pumping after they blow. That is how they leak or come off. young guy go fast and try to stay longer then they should. And the pull out method will get you knocked up faster then anything.
2007-09-04 14:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more then likely no, but I'd give it a few days and take a test, just know you've made an adult decision and you now need to take responsibility for that..in all honesty don't you think you're too young to be having sex? You should be shopping w/ your friends. Enjoy being young; adult hood comes fast enough and once you go there there's no going back to being a teen. Being parent is a 24/7/365 job, it's not fun and games, there are no days off, no sick days and no vacation days..please before you have sex again ask yourself are you ready for that?
2007-09-04 13:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, even though you got your period you could still be pregnant. Sperm can survive up to 72 hrs after intercourse. Also pre ejaculate contains sperm, so make sure you put the condom on before any kind of penetration.
If you will be engaging in more sexual activities I would suggest you go to your doctor and explore other birth control options.
2007-09-04 13:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Bebopatop 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Condoms are highly effective if used properly. Bravo you two for using a condom, shame on you for being an idiot at 14 and having sex when you are NOWHERE near emotionally or financially ready for any of the possible repercussions (including, but not limited to pregnancy and STDs).
Stop being foolish and playing Russian Roulette with your body...keep your panties on until you can handle any of the above issues, if they should occur.
2007-09-04 13:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is implantation bleeding. when the baby attatches to your uterus. was the bleeding different from usual? pretty please talk to your mom or grama or someone who wont put you down. you did right bu using a condom but like you said, it isnt always functiong the way it should. think about getting the birth control pill or the patch. there are so many inexpensive options out there now. if you do get pregnant please put it up for adoption. at your age you really are not ready to raise a baby emotionally. and there are a TON of people out there who are tryong really had to make a baby and they cant bc somethings wrong. they can take care of the baby maybe even open adotpion so that you can visit on regular basis and still keep growing up yourself.
2007-09-04 13:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by michiescc 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry to say. Your way to young to be having sex . Let's hope you don't get pregnant. I'm glad you made you BF use a condom. Let's hope nothing happens or your life is over. Don't you fell horrible getting this advice from a 21 yr old.
Good Luck hope you don't turn out pregnant.
2007-09-04 13:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by dj c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on if it was your regular time for your cycle and if you're regular.
My guess is that you're safe this time but STOP HAVING SEX AT FOURTEEN!!!! For Heaven's sake!!!! You're just asking for trouble, hon, you really are...PLEASE stop and reconsider continuing having sex with your boyfriend when you're just 14. I know you think you know better, but, eventually, you will either wind up pregnant or with an STD.
Please stop now before something drastic happens.
2007-09-04 13:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good job using a condom! I don't think you're pregnant, but you never know.
2007-09-04 13:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude..14 is waaay to young to be doing "it"...and if you got ur period most likely you wont be pregnant...and if your so scared of being pregnant why did you even do it??
2007-09-04 13:52:18 · answer #11 · answered by C.C. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋