i like this girl and she like me 2 but shes wit this guy but he is not treating her right n stuff but shes likes him anyways but it doesnt matter if i might get wit her or not ..i just wat her to be happy ..and tomorrow is skool and i promise to hug her but i dont know how n where .
so wat do u think i should do and how to hug her ??
2007-09-04 18:46:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like shouldi hug her and put my arms around her wasit or wat
2007-09-04 18:53:40 · update #1
If she does not mind.. Give her a hug..
2007-09-04 18:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would give a friendly hug since she does have a boyfriend and might just need a friend at the moment, even if she likes you.
Give her a firm hug that doesn't last for a really long time, maybe a couple seconds at the longest. I'm sure you'll have lots of chances for hugs with her, so play it safe with the first one. :)
2007-09-05 01:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUG HER AS A buddy,pal & or friend !! . And after awhile.. If anything was to change.. The whole-thing will work itself out in do time !! But in the mean;time build that friendship up stronger !! Then trust may follow sometime afterward !?! & then once you two get to the point that you know of or about oneanother well.. Things may just fall into place !! You know how SOo many say most should build a FRIENDSHIP that's trusting first !?! Well here's your chance !! & you wo'nt be rushing anyrhing !?! & who knows if it might even last !?! even better reason to get to KNOW eachother better 1st./building up that trusting FRIENDSHIP 1st. !!
2007-09-05 01:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is taken all you can do is wait to see if she sees that she shouldnt be with this other guy but while your waiting she can still be a good friend hug her like you would any other friend that you wouldnt have feelings for just a simple easy hug no long tight squeezes just hey how are you heres a hug ya know keep it simple
2007-09-05 01:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by bazoocablond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you like this girl nd she has s boyfriend and you promised to hug her. who did you make the promise to? if you made the promise to your friends then its not ok. if you made the promise to yourself then you should really think about what you are doing because she does have a boyfriend. and if you made the promise to her then you should really think about it. first off she got a man and now she wants you to hug her, you said he dont treat her right and yet she is still with him, she might be trying to make him jelious by using you and it does happen so dont think that it cant happen to you. are you popular at school or are you on the smart side because popular girls likes to get smart guys to make their boyfriends jelious. maybe you should talk with her and see where her head is. if she tells you what you want to here then listen think about what she said and then watch how she acts the next day when she is around him. if she is trying to let you down easy but not hurt your feelings because she does like you as a friend then allow it. dont make her choose between you and her bf because you might not like her choice. just be her friend and let it go from there. if she is a good friend then dont mess it up by trying to get whats already taken. i know you are a very handsome person and you can find you someone that does not have a bf so you dont have to have so much stress on yourself. if you are still in school then you should have lots of nice girls. its your school days and you should be enjoying it not being stressed out over some one eleses girl. just enjoy school because when you are grown you want have much time to really enjoy all the time you have now. when you and this girl is togeather dont talk about her boyfriend. just talk about school, sports, or anything other than her bf. dont waste what time you have with her talking about someone you dont want her with. let her know more about you and get to know more about her. just learn how to be her friend. if she wants to take it to another step then you make sure she tighten up all loose ends with the guy she is with before you allow her to mess up your heart. and last , just have fun and dont worry yourself to much about it if its ment to be then it shall be. stay cool and everything will work out just fine.
2007-09-05 02:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by hotteesofine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Don't get involved. Tell her your feelings, and let her decide. Don't jump into the middle of their relationship problems - only bad things will happen!
If she really isn't liking this guy, then she'll dump him and come to you. Don't get involved while she's still involved. It's still wrong!
And just give her the same type of hug you give friends!
2007-09-05 02:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Paul D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a real hug. Girls don't like when guys hesitate. Plus, remember when she breaks up with the other guy she'll be thinking of you and your awesome hugs.
2007-09-05 01:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Riddler07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your feelings are more important than hungging her right now. You should tell her how you feel, becuase if you don't, you'll only regret it in the future.
And if you're scared or shy to hug her, I find it's easier to just DO it insted of over thinking somthing. Just do it insted of dwelling on somthing you have to do.
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2007-09-05 01:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just when you hug her think this is friendly! Because sometimes when you think oh i like her, the thing you are doing at the time will reflect on what you are feeling.
2007-09-05 01:49:11 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to hug her, why don't you give her a friendship hug? Hug her for a short time.
2007-09-05 01:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by myboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its wrong wat both of u are doing..if she's with a guy then u should just be her friends and only give her friendly hugs when either of u need it .. put urself in her bf's shoes would u like it if another guy came up to ur gf?
2007-09-05 01:49:56 · answer #11 · answered by MAK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋