weve been talking online and on the phone for 8 months yet we havent been able to meet in person she says she loves the way i am the things we talk about the way we get along and she is dying to meet me i feel the same way about her. but i've heard long distance relationships dont really work out anyone have any similar situation please help
2007-09-04 05:21:24 · 10 answers · asked by lvn_drgn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Met her online, visited her, liked her, went again and married her, together now, living in Australia for 3 years.
2007-09-04 06:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a long distance relationship for about a year. I think you can really get to know a person for what's on the inside that way. Things didn't work out, and we never got to meet in person. But I do believe you can make it work. Or it can at least be a great friendship. If you want it to be long term though, someone is eventually going to have to move. Good luck, follow your heart!
2007-09-04 05:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by grain girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Just after 15 days of our relationship, that was 18 days of our meeting, i started showing him my pride n ego etc. I used to tell him to **** off easily, he never did. Doubt him, taunt him, abuse him telling him to **** off and go to hell were normal words for me, ignoring and blocking him from FB and his number was what I did everyday. Humiliating him was my hobby. Calling his friends whore and sluts was my favorite pastime. I hardly ever told him that I loved him or anything, I used to cry that I want my exes back etc and break my commitments, irritate, stop talking to him for days and he used to call me tenths of times. I told him to **** off on every-other thing, tried to isolate from his friends. Got jealous and expressed all the negativity I could. I have suffered from Narcissistic Personality Disorder and depression and panic attacks. He was my victim." Wow, I have never met a female NPD. Nice to make your online acquaintance. I know this is not what you want to hear, but you really need to get some help if your Supply is running out, rather than asking people online to validate your omnipotence or claiming more victims. What you are describing, the way that people of the illness you have hurt other people- is really heart-wrenching. It can make them question their value, themselves, and everything in general to such a point that it causes an enormous void in their lives & emotional well-being, which is neither cool or even really acceptable. I don't judge you for it because you are sick, and I have a Cluster B personality disorder as well so I know what it can be like, and how hard it is sometimes to behave normally, but I really hope you are able to see a professional soon to learn how to reign these behaviors in. In answer to this question: He may have thought he loved you, but love is never really love in the context of Narcissistic Abuse, just victim and perpetrator. He may have told you he did in hopes that you would return his affectionate feelings and stop belittling him but 100%, NO BS - He does not love you, you have just created a situation where he does not know what to do besides continue the cycle. Will you ever get the true love? Short answer: If you do not deal with your illness, NO. You never will.
2016-04-03 02:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have a 25 mile range with regard to "long distance". Anything farther than that is a one time thing.
2007-09-04 05:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some hand cream and callous removers, try to be as ambidextrous as possible - that way you wont develop any problems with symmetry whilst you reach out and touch the person you love.
2007-09-04 05:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by pimple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times in life we should take risk, so met her and you will see , be care full, don't open self much, behave in meting like you first time met her, because on line relation are not real, sometimes we tell much about self and sometimes that is not real.
2007-09-04 05:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by Denicia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The odds aren't real good, but why not take a chance? If it works out, terrific!
2007-09-04 05:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lets just say the are difficult at best.
2007-09-04 05:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance never works, NEVER!
2007-09-04 05:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can try winging it, but if all-else fails, try sending pics to eachother. rlly helps.
2007-09-04 06:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by Brent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋