we went out for almost 9 months and we did everything together we went through so much **** and we still got through it all i thought we loved eachother equaly then when i screw up she says she likes her ex and she said it wouldnt have materd when i woulda got mad about soemthing cause she was thinking about it for awile why? we went through so much and she just throws it all away as if it was nothning how could she think like that why it makes no sense to me why should we do this to me after what weve been through we had $eX a few weeks before it happend for the first time and she dosnt even consider anything im so lost cause i love her so much idk what to do
2007-09-04 03:43:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
breaking up is hard to do brother. You will get over her just go out with your friends and have a good time.
2007-09-04 03:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Balrog 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chalk it up as a lesson learned and hit the dating scene. Don't sit around moping and wondering what could have been like some putz. Pull yourself back onto your feet, quit crying and see what else the world has to offer. And, above all else, don't fall in love again so deeply, so quickly, if you can help it. Remember how you felt this time and that should help. Turn off the love stories and get out of the house, or stay in the house and meet someone online but do SOMETHING!!!!!!!!!!!!! By the way, no offense but maybe you need to brush up on your bedroom technique. Look inside yourself for the answers and you'll probably find them. Good luck buddy,
askaman
2007-09-04 03:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by www.askaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she didn't like something about you at the end. There's something that probably disapointed her...or maybe she still had feelings for her ex...they probably had a very intense relationship and even if you guys shared a lot together and lived special moments with each other her heart prefers the other guy...you should talk to her and just make sure that she really wants to stay with the other guy and she's not acting with bitter.
If she says she prefers the other guy, just move on.
There's too much fish in the sea to suffer for someone who's not really interested in you.
Good luck! :)
2007-09-04 03:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by bloodymary24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the easiest way to explain it all is this. You have no control over any ones feelings. You have to be happy with who you are know one else can make you happy and you can not make anyone else happy. Let this girl go if you try and hold on or win her back it will only make things worse. If you are positive and just live in the moment and do the best in each moment you will be fine and I guarantee you will be surprised at how well everything turns out.
2007-09-04 03:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by greatcruisenight 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she has moved on and you need to. I know it hurts but in the long run she's probably not the one for you. 9 months is a long time but couples split after 9 years or more. It happens all the tiem. Good luck x
2007-09-04 03:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by stunnin_always 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry...I think you may be wrong, she probably has considered
everything....women dont just dump someone after being
with them for 9 months and sleeping with them.
If you love her, you are going to have to respect her wishes
and let her go- each relationship is a learning experience
break ups are difficult- but you will be okay through this
it will make you a better person for the next person that
comes into your life
good luck
2007-09-04 03:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by Laura G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry about that. Forget about her, if she doesn't like you anymore she's not good enough. Don't dwell on the past, try to remember the good stuff you did together. You never know, You'll probably find someone else who loves you much much MORE than she did, and if she says that she lovs her ex, good for him, you can get someone who loves YOU. Good luck! ^_^
2007-09-04 03:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Maddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people just don't know what they want. Don't let it eat at you though. Just chalk it up to experience and try to grow and you will one day find the "right" person that fits you. In the meantime, go about your business and never hurt anyone intentionally.
2007-09-04 03:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by sorri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you screwed up i dont know what you did but it was enough to her that she was going back to her ex i dont know if she would of stayed with you if you didnt screw up i just dont know but i think you need to take some time before you get into another relationship i am sorry she broke your heart but you also did something wrong too
2007-09-04 03:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by euchremom04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’m sorry to be the one to break this to you, but you were a rebound guy. She was with you because she knew she couldn’t fall in love with you in order to regain her independence and forget about her ex. It sounds twisted, but it’s something people do everyday to cope with a break up, especially a break up with someone they care about.
She didn’t intend to break your heart; she was just using you to forget about love. It sucks, but that’s the reality of it. You need to just wish them well and learn from this.
2007-09-04 03:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋