Everytime my friend and I sleep in the same bed, if he comes over my house or vice versa, we also end up cuddling like this: my let goes in between his two legs, and he snuggles under my arm/armpit.
Is this normal and non-gay or is it gay?
2007-09-04 04:51:31 · 30 answers · asked by Josh G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like spooning to me... Not necessarily gay, especially depending on your age, but definitly sounds it.
2007-09-04 04:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....If you are both Guys, I think he may be Gay. Why would he want to cuddle and hold you if he were a straight guy?
That is NOT normal. And are YOU gay? Why would you do it either.
I think the two of you have issues.
Sick in my opinion.
2007-09-04 11:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol when I sleep in the same bed as someone who is just a friend we don't even touch. But I think guys do what you do a lot. It's normal I've seen straight guys do it. They just don't realize.
2007-09-04 11:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is gay. If it where a guy and a girl it would mean they were into each other. I dont think you should have had to ask that question.
2007-09-04 12:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by lyric19_86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends.Have you asked him if hes doing it on purpose or if its just coincidence? Well you should. I mean if yall are not doing it on purpose then its probly non-gay and just one of yalls sleeping habits.I mean when i sleep i have to cuddle with something so.lol. It might be normal.
2007-09-04 11:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm... how old are you? Hard to say. I have a 10 year old boy who might sleep with his (male) friend in the same bed but my 13 year old son would not.
2007-09-04 11:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by spiffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=] this reminds me of a funny time with my best friend. She was staying over and we share my bed (I have a huge bed, so it's not like a bi/lesbian thing) and, lol, I was dreaming about my boyfriend =D haha and I rolled over and put my arm around her (cause in my dream my boyfriend was laying there, not her) and I woke up and I was like "O_o what the hell" and she was like "Um... <.<" =] we had a good laugh after that
2007-09-04 14:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and he are okay with it and you are both not into guys then it is fine if more men were secure with themselves and less homophobic then men hugging and cuddling would not always be seen and gay.
2007-09-04 11:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by mommym00n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks totally gay but if you dont feel gay things for eachother, it might be okay but it will still look gay.
2007-09-04 12:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by vainvivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it is two members of the same sex that is defined as gay
2007-09-04 11:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by *~*love always*~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋