Singles & Dating - 24 July 2007

what should i do? colour it brown or red or keep it natural?

2007-07-24 11:50:25 · 2 answers · asked by Knowledge is Power. 6

Okay... so I like this guy alot.. we're really good friends and 3 of my friends told me the he likes me.... even one of his best friends told me one day they were on their way to pick me up. She was like " okay T**** just told me that he likes you and that he would like to go out with me" i was happy so the next day i wrote him a letter and i told him how i felt and everything...i felt kinda stupid.. but the thing is that i thought he didnt like girls (if you know what i mean) he's dated girls before (he just told me) but everybody at my school told me that he likes boys... i'm soo confused. Anyways the thing is that after i gave him the letter he started to call me everyday..and he started to talk to me more at school... then he'd call me and ask me he could come over to my house and we just started to hang out. now that is summer..we havent got the chance to hang out..he calls me and i call him..he's always like "hey cutie we need to hang out soon real soon I miss you so much!".HELP?

2007-07-24 11:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by ~babygirl18~ 2

Im tired of getting into relationships where the other person is more needy than I am. I want to be treated like a princess. Is there anyone out there who knows how to really take care of someone who really deserves it?

2007-07-24 11:40:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The best of all?

2007-07-24 11:39:27 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-24 11:38:44 · 15 answers · asked by lonely_32462 1

2007-07-24 11:38:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 20. I am from Indian heritage--meaning from India. I have incredibly light, fair skin. But, it is not yellowish-white. I am petite. All the time men stare at me and drool at me--boys ranging from 17-59. I don't like when old men stare at me.

I do no ever wear sexy clothes. I wear full-sleeves and pants--even in the summer. I never wear sandals or show my feet. I have no *** and small breasts. I do everything possible to not act sexy or look sexy or talk sexy. Why are they STILL staring? I need help...please. What else can I do (to turn them off)? I am thinking of getting glasses so I look more nerdy.

2007-07-24 11:21:52 · 29 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

my boyfriend has done things to betray my trust in the past, talked to ex's behind my back, had a flirting problem a few years back, lied about people he had sex with that he was still hanging out with, etc..

my question is.. how am I supposed to just.. trust him? I have jealousy issues now, and I can't help it.. he expects me to just forget everything he has done and start with a clean slate..

i've never done anything to betray his trust, especially anything dealing with unfaithfulness.. now he's never cheated, and it's not that i'm worried about that, but i'm more so worried that he'll revert back to his flirting days or talk to ex's on the phone.. btw i caught him in all of these, he never fessed up, so i also realize he has honesty problems.. and i feel like by getting caught.. he is simply learning how not to get caught next time.

how do i trust him now? it causes issues in our relationship and i hate it.. I want to let it go, but it's to hard.

2007-07-24 11:11:42 · 14 answers · asked by lilchikka2005 4

why do i have to choose? cant i jus like both of them and hang out wit them and not have sex wit them without ppl thinkin i am a flirt and a slut? cuz i cant decide which on i like more. but ppl keep tellin me i have to choose..???? do i ????

2007-07-24 11:09:00 · 5 answers · asked by Rosie 2

right ..situ...

best friends....clingy! ..boyfriend amazing :D

alevels coming up :|

wen all i wanna do is move in with my bf and have children, i wanna be pregnant and have his children!


pathetic!! yep! i know! but im so i love and i dont know if i might be able to do alevels when im dont know if i want it... i want something else !

i want my own family ...at 16... its s l u tt y and stupid,,, im posh and not rough...but ,, im lost.what do i do!

2007-07-24 11:05:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says he wants a friend. We have gone out a few times. We have tried to get together several other times - mostly at his instigation. About a month ago, we got into some hugging and kisses on the cheek in my office. He said - I love you. I said - I love you, too. Since then, we've tried to get together. He is genuinely trying but relationship issues are in his way. When I do see him, it is ok between us. But when it comes to calling or going out, he just can't seem get there. In the mean time, I'm hurting because I miss talking to him but I'm trying to be patient and give him space. I'm afraid right now to really sit him down and talk to him about this. It will only make it worse. Where do we go from here? Do I continue to back off and give him space or do I continue to reach out to him and try to build a more solid friendship?

2007-07-24 11:02:26 · 1 answers · asked by Gatekeeper 4

about to come out of a 16 yr marrage,im in east sussex ,any RECENT MAN OUT THERE ,AND I MEAN DECENT WANT TO EMAIL ME ON FRIENDSHIP BASIS ,NO HNG UPS PLEASE

2007-07-24 10:56:06 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6

stare over at you and don't look away when you look at them, but don't smile either. What do they want you to do?

2007-07-24 10:53:28 · 18 answers · asked by coz_6 1

I like a white boy right now, and me and my homeboy got into a argument . He told me I'd be a sellout if I dated a white boy, and that I'm making it harder for black men. I've dated black boys before, I just happen to like a white boy now. I told him I don't understand why it's alright for a Black man to date a white woman , but it's not okay for white men and black woman to date ? I'm not racist either; so cut that crap off. But Most black men date latinas and White woman now, so why isn't okay for a black girl to date a white boy

2007-07-24 10:48:11 · 14 answers · asked by Em[ily] 2

IN a relationship....is there anything else?

2007-07-24 10:40:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is love addicting? I know this is going to sound stupid coming from a 13 year old....but still, i need some grownup advice here. I fell in love with a girl once, and she said she was in love with me too, but we gradually started not liking each other. but now that we broke up i miss the feelin of love. that feeling that u have someone special, that someone ur always thinking about, always wondering about. asking yourself what are they doing right now? what are they thinking right now. now all the adults reading this i know what your thinkin you dont know wat love is, but i reall do, and i miss it badly. whenever i hear a song, a slow song, i think back to what love felt like, and i miss it. so just give me some advice to get over this. also this was kinda ova the internet, but i think loving someone on the intenrnet only strengthens it, becuz u get to kow the person be4 u base ur opinion on looks.! so help me

2007-07-24 10:38:06 · 42 answers · asked by Charlie 1

Girls-would you have a threesome w/ another girl and a guy? The guy may or may not be your significant other.Why or why not? And what would the terms or circumstances be if your answer is yes. Honest answers only!

2007-07-24 10:34:37 · 15 answers · asked by UGAgal 1

we have discussed this and she knows I let her live here to pay my bills. I have no intention of ever marrying her. She says it's ok I don't love her, she just likes to be around me.

2007-07-24 10:32:37 · 54 answers · asked by JeffAV 6

im 14 and this boy is really cute

2007-07-24 10:30:50 · 29 answers · asked by 1st baby on his way 1

I am a 25 year old married woman and I met this girl in my friend's place some time back.I liked her and I immediately connected with her and I knew that she also liked me.We met for 10 days consecutively as we were organising something together.
Initially ,she was also friendly towards me.then from the third day onwards,she started ignoring me.I didn't mind that as I barely knew her.
Then,from the fifth day,she started imitating my dressing style,hair style, and being very affectionate to me.she used to sit very close to me(not even 1 inch apart),would caress me every now and then and would come into my personal space on the plea of whispering something to me.As I am not a very touchy feely or expressive person,this kind of behavior from a same sex person started freaking me out.This lack of reciprocation resulted in resentment in her behavior.Still,she was signalling that she likes me and expressed the desire that we should hang out sometime.I liked her a lot.
but is it only liking on her part or something else?

2007-07-24 10:26:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

They were good friends then dated for 2 years didn't get along as a couple he broke up with her but they are still friends. She calls occasionally and wants to hang out with him. He told me she wanted to see a movie with him and he said he'd like me to go if i could but if i couldnt he'd still go with her. I at first was upset but I thought I should just bite my lip and trust him.
Now his family from texas is in town and I met them the other day for a bbq. Now they are having another bbq tonight and I can't go until later cause i work but he just told me that she wants to see them and she might go. Which means, while I'm at work waiting to get off to go over there she will be hanging out just him and her the X GIRLFRIEND like old times with the family. This just isnt fair...What should I do?

2007-07-24 10:17:54 · 13 answers · asked by LambiguousGoat 2

Ok if I wanna have sex, but use condums, where should I buy them, cuz I am kinda embarresed about the transaction.

2007-07-24 10:17:51 · 35 answers · asked by lemerdanzam 2

theres this guy that people have been telling me that he likes me,and i like him a little too,but i'am kinda scared of getting hurt again and giving my heart to someone else who might just stomp on it again,and i'am supposed to hang out with him on friday,i guess you can call it a date but im just scared thats all.

2007-07-24 10:17:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago because he said he needed his space. Our relationship has been pretty rocky throughout, a lot having to do with trust and communication issues, but i love him more than anything in the world. We were living together for a few months and the fights just seemed to get worse. Then in may after an arguement he told me he needed space away from me but that he still loved me. He said he didnt want to be with anyone else and that this was just temporary. I moved back home and now we never see eachother and we barely talk on the phone. He told me not to expect him to call me everyday. I dont kno wat to do! Im going crazy, 1 min i feel like i hate him and then love him the next, im in so much pain. Wat should i do? All i wanna do is be with him but even if we talk now we still end up fighting. I feel so lost and confused. Is this the end of my relationship? How do i kno if i should stick around, or should i just move on? PLEASE HELP!

2007-07-24 10:13:22 · 6 answers · asked by Rosie F 1

so i like this guy. and i see him every single day. and he sits next to me in all the classes we have together. he sits by me at lunch. and we are like really good friends. but i dont know if he like likes me back. and i really want to tell him i like him but i dont want to get embarrassed and ruin our friendship. what should i do? i guess it doesnt matter if the the guy likes me or not though, b/c i like a lot of guys at my school and i mean a lot! but he is my favorite!

im 13 if that helps at all. and i appriciate all your answers. be honest.

2007-07-24 10:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by °lia° 2

i like this guy. he's 2 years younger than me and i'm 16. what do i do?? btw i'm shy and he's shy....for the most part.

2007-07-24 10:09:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get on well with a girl at work recently she has been teasing me quite a bit about something in particular, today I went to see her at her desk again she teased me and whilst doing so she made big smiles, was looking up at me and making good eye contact and stroking her hair.

Now I know that these are supposed to be signals of flirting, but are they really, or is it just friendly banter?

Could as many women as possible give their point of view as to whether they would act like this as a way to flirt. Thanks.

2007-07-24 10:06:04 · 17 answers · asked by shark 2

i dont know how this girl who i've been seeing for over 1 1/2 year will react.i'm about to ask her to be my girlfriend,but if she says no i'm going to break it off. Should i be loving and say how much i love you and need you in my life,how much i love her kids,all that mushy stuff, or should i just ask her to be my girlfriend and if she says no, just brush it off as no big deal? But honestly if she says no, i dont think i could continue being with her, while i'm falling more and more in love with her and the kids. i'm taking a chance, but i know there could possibly be a chance in the future, maybe after some time, but what is best she remember? some people tell me if you say all that mushy stuff, she will feel pressure and smothered, others tell me she will like it, some tell me to be a little like its not a big deal, that way when i leave her i save face, and its most likely she will come back to me in the future, i dont know, anyone had that experience, or can give me advice?

2007-07-24 09:59:48 · 6 answers · asked by jack a 1

My boss gave me permission to go out with her daughter and is okay with the idea but I want to know how many dates till it okay for her to "spend the night". She currently lives with her mom. She is ready now but I don't want to till I've waited the socially acceptable time, but I don't know what that is HELP!

2007-07-24 09:50:58 · 17 answers · asked by Joe 1

all of the people I went to school with are either engaged or married or serious with someone. I just dont have time with college and work to "settle down" are they moving too fast or is it just me?

2007-07-24 09:40:58 · 51 answers · asked by petiteandsweet!! 2