Singles & Dating - 24 July 2007

My partner wants me to be more active when we are having sex, but i get really embarressed because i dont know what to do. I try moving and getting a rythm going that feels good but i just cant seem to, everything i try just doesnt work, it gets my partner fustrated and thinking i dont want to have sex or that im not trying and i lose more confidence. please help me, any tips or advice is greatly appreciated!!! I want to be able to satify him without him having to do all the work.

2007-07-24 18:44:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the perfect girl in a guys mind, how do they act, look, even the color of their hair.
I don’t know how to be around them, I don’t know if they like girls to be hard to get and ditsy, or quit and innocent. I’m 6ft tall with big brown eyes, thin, long brown hair, and I’m very friendly, innocent, intelligent, and sweet…but is this guys look for? I always hear that they love blondes that are ditsy and fake, is that really true? What is the dream girl.

2007-07-24 18:44:36 · 24 answers · asked by Rae 1

2007-07-24 18:43:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

These 2 teenaged girls who didn't even know each other were about to fight because the boy was cheating. The girl should've confronted the boy, not the other girl. The other girl didn't know the boy was a cheater. Why do people like to play mind games with their partners & then the one being played confronts the wrong person?

2007-07-24 18:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am Hispanic 42yo. divorced, no kids. I am attempting to date very attractive women between 25-35yo., but there seems to be a stigma on the age, and they consider me "too old". I am average looking (slim, not muscular), college educated, and have a job. I would like to have a family. What could I possibly concentrate on to offer a younger woman, to be of additional interest, since there is the age factor, and I am not a Brat Pitt... more like average Joe, and not rich.
I used to think that with a good job, good morals, no bad habits could be enough, but *hehehe*, does not seem to be the case. I also tend to argue that older men are more mature, more focused, more respectful, but it does not seem to cut it either =).

2007-07-24 18:30:03 · 15 answers · asked by kvasir40 1

Ok I am 19 and a virgin.....recently i broke my hymen while masturbating...as embarrassing as that seems...its not the way I wanted it to happen and now I am worried that when I finally pick a guy to give my heart to that he will be disapointed...or think I am loose or a non virgin. Guys how would u react to a virgin w/o a hymen what do u think of my situation.thx

2007-07-24 18:13:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok .....iam from new orleans so before hurrican katrina i was dating this guy we were like 14-15 so we really didnt kno much about relationships then we lost contact ..... after the storm i found him he was in chicgo i was in atlanta we talked and lost contact agian because he moved and i didnt kno where to ..... so like 7-8 mounths passed and i was going through my old cell phone and i called a old number that i had for him it was his moms cell so we talked and caught up on somethings and he had moved to atlanta like 2miles from where i stay .....he says we where meant 2 be together but i say its jus a coincidence....what do u think ?

2007-07-24 18:00:01 · 9 answers · asked by Bree 2

He works for national security a very physical job in his department most of the time

2007-07-24 17:57:45 · 7 answers · asked by breezagirl 2

We've been friends for three years. We have a tradition that we hug for holidays, goodbye before a vacation, and anytime I have to go into the hospital. So today when I saw him I asked for my bye-see-in-two-weeks hug. He gave it to me. Then he went somewhere and when he came back by, he asked for another one. I was at work so he reached over the counter. I said you know I do all my loving from the end of the counter. So he came to the end of the counter, passing by a lady and saying excuse me.(...which is English for get out of my way...isn't is?) He acted like he really wanted that hug so I gave him a little kiss to. He had a gleem in his eyes when he left.


So do two hugs mean anything or is it just friends?
And before you ask...Yes I like him-like him.

2007-07-24 17:55:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talkin to this guy for a couple of months and we've gone out only twice. We've been talking and have become distant. He txts or calls me when only HE wants to. He's called me a couple of times to meet up, but i really dont feel like droppin everything im doing just to go see him. I guess what im trying to say is...am i right for not dropping everything i'm doing to go see a guy I barely have contact with anymore??????????

2007-07-24 17:55:16 · 10 answers · asked by Bored Latina 2

My boyfriend and I are young we are both 17 almost 18. We have been dating for 4 years, and haven't really fought at all. We are both secure in our relationship and often talk about marriage. I think we are both ready for the next step, but our parents are more than likely completely against it. I know mine are for sure and his are more than likely. We don't want to get married until we are done with school, but we would love to be engaged. We both feel that having that commitment is a huge step for both of us and we are ready, but our parents are the issue...I guess I just need advice...

2007-07-24 17:51:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-24 17:43:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf of almost 4 years sometimes tells me that he prefers to go out with a big group rather than just the two of us. We go out on a date every week, and we have our alone time every friday to get close and just be with each other. But I still don't see the reason why he would prefer to go out with a big group than just the two of us sometimes, like the beach. He is a very social person, and I am just the opposite. Does it have something to do with his personality? Or is something wrong with our relationship? To be honest, I don't think anything is terribly wrong, because I've known him for 6 years and this is not out of the blue. I'm just wondering if this is normal...thanks

2007-07-24 17:42:16 · 16 answers · asked by Deesa 2

i met a guy 2 days ago, we started txting and talking a lot. he told my friend he was gonnna ask me out 2morrow. my other friend hates him and tells me hes extremely mean and unpopular. could she b jelous? my other friends like him and hes always been nice 2 me. should i say yes or no?

2007-07-24 17:41:53 · 14 answers · asked by *smile* =] 2

OMG My bf's cousin kissed me. What should I do?
I came to my bf's house to see how he was doing and his cousin just happens to be there. When I went in the bedroom he was up. So as I was asking him how he was his cousin interrupts me to ask me to talk to him in the hall. So I said sure because i didn't know what he wanted. So as soon as we get outside he just kisses me. And I yell and ask him what he is doing. Then he says in quote "You know you don't want to stop." So I slap him and run back home. It has been 5 hours since he has kissed me and I am afraid to tell my bf bcuz he might beat the freakin sh*t out of him. And that will cause my family to start trying to convince to break up with him when i dont.
So what do I do?

2007-07-24 17:41:18 · 41 answers · asked by Sexi Latina 1

Me and this guy i like were hanging out today. He wanted to hang out again tomorrow, so he told me to call him later. I texted him a little while ago asking if he still wanted to hang out, and he didnt text back. Does this mean that he lost interest? Advice please!

2007-07-24 17:39:39 · 7 answers · asked by colorfulgarden 1

Thre's this girl who goes to church with me, and we have allot in common and have been talking allot over the past couple weeks. Everyone from the church is going to a theme park ..friday ( in two days) and I'm pretty sure I have a really good chance with this girl BUT I don't know how I can tell her how I feel, any suggestions? OH yea... we're going on a sky-coaster together if that would help any

2007-07-24 17:17:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-24 17:16:01 · 1 answers · asked by angel 2

well. this guy went to my school and moved to MA. we talk everyday and he seems very dedicated an doesnt want to be with anyone else. i get to see him next summer. Should i wait?

2007-07-24 17:11:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so my boyfriend and me recently had sex. he started doing really strange things when his tongue wus in my p****, i mean REALLY weird like almost kinky. that was 1 week ago and now everytime i see him he wants to have sex. every time. like today i met up with him, we went to his house and were on the couch watchin a movie, then he like laid on me said,"stay here" came back blindfolded me and put his d*** in my p****, w/out a condom. idk what to do now, like if im preg. he's gonna bail. wut do i do? and if im not when we meet up again how will i b able to trust him again?

2007-07-24 17:04:47 · 8 answers · asked by mia marie peretti 1

if ur bf doesnt have any contact with u all day and den messages u once at 1-2 AM, and the message jsut says "ur unfair" referring to my message about him not tlkaing to me all day. is he cheating? he's not working n not in school rite now, so he has nothing to keep him busy. he says its cuz i upset him, but is he lying? he does this more than once....is he really just upset or does he have some1 else on the side?

2007-07-24 16:58:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

why are people so rude?wheres the love?

2007-07-24 16:55:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-24 16:54:37 · 6 answers · asked by fantasy_phenom9 1

I start picking my own guys instead of letting them choose me. She said to browse myspace (she did and met an awesome guy that she's been with for over a year). So I decided to give it a try just for kicks, not really trying to "find" a guy and I clicked on this guy's page and got a strange feeling of deja vue and butterflies when I saw him and began to read about him. I can't describe the feeling. I've never felt anything like it before and it sort of freaked me out. We have so much in common its scary. It felt like I was reading about myself. I can "see" myself in this guy. I'm aware that people often feel a connection with those that have common interests, etc. but it was totally different. I sent this guy a message making casual conversation (not implying that I "liked" him) and he just ignored it, but I have a gut feeling deep down not to give up on him, like what I felt is real, its just not the right time to meet yet. *continued...*

2007-07-24 16:53:43 · 9 answers · asked by allyj85 1

see heres the thing.its an all guys event..wich actually means its ment to be all guys but will be girls because for some reason there always is.but thats not what bothers me. of course i wasnt invited to go (all guy trip), but it seems like every time my boyfriend goes out with out me he always ends up getting hurt. hes go the crap kicked outta him by a friend in a pit,came to me at 2 in the morn crying and covered in blood with a big gash in the side of his head.and then he went again without me and ended up getting really drunk getting in a pit again and breaking a few ribs.hes also fell into a grill and has scares on his back.broken a few fingers while wrestling around with friends. its a never ending battle. when im not around hes always getting out of control and then getting hurt.and im affraid that its going to happen again.i really want him to go. because we do everything together and i know he needs his guy time. but its for the whole weekend and im scared. what should i do?

2007-07-24 16:49:43 · 15 answers · asked by misshotcakes2u 4

do u think about them alot?
how can u tell the difference between caring for someone as a person or maybe as more?

2007-07-24 16:33:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before you answer, It is merely an invitation to join a website. Let me explain the situation better I was her Online Boyfriend for about only a month I broke us up because I didnt feel like we really had much in common at all.

I said to myself before "Its for the best that I break this relationship up now then later there's no use living a lie and pretending to like her" Still it puzzles me why she sent me an email just today to join a site!

My Question is Why did she email me? I was the one who broke up with her before why would she want me to get back into contact? It doesn't make any sense at all to me.

2007-07-24 16:33:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to a talent show, and saw this boy tht i used to like (he knew) and I saw him there i totally didnt kno tht he was goin to be there, but then i see him tlk to his "posy" and turn around and look @t me then evry couple of min. he turns around nd looks @t me, then at the end he comes up and stands right next to me, trying to make it seem like hes tryin to get his friends attention, when me nd my freinds knew tht he was lookin @t me, (he was @t the talent show w/ his grl too) THen the next day he goes to one of my best friends and says tht i onli went there to see him, and kept on sayin tht to her. Even though i didnt kno tht he would be there. Does this sound like he likes me????? Thnxz for reading this story and 4 answering it!!!!

2007-07-24 16:21:42 · 1 answers · asked by 2gOoD2bEtRuE4uSk8ErDuDeZz 2

2007-07-24 16:20:15 · 1 answers · asked by DAN TO GOD HELLO 1

Like when you're holding hands, and just kissed it? A guy did that to me and I thought it was sweet. I'm wondering whether all guys do that or not?

2007-07-24 16:19:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous