well. this guy went to my school and moved to MA. we talk everyday and he seems very dedicated an doesnt want to be with anyone else. i get to see him next summer. Should i wait?
2007-07-24 17:11:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not stupid. If it's meant to be, the distance won't matter.
2007-07-24 17:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It all depends how you feel. If you want to see other guys and explore then no, but if you think hes the right guy for you then wait it out. Maybe you guys can plan a visit somewhere in between. My mans in the army so we ahve a long distance relationship,but we've also been together for 3 years so I know for sure its worth the wait and we make it work. Its completely dif for each person, so do what feels right.
2007-07-24 17:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by julie4712b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not stupid to have a long distance relationship with someone across the country. Really. He doesn't wanna see anyone else because he really loves you. Well, if you can't wait, then you should go. If you can wait, then don't go.
2007-07-24 17:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by clandestine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...out my own experience i would have to say until a next summer (or so) can be a long time when waiting to see someone...i would only recommend a long-distance relationship if both of you are willing to...
other-wise maybe a friend relationship would be better at least until you could be together for a longer period of time...
(but all and all it's your decision and not anyone else's)
[you two are the ones who'll decide how things work out...]
so...best of luck to you... :]
2007-07-24 17:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Josh E. =P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a LDR across the ocean, first from Japan to the US, then from the US to Iraq. For 2 years. It was hard, but he and I have now been happily married for 2 years. If you're really dedicated to making it work, then give it a try. At least you can fly out and visit eachother.
2007-07-24 17:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ahni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn’t stupid if he is worth waiting. Try to evaluate your feelings if you feel his love for you is real and you feel the same way too… then wait. The distance won’t matter much if you have a constant communication.
Sweetie, there’s no harm in waiting as long as you’ll go on with your life. Don’t just wait, enjoy your life and achieve your goals while waiting.
Good luck!
2007-07-24 17:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by nIjMeh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is a long way away and you have no idea what he could be doing, or for better..who he is doing! And he's a guy, so you know that they can't control themselves and it doesn't matter if he tells you that he is not cheating on you because people lie..all the time. If you really trust him, then I guess. But you're probably pretty so I'm guessing you can get a guy that lives way closer to you.
2007-07-24 17:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its stupid at all. When I was dating my husband, he was stationed in Korea... for a YEAR.. I think you have to be totally comitted to making it work... its not easy by any means, but if you feel strongly for this guy and he feels the same about you, see what happens... Make sure you communicate well.. as corny as it sounds: 'communication is the key..'. Write letters, send cards, talk as much as possible... And when you have time together, make it memorable... But you need to make sure both you and he are in it for the long run. You dont want to be hurt in the midst of this relationship, but if you want to make the effort, go for it.. I hope it works out! Best of luck! :)
2007-07-24 17:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to agree.....if it's meant to be then distance shouldn't matter....I really don't think its stupid....I'm in a long distance relationship right now and as long as there is trust between the two of you then everything should be ok.......
2007-07-24 17:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the kind of person you are..if you like being able to hang out with your guy alot and cuddle and kiss then a long distance relationship would be hard but if you really like this person then it is possible to make it work...as long as he feels the same way.
2007-07-24 17:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by hunny_bun19 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time on this when there's a thousand guys around you that you can see all the time and have a meaningful relationship with? Your boyfriend is cheating on you right now, I bet!
2007-07-24 17:16:43 · answer #11 · answered by freekin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋