if ur bf doesnt have any contact with u all day and den messages u once at 1-2 AM, and the message jsut says "ur unfair" referring to my message about him not tlkaing to me all day. is he cheating? he's not working n not in school rite now, so he has nothing to keep him busy. he says its cuz i upset him, but is he lying? he does this more than once....is he really just upset or does he have some1 else on the side?
2007-07-24 16:58:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask that question, it is time to move on. You have choices, exercise them.
Cheerio
2007-07-24 17:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O yeah, hay if you lay down with a dog your going to get fleas, but to be sure if you like play private eye next time and make sure you do not give him any indication that you suspect he is cheating be real nice, or you can ask him face to face maybe, but tell him that you don't want to dump him you don't want to know who she is you just want to really know if he has been seeing someone else. Plus use you gut feelings if you have a feeling than he probably is, so cut your loses before you end up with a deficit to big to cover........
2007-07-24 17:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info.
Call him and talk to him.
Maybe you did upset him, or maybe he is just drunk.
Either way, talk to him and if he wont straighten up, dump him.
A drama queen for a GF is awful, a drama KING for a BF is unacceptable.
NEXT.
2007-07-24 17:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like there's a lot of trust in your relationship. Maybe you should move on and find someone whose actions don't make you think he's cheating....
2007-07-24 17:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by BuckarooBanzai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing why are u unfair ? I'm sorry to say but i think your bf needs to check himself.... sounds to me like he's playing head games with you.. Ditch him !! why have a volkswagon when u can have a cadilac. good luck
2007-07-24 17:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry hunny...but it sounds like he is cheating..for him to reply to your message like that...he is trying to put blame on you...cuz in his mind it makes him feel that it is ok that he cheated because you are "unfair".
Ditch the loser and get you a real WINNER
2007-07-24 17:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has been done to me before, and my ex was cheating, i think he is cheating, it might be hard to realize it and believe it beacuse you have feelings for him, but it would be best to try to find out and if he is leave him for cheating and lying!
2007-07-24 17:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cecilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a big fat stupid jerky cheater! and i say that you shouldnt be treated this way! sit him down and give him a good talking to. then dump that lier!
2007-07-24 17:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Chloe'♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheating i think you know that where he dont do nothing at all in my opion?
2007-07-24 17:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be...
just dont trust any of them...
they just cant be trusted...
2007-07-24 17:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by fishcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋