OMG My bf's cousin kissed me. What should I do?
I came to my bf's house to see how he was doing and his cousin just happens to be there. When I went in the bedroom he was up. So as I was asking him how he was his cousin interrupts me to ask me to talk to him in the hall. So I said sure because i didn't know what he wanted. So as soon as we get outside he just kisses me. And I yell and ask him what he is doing. Then he says in quote "You know you don't want to stop." So I slap him and run back home. It has been 5 hours since he has kissed me and I am afraid to tell my bf bcuz he might beat the freakin sh*t out of him. And that will cause my family to start trying to convince to break up with him when i dont.
So what do I do?
2007-07-24 17:41:18 · 41 answers · asked by Sexi Latina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh so dats why u left without telling me. I'm gonna beat dat n***a's a*s for even touching you. I'm not mad at you I'm mad at dat n***a. But watch he's gonna be in da f*ckin emergency rooom when i'm finished with him. See you later.
2007-07-24 18:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Brandon G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This cousin sounds like he might had been getting the wrong signals from you,he could had thought you have feelings for him and therefore decided to kiss you,but I agree with everyone ,you should tell your man because if you dont the cousin will assume you did enjoy it and you have something for him and then the cousin might go tell your boyfriend about it and the situation will be worse because now the boyfriend will question you about why you never told him and the one at the end who lost this whole situation would be you because he will believe the cousin and not you for not being honest with him since the beginning and he wont be able to trust you anymore.
good luck but thats the best way to do it ,if you dont want the cousin to give leading you on.
2007-07-24 17:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the question is, Did you kissed him too when he kissed u? Did u liked the kiss? if yes then u liked him and u must get away wit him, and tell ur bf' the truth! if you really love your boy friend and you wanna be with him, then you would never allow any one to kiss u, no matter what! some times in life you have to put ur priorities first, who's important to you? ur bf or his cousin? Secondly the most important thing in life is called HONESTY, if u can't make it up to being honest with ur bf just tell him straight way! honesty is hard to accept but it feels good later. If i were you, I WOULD DEFINITELY KICK HIS *** FOR KISSING ME!
2007-07-24 17:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Gabrail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should still tell your boyfriend. Because if you dont, and he finds out some other way, then you'll be in deep trouble because he'll accuse you of cheating. And explain to your parents that you really like him, and it is not his wrong that his cousin kissed you. Also, try to avoid his cousin, and/or give him dirty looks when you see him, to show that you are not interested and so that he doesnt try anything with you again.
2007-07-24 17:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gonna have to tell your boyfriend what happened, if you don't and if his cousin said you're a sl*t, and you let him kiss you.. then you're in big trouble.
So you got to tell your bf, what if next time his cousin grab your boobs.... how you gonna react. So to prevent that in the future... You must tell your BF
Beside, don't you think he deserve a beat up for doing that to you?
2007-07-24 17:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Glenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where dose this cuz live ? is he just in town for a visit? or dose he live just a short distance away? if he lives out of town stay away until he goes home and keep quite. if he lives close by i think you are probably are going to have to tell someone. If you think it may cause your bf to do something he should not do. Tell the cuz you are going to tell your parents if he try that agin. Be sure you are not alone with him agin .
2007-07-24 17:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by franfifi@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiding it from your boyfriend is gonna make things really bad with you too if he finds out from someone else or you don't tell him soon enough. Just try to keep your boyfriend calm when you tell him, make sure he knows it didn't mean anything you. To keep your boyfriend from beating his cousin up just tell him what your family will try to do.
2007-07-24 17:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dorphinoct 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by rejecting him, now you have to tell your boyfriend. You don't want the cousin saying something to him first afraid you might, then your boyfriend will wonder what you had to hide. You have to watch, this type of guy will turn it all on the girl. tell your boyfriend asap.
2007-07-24 17:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf, why do you care if he beats his cousins ***? Do you or did you have something going on with his cousin in the past and its making you not want to see him hurt?
2007-07-24 17:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you allow this creep to interupt you while you were asking your boyfriend how he was doing??? I wouldnt have allowed anyone to interupt my time or convo with MY man....
First get rid of the guilt, then I would say nothing to my BF to keep the drama down but I would in person warn this cousin that you will have your bf kick his *** the next time he tries to get fresh with you....
2007-07-24 17:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by Holla!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep it from him, he will find out its family! And then hewil assume you are trying to hide something deeper and he will dump you and you will look like the ho who kissed his cousin! Tell your boyfriend, it sounds like his cousin deserves to have the crap beat out of him. What he did was totally unappropriete and he should be punished! If you love your boyfriend I wouldnt risk not telling him. Tell him immediently!
2007-07-24 17:51:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋