Ok I am 19 and a virgin.....recently i broke my hymen while masturbating...as embarrassing as that seems...its not the way I wanted it to happen and now I am worried that when I finally pick a guy to give my heart to that he will be disapointed...or think I am loose or a non virgin. Guys how would u react to a virgin w/o a hymen what do u think of my situation.thx
2007-07-24 18:13:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it.
It's not gonna make a difference to the guy if indeed he is the "right guy"not the guy just trying to pick your cherry.
2007-07-24 18:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is OK, it would not bother me at all. Know the guy will not think you are loose believe me. That is a normal way that the hymen can be broke, other ways are tampons and even some things like some exercises. The fact that your hymen is broke is not a big deal at all. You should not worry about it. I think it is sweet that you are waiting for the man you love to come along before you have sex. That is great! I know a lot of girls that wished they had, but did not make the smart choice. Like I said that is no big deal at all. So don't worry about it. :)
2007-07-25 01:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First... Congrats for being a 19yr old virgin. It's as rare as a perfect diamond now-a-days. I am a 22yr old male.
On the first note, a guy (who isn't a doctor) wont notice a broken hymen by sexial innercourse alone. So don't stress your really stressing over anything. Secound, your virgin so you will still be quite "tight" when the day comes.
This will not be something he or you would be able to feel the difference off. If you feel like you need a better source for answers... Try Dr. Dru on the loveline. He host is show (you dont have to give you name) on the radio Mon-Fri. 1-800-love-191. Dr Dru is a doctor and not some made up DJ.
2007-07-25 01:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Eddi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way a guy will know that your not a virgin is if you tell him. Since you masturbate, im sure you have an idea of what sex might feel like and the actions that are involved. Technically, your still a virgin because you have not had sexual intercourse. Young girls who do gymnastics or some type of sport often cause breakage to their hymens because of the physical nature of it all. It doesnt mean that they arent a virgin anymore. Besides, your hymen broke, not the walls of your vagina. When you hav sex alot, the walls of your vagina become more flexible and starten to loosen up. Youll be fine.
2007-07-25 01:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry its very easy for the hymen to be broken unintentionally and its more about how you react than if you have an intact hymen --- if the guy you give your virginity to does not accept that you are a virgin then im sorry he does not truly care for and trust you --- forget about it and just wait until you find someone that you care for, that does not care about your virginity (he wants you the person not you the virgin) then when you do give yourself it will be a worthwhile experience --- and it gets better with time and a single partner (for both male and female) ---- best wishes
2007-07-25 01:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes the one and you are going to share your precious gift and body, he will believe you when you tell him your story, and when it comes time, when you are ready he'll be or should be more concerned with being gentle and careful because you broke your hymen masturbating not through penetration of a penis. The man you love and loves you wont be disappoinetd plus you are a one in a million this day and age, he'll be more shocked and honored than anything else and or ready to jump on ya -
2007-07-25 01:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin and married a virgin, the Dr. had to give my wife creams and these cylinders to stretch her so we could even have sex, needless to say when the time came I was happy not to deal the mess. I don't think you have a thing to worry about.
Also, I think a guy would be very excited to know you masterbated and had an interest in sex and orgasms.
2007-07-25 01:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by jstusucks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls even have hymen's (and look it up if you dont believe me) so dont even worry about it...a guy will be able to tell (that is if HE has had sex before) if your a virgin or not...and if you say you are...im sure he will believe you
2007-07-25 01:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol girl most men wont feel or even care of your hymen is broken they are so bent on getting some that they will over look it and then mostly all men dont even know what the hell a hymen is (even though im one that does) dont even worry about that...lol... us simple men dont even think about all that plus what ever you did with your hand or a toy cant compare to want most men have in there pants... well unless you mess with itty bitty tiny winey short short men...
2007-07-25 01:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Godson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest mistake, and definitely not a big deal. When you eventually pick a guy to give your virginity to, then you will obviously have some trust in him (as he should in you), so if he asks, then you can just tell him the truth and he should believe you.
2007-07-25 01:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by thewhistles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋