I start picking my own guys instead of letting them choose me. She said to browse myspace (she did and met an awesome guy that she's been with for over a year). So I decided to give it a try just for kicks, not really trying to "find" a guy and I clicked on this guy's page and got a strange feeling of deja vue and butterflies when I saw him and began to read about him. I can't describe the feeling. I've never felt anything like it before and it sort of freaked me out. We have so much in common its scary. It felt like I was reading about myself. I can "see" myself in this guy. I'm aware that people often feel a connection with those that have common interests, etc. but it was totally different. I sent this guy a message making casual conversation (not implying that I "liked" him) and he just ignored it, but I have a gut feeling deep down not to give up on him, like what I felt is real, its just not the right time to meet yet. *continued...*
2007-07-24 16:53:43 · 9 answers · asked by allyj85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't obsess over this guy or anything. I've actually dated a different guy since I saw him but its like he sorta stays in the back of my mind. I found his page in February and I've visited it once a week or so since. The attraction isn't lust by any means. He's really not what most girls would consider "attractive" but there's just something about him that I can't put my finger on that draws me to him. Furthermore, most every guy I've dated/been attracted to involved a degree of lust from the very beginning. When I picture the type of things I'd like to do with this guy, it doesn't involve anything sexual. It's things like taking a long walk on the beach and just talking for hours on end. I decided a few months ago that I'd push this aside and attempt to pursue this later on if I still felt the same. I recently began some volunteer work and became very good friends with a girl that just happens to know him (of all people in this town of 150,000 +) but she *continued...*
2007-07-24 16:54:18 · update #1
doesn't know I know him. Even more freaky is the fact that I attend school 3 hours from my hometown and he grew up close by. Furthermore, my aunt believes she used to babysit this guy's cousin, and was very good friends with the child's mother. Is all this some strange coincidence or does this sound like something more, like meant-to-be, soulmate sort of stuff? I'm 22, I've been in love, lust, relationships, etc. and I know this feeling I have in unlike any other, and I don't use the term "soulmate" loosely as some do. What do you all think? Sorry my quesiton is so long! Thanks for reading it!
2007-07-24 16:55:07 · update #2
It was so lovely to read your story.
I think it is an amazing story.
I am not going to label this as ....................
You are doing that yourself.
Go with what you feel
Listen to your feelings
2007-07-24 17:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Astro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one the internet is a place you can meet someone anywhere at any give'n time. I can somewhat understand your "idea" on why you may feel some connection. Happens more often than before the net lol. But dont let just a feeling control your actions. Its not always as simple as "I feel something ive never felt before" But im not one to say you "think" you feel a certian way. Who knows maybe its what is ment to be. But its very easy to get all into this without thinking first. BE SAFE! and if its ment to be WOOHOOO!!
2007-07-25 00:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe love at first sight, but you should really be careful with the myspace dating. What this guy puts on MySpace may not be true at all. If he just ignored you either try to let it go cause that was pretty rude, or you could try a more aggresive approach and have a more indepth conversation then small talk.
2007-07-24 23:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by Carrots and bunnies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kid yourself or get caught up in a fantasy world. If he didn't respond...he's not interested. There are over 3 billion people in the world. Find one that's interested in you. Good luck!
2007-07-25 00:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Whoa... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea what the question is, that was entirely too long to read.
If your having problems finding guys, try SHUTTING UP.
If you meet a guy and ramble on like this he will run for the hills UNLESS your super fine, then he will tolerate it in hopes of getting some, THEN he will run for the hills.
2007-07-24 23:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your good friend to introduce you! You may even be able to leave the myspace stalking info out of it.
2007-07-24 23:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by coffeeshopnat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try writing him again, or have your friend who knows him actually introduce you at a party or something, and who knows? good luck!
2007-07-25 00:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the net is for information. Stay away from MY SPACE. perverts are there and they are grand con artists. STOP IT!!!
2007-07-24 23:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by julia j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try meeting this man because you sound obsessed to me
2007-07-25 00:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by buddy d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋