Okay... so I like this guy alot.. we're really good friends and 3 of my friends told me the he likes me.... even one of his best friends told me one day they were on their way to pick me up. She was like " okay T**** just told me that he likes you and that he would like to go out with me" i was happy so the next day i wrote him a letter and i told him how i felt and everything...i felt kinda stupid.. but the thing is that i thought he didnt like girls (if you know what i mean) he's dated girls before (he just told me) but everybody at my school told me that he likes boys... i'm soo confused. Anyways the thing is that after i gave him the letter he started to call me everyday..and he started to talk to me more at school... then he'd call me and ask me he could come over to my house and we just started to hang out. now that is summer..we havent got the chance to hang out..he calls me and i call him..he's always like "hey cutie we need to hang out soon real soon I miss you so much!".HELP?
2007-07-24 11:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by ~babygirl18~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you really want to go out with this guy, you will FIND a way to see each other. You go to the same school, so you can't live that far apart. If you changed your mind about how you feel, then just let him know. If not, there is ALWAYS a way to make arrangements to see each other. Maybe you are not trying because you really don't want to see him, and that's fine, but be up front with him it's only fair.
2007-08-01 03:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sound like your both confused, maybe not about the same thing, but talking about it is the answer. Empty conversations are how a lot of people build there relationships and empty relationships are what the end up with. Anything of value is worth working at and that requires communication. Talk to him, tell him how you feel and make sure that you are both on the same page. Life is short, don't waste time if it's not going anywhere. Oh yeah, be careful who you listen to and let there lives show the value of there oppinions.
2007-08-01 16:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by mbl75051 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Letters are a little childish know, emails or texts are much more better. Being in person the top thing to do. Call him and go hang out at the park so you can talk more, movies all you do is sit there, find somehting creative to do. good luck
2007-08-01 16:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
apparently whoever told you he was gay lied to you. If you like him so much and he apparently wants to hang out with you then make time if you don't he might just slip away. I work raise three kids and go to school but my husband and I are always making time for one another. A relationship is built on time,love, trust, and honesty. Never be to busy to spend time with the ones you love try scheduling a date or something like meet him at the movies on a Friday night or something. Something simple can always be the best. It is good that you find time to talk on the phone but meet him someplace hang out he wants to that should tell you something right there.
2007-08-01 15:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Janey from Louisiana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um make plans like a week in advanced or something if its a job thats keeping you apart ask for a day off so that you guys can go do something fun like the water park or something. if he really wants to hang out then you guys should just try a bit harder. just call him up and tell him to ask of the (insertdate here) because you two are going to go (fun activity that could last a good few hrs)
good luck!
2007-08-01 17:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So make plans to hang out. What's the confusion?
2007-07-24 18:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Help with what? Make plans and hang out with him. If you miss each other that much you would have made plans. Make plans! Go hang out!
2007-08-01 15:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Miss 6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not really sure what the question is..but if you are worried about if he is attracted to the same sex...but he clearly tells you he is not..and you like him...it doesnt matter what everyone else thinks...he knows better than anyone else who he is attracted to..
as for the spending time together..make time...plan in advance if you really want to see him...if you want it, you can make it happen
hope i helped :)
2007-08-01 14:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by Taz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe when you start middle school in a few years, you can figure out what to do.
2007-08-01 18:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by nautyniki18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-01 14:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by ARii3L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋