right ..situ...
best friends....clingy! ..boyfriend amazing :D
alevels coming up :|
wen all i wanna do is move in with my bf and have children, i wanna be pregnant and have his children!
pathetic!! yep! i know! but im so i love and i dont know if i might be able to do alevels when im dont know if i want it... i want something else !
i want my own family ...at 16... its s l u tt y and stupid,,, im posh and not rough...but ,, im lost.what do i do!
2007-07-24 11:05:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever taken care of a baby for 24 hrs? If not, you have no idea of the physical and mental strain involved. You have no idea of the financial hardship it can create. You sound like a smart girl. Get an education. Get a good job. Then you can get married and plan for a child.
If you have one now, you will regret it forever.
2007-07-24 11:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep 16 no education and having kids bet you will have a wonderful life, and future. What to do? First grow up, get an education and then decide on marriage and kids. You both are to young for the responsibility that goes along with your desires. If you follow through with your idea I do not give it a year until you are on your own, because he could not take the responsibility and expense of raising a child and supporting a family. Then a welfare mom for the rest of your life struggling to get by.
2007-07-24 18:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Pengy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young lady, you need serious help. Is there not someone you trust to talk this over with? Having children is no laughing matter. Not even talking of expensive. Do you have medical to even have children??? Sounds to me that you really need someone to love you. Give it time.. it will happen.. You should be married before you have your family. Live it up first. Get to know your mate. Kids always change that. Good luck.
2007-07-24 18:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen758 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about going 2 college, finishing, get married, then start a family? children will drain ur life. @ 16, ur boyfriend will have 2 work 4 jobs just bcuz of u.
2007-07-24 18:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by Crown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're really 16, your hormones are raging right now. thats the only reason you feel like you want children. My advice is that you should wait. think about the consequences... if you had a kid now, could you support it well enough? you dont have a full time job i'm sure. and even if u dont wanna hear this, things might not work out with mr. right... and then where would you be. You've got plenty of time to have children, wait please please please wait.
2007-07-24 18:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by skier+dancerGirl90 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you dont. You're 16. You dont have your head screwed on straight. Dating is about getting to know what you want in a guy. Its young love and it will fade fast.
2007-07-24 18:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Michael D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear millie,
i guess you'll have to wait for a cople years. dont waist your childhood! if yu have a baby now youll hole childhood goes down the darn drain so go out with your boyfriend and you friends but you only go so far when your married.
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2007-07-24 18:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by kayla g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down. You are only 16.
2007-07-24 18:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have a good plan and you know what you want. that's your life and you should do what is the best for you. good advice could be helpful, but the decisions are all yours at the end.
2007-07-24 18:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn how to use punctuation.
2007-07-24 18:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋