why do i have to choose? cant i jus like both of them and hang out wit them and not have sex wit them without ppl thinkin i am a flirt and a slut? cuz i cant decide which on i like more. but ppl keep tellin me i have to choose..???? do i ????
2007-07-24 11:09:00 · 5 answers · asked by Rosie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You absolutely do NOT have to choose. You can like them both; you can hang out with them both; and you can even date them both. Just tell them both that you like them but aren't yet ready to see just one guy. Its far better to date a few nice people than to allow yourself to be pressured into some sort of "serial monogamy" where each relationship generally last no more than a few weeks or months. Your mind is in the right place. Keep it there.
2007-07-24 11:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you care what other people thought about you hanging out with more than one guy? Are you being honest with them and with yourself? Why do you need to decide anything? Just enjoy each of them for their qualities, continue to NOT get sex involved with the equation. While it is tricky to be "friends" with guys, especially if you really like them, hold to your true self, and enjoy the company.
2007-07-24 12:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by crittersitterjenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You do not have to choose right now. Until either you determine that you like one of them more than the other, or one of them wants to take the relationship to a different level (exclusive), then don't do it.
Enjoy dating them both !
2007-07-24 15:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by Scrapper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are on the level with both and let them know you are just dating and not exclusive, there is no problem with it.
2007-07-24 11:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to figure out which one you can picture being your husband
2007-07-24 11:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥JuicyGirll♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋