Singles & Dating - 8 July 2007

i am dating this guy and he just had a baby with someone else and i meet him while she was prenant .but he swears that he wants to be with me he is areally good man he wants to be there for his baby and move on at the same time. should i be trying to get serious with him or should i give him his space to focus on his new baby cause I get jelous when he goes to see the baby or when he goes to buy her something but i really like him and i love the fact that he wants to be there for his child (sometimes) so what is the problem how can i get over this.

2007-07-08 07:24:41 · 4 answers · asked by starodo1 3

he kinda masturbates 4 times a day,,
i mean when i m not near him,,
he says he misses me a lot and masturbates,,
i m kinda worried,,
if its harmful,,what should he do ??
does drinking lots of water help in any of the ways??

2007-07-08 07:13:12 · 33 answers · asked by sweet_sweet_gal 1

I am a black women and I am very much attractive to white men for a wide variety of reasons. Although. I've dated black men I feel they are not my type and not to my standards. My first boyfriend of 6 years was white and Itallian and he was the best relaionship I ever had. I now attend a predominetly black college; voulunteer at a local hospital were there are white men. But, I don't think that is the best place to meet white men. How do I go about meeting a nice white men.

I am from NYC so try to be specific. Thank You. :)

2007-07-08 07:10:17 · 9 answers · asked by happy b 3

My Boyfriend (of four yrs)and I broke up for a few weeks and during that time I had sex with a guy in my theatre dept and now I'm seeing both of them. The theatre guy knows about my boyfriend and has even met him...but my boyfriend has no idea that I'm sleeping with anyone else- but now that I've been sleeping with this guy...I wont have sex with my BF. How can I tell him?

2007-07-08 07:04:18 · 3 answers · asked by Aries Love 1

If a married man does the following: stares, initiates conversations, tries to run into a woman even if it's just to say hi; jumps at the chance to have her in his office even when he says he's "really busy", says that it's a good thing that she's always around; casually mentions that his life is dull, predictable; mentions that if she ever needs him to tell other people about her, everything would be ONLY positive; acts sad and annoyed when she leaves on vacation.

He smiles a lot, teases her; gives her more attention than he gives everybody else; hangs around to listen to her phone conversations; makes it clear that he would "never" forget one of her requests; asks to stay in touch with her (even in front of his wife) and lets her know that he is “flexible” to have her over any time; confides in her with work problems and is very willing to take a break in the middle of a work day when she visits, and continuing their conversation...


Does this mean that he is looking for an affair, and is he already emotionally involved?

2007-07-08 07:03:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love someone, but we have been having a difficult time physically because we are both insecure about making the first move. He told me that he always thought that sex was something that is supposed to come naturally. What do you think? Should it always come naturally or is it okay if work is involved in the beginning? Does this mean that we don't have chemistry or is it just because we are shy?

2007-07-08 06:51:28 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-07-08 06:51:08 · 7 answers · asked by 504 BOY 2

ok so i do have one problem with the girl i have been dating for 9 months now. once in a while she gets really smart at the mouth with me. example: today i took her into my work to show her some old photos, and i was reading one of the captions on it, when she turned around and said "thanks, i can read". now mind you i dont want to read too much into this b/c this just might be her personality and might do it with everyone. but how do i tell her that i dont like it when she says something smart to me! i dont want to start a fight, but i know that i am not the type that would say that to anyone b/c it does affect the person. so any help would be great. thanks!

2007-07-08 06:29:11 · 2 answers · asked by notcatchable 1

A guy I know said he thinks I'm beautiful and sexy but he's not attracted to me. When I asked him what he meant by attraction, he said interpersonal chemistry. What is interpersonal chemistry? A lot of people these days use the word "chemistry". Is chemistry an effortless connection, a natural rapport between people when their personalities mesh well together/when there is an intense attraction to someone's personality? Is it being extremely drawn/attracted to someone's personality?

2007-07-08 06:20:55 · 4 answers · asked by Citygirl 2

2007-07-08 06:15:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-08 06:12:23 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay i meet a man on the internet and he said he love me and he want to be with me,and he problems that he will be honest and be truth worthed until he find me not. should i truth him?

2007-07-08 06:06:09 · 1 answers · asked by DELORIS C 1

are there any proud virgins out there?? i dont want to feel alone in this.. it's very hard but i'm saving it til marrige, and i know nothing is going to push me to do it before i get married, it's really hard though..

i just want to know are there any PROUD virgins out there? or did any of you save it until you got married??
was/is it tough for you?

2007-07-08 05:52:08 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ ƒσяєνєя яє∂ ♥ 4

2007-07-08 05:49:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy genuinely says a girl is pretty, she looks at him like he's stupid or thinks (rather vocally) that he's lying. Girls don't have to be a damn supermodel to be really pretty...

2007-07-08 05:47:37 · 23 answers · asked by sicarn 2

ok so i'm sure everyone has heard that at least once in your life.... but please tell me what that means.

Same story i've been friends w/ this girl for the past 2 years and about a week ago i finally asked her out. She said she couldn't see us together like that.

Being very good friends for the past 2 years i would think we know each other well enough to go out. We both care about each other (Well i care for her, hopefully she does about me) . And to make everything more complicated... Not only my friends but hers as well said we would make the best couple.





I'm just at the end here and need some advice

thanks in advance

2007-07-08 05:47:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jim D 2

I just spent my entire vacation with him sleeping in my bedroom all day, and I am ready to throw him out the upstairs window. I think the reason he sleeps at my house is so he dont have to pay for his own airconditoning. He works nites and kept taking time off so he could be with me, but it was too much time together. I just needed a breather so I picked a fight and cried and he left. Finally! I think it was too much togetherness.
He controls every thing from the time we left to go see the fireworks to the food we ate and where we went to eat.
He burps, farts, and it makes me want to vomit. He will even do it in my face while we are in bed.
I sat on the couch and watched while he read a book and my I also say had total control of the remote so I had to watch him read a book and see the TV show he picked so he could glance up at the TV while he read his damn book.
He finally went home. Thank goodness. Is it normal for me to be sick of him? Do we just need a break

2007-07-08 05:44:39 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6

im in a relationshipof 25yrs,got 2 kids,all of them I love dearly!!!recently, have chatted to someone on here,dont know him from adam!! dont know what he looks like!! but he makes my knees go weak!! I love hearing from him,ive never been able to talk to anyone like I do him!! in fact never disclosed anything to anybody like i do him!!! Iknow im infactuated by him!!! chatted before to others but hes different!!! i look forward to any chat we have, in fact cant wait(and i have to cause have to wait until kids have done!!!!)What advice can anyone give me!!!! and I know he will know questions ive asked!!!!cant name him!!!!!!

2007-07-08 05:43:31 · 15 answers · asked by kaza 1

i had this dream where me and my crush made-out constantly and he said nothing about he's girl friend(of course) he just kept telling me how much he loved me is that a sign!!????

2007-07-08 05:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by hawii_girl25 2

What's the best way to get a guy to like you? What do guys value in a woman (except for the obvious...).

2007-07-08 05:39:41 · 15 answers · asked by SK 1

2007-07-08 05:39:40 · 10 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

Help! I am having an affair with someone 12 years younger than me. I am unhappily married, he lives with his girlfriend. Before we had sex we both agreed that the relationship would be just sex and that we would continue to be friends. Now I am wondering if I am having feelings for him. I work with him so I see him every day. A coworker has been flirting with him which causes me to be jealous. We talk on IM when we can, but I catch myself checking all the time to see if he is on. I am always checking my phone to see if he has called or sent text. Do you think I am starting to have feelings for this guy or is it just the excitement?

Now, next question. Am I being used for sex. He always worries about me, if i'm ok & happy. But everything we do is on his schedule even though I am the one married. He has to be the one to contact me and when we do have sex he usually leaves within an hour after, but we spend that hour cuddling and talking. Help I am so confused!

2007-07-08 05:34:17 · 24 answers · asked by confused1 1

I've met this guy on the internet through a good friend. He seems like a really nice bloke who is after EXACTLY the same as me. Someone to go out with, and do things with but also have the sexual relationship. I have never had sex before but it's not really a big deal to me , all this ''first time'' nonsense. He wants to meet up with me and go to the cinema and then for a drink, do you think I should just go ahead with it? cos I do want to, but I am also very wary of guys who I meet on the internet, I mean I've seen photos and stuff, but I know you can never be sure. We've arranged to meet in a public place etc, but what do you think I should do? And what do you think about the sex thing? I mean I'd only do it if I really liked him tho.
oh yeh, I'm 18 and he's 20. do you think he's being genuine? he's admitted he doesnt really like the fact I'm a virgin but he's sayin it's not put him off and he's still interested.

2007-07-08 05:34:00 · 2 answers · asked by RLJ 5

( ages 12 thru 17 ?? )

2007-07-08 05:26:31 · 3 answers · asked by jennamariepeck 2

2007-07-08 05:25:58 · 12 answers · asked by celestialguy1978 2

me and my boyfriend broke up about 5 days ago. we lived together and were together for like 7 months. we startd fighting at the end of the relationship so we broke up. we really were not happy with ourselves. we went to the park on friday and we acted like we were together, hugging, kissing, all the goodness. but now he wont talk to me. he seems to make excuses up for what he is doing and its like shady. how do i get him back or how do i get over him. its so hard!!

2007-07-08 05:20:13 · 5 answers · asked by Kelsey L 2

in my class there are like 5 guys who never stop teasing me, wenever i walk past they always have to say something mean to me and if i say something they always comment on it. i have alot of friends but theres just those 5 guys in my class who tease me, why do they do this?

2007-07-08 05:16:13 · 20 answers · asked by love_yoo 1

I want to tell my boyfriend of 5 months that i love him (we're 18) but im kinda scared if he doesn't say it back. Im a bit old fashioned and not v emotional/romantic/feely etc and so not sure if i should wait for him to say it first?? He's said it to me a couple of times through text (were both shy) but not to my face and he acts like he does (puts me before friends, treats me like a princess, travels a few hours a week to see me, i could go on!) but i think im gonna burst if i don't. Do you think it would be a good idea to text him it (as he's on hol for a few weeks), and tell him when he gets back so i can see what he says OR just wait for him to say it first... I'm worried i might ruin our amazing relationship!!

2007-07-08 05:12:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am thinking...yessss.....

2007-07-08 05:10:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this a girl thing or can this affect boys too?
Is there a way to change this as i find it disapointing and frustrating, what are your experiences?

2007-07-08 05:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by sammy 2