Singles & Dating - 11 July 2007

we've been through alot together but it was never goin 2 b serious, lately we've gotten closer, which i tried 2 stop,he reckons it means sumthing cos goin on so long, so after spending more time wit him and his affection he tells me he's going away.. for few months.. im thinking cool c ye when ye get back have fun!!and dat it wld b gud cos i was getting too used to being like a couple, which wouldnt b gud.. so it ended on a bad note wit me in de end pretending not to care as he walked out n him sayin yeah e-mail ye sumtime!!!!
now i cant stop thinkin bout him n is he thinkin bout me.. im actually counting de weeks he's away.. havent heard from him yet.. im trying 2 forget & goin out wit other fellas but i keep thinkin was i wrong in how i acted.. i miss him kissing my nose and saying anythin i wanted knowing we never had to pretend wit each other, but i know it'll never work out, he's a serial cheater, worse is none of our friends know, so i cant talk bout it, any advice welcome:)

2007-07-11 23:50:02 · 10 answers · asked by red devil 1

We have temps coming through our area all the time. When I first meet one that I'm keen on, even if its just as a potential friend, what's the best way to go from a workmate to having lunch during the week?

I usually chat to them for a couple of days then if things go well, suggest lunch but I'm not having too much luck. Not sure if my timing is just bad. For example, one said maybe she had a lot of work to do. One was busy. If the person doesn't offer an alternative time or date, is that any indication of whether they're interested?

Just a bit confused as to whether a girl doesn't provide an alternative date, should I just give up?

2007-07-11 23:46:46 · 7 answers · asked by Maggs 1

2007-07-11 23:33:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing this guy for only two weeks. We've also been together twice in the past but only for short periods of time. I am currently trying to get out of a 5 year relationship to be with this guy. Since i've started seeing him I told my other boyfriend I needed space. I'm not a two timer. I am pretty and an intelligent girl and he is a little homely but that doesnt matter to me because he is very talented and has the most wonderful personality and we have so much fun together and lots in common. I know appearances arent everything. I cant understand why he isnt just falling head over heels for me because I think I'm a great catch for him! He calls me an angel but says he doesnt want a commitment. Also, I'm going from a relationship where there is somewhat of a commitment to one that is unsure. I don't know what to do : 0 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-11 23:26:31 · 9 answers · asked by cyq01 1

My friend has captured a video of her naked chat frnd.She has showed her complete body on cam.Now my friend has started blackmailing her.Can she drag him to court? Whose weight is heavy in this regard?

2007-07-11 23:23:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok...this is SOOO not like something that I would EVA ask....
But I'm about to anyway...

I know man who is about 7 years my senior (so about 30) Never really talked to him appart from the odd "Hello" here and there. (We work at the same place) He seems quiet and I have second hand information that he is very religious with a great sense of humour and an all round great personality. I've had a Major crush for going on three years now! He's Gorgeous!

Me...on the other hand...I smoke - he doesn't. I swear - I've never heard him swear. I am spiritually aware - but I don't belong to a religion and I doubt that I ever will.

Anyway - my question is: Do Opposites really attract and does anyone think it sounds like a might have maybe a slight chance??? What would you do?

What about you religious people? Would you ever consider dating someone different? And what do you do when you fall for someone but can't get past their bad habits? Is it all over red rover???

2007-07-11 23:20:00 · 9 answers · asked by *lostdownhere* 2

i broke up with a guy after living with him for 6 months- there was a 10 yr age difference, were from different countries, and he said he didnt think he loved me, that he was terrified of falling in love, that he was committed to me as in h could never be unfaithful to me, but that he couldnt commit longterm to me. then a week after i met him and he asked me to stay- we had a really good night together.. and he said that he couldnt make me as happy as i deserved to be and he said i knew that. then i went back to my country 2 days later. we spoke on the phone a month later and he blurted out that he loved me and he thought i was amazing and wished i hadnt run away. he said hed been to impulsive. and that wed never lose each other. im going back to the same city again where he is... but i havnt told him yet that its definate. i sent him an email because i had a dream about him - where i couldnt catch up with him, and he sent me this email back: (see extra details)

2007-07-11 23:12:44 · 5 answers · asked by kljhh 1

i know he likes the girl a smarty type...he is joker but on his job hes very serious i know he likes me too..but he didnt respond to my text he dont want to talk about our situation we made sex but only when his gf was not there on his house i know we love each other but hes afraid to his gf coz there have both compromises.he never said he loves me but i know he do..and he might think that i cant get serious with him because of there situation of his gf............

2007-07-11 22:59:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

a guy i like doesnt want a relationship cause he thinks he would be unfaithful an not trustworthy.....but wants to be close friends (wink wink) is that wrong for me to that even tho i would prefer a relationship??

2007-07-11 22:58:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night, I cheated on my girlfriend with her mother's twin sister. This has been my fantasy ever since I've been with my girlfriend but now I feel guilty. I wanna tell her but I don't know how. I actually want to sleep with her aunt couple more times before I tell my girlfriend (her mom won't sleep with me anymore). What's the best way to tell her?

2007-07-11 22:57:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15 and all the girls i have been out with have seemed immature to me, am i looking in the wrong places or is it just because of my age bracket?

2007-07-11 22:52:41 · 8 answers · asked by Nevermind 3

I am going to be having sex at night at the beach and I need anyone's advice who has ever done this before....how do we not get caught? How many blankets do I need? How do I keep the sand out of our fun? lol......ive made out on the beach but I heard that having sex can be annoying with the sand and stuff....so any advice from experienced people would be appreciated!

2007-07-11 22:21:32 · 7 answers · asked by Randolph 3

You said that you had cancer, You told me you would die.
I couldn’t quite believe it but you looked me in the eye.

I thought you’d stay forever, I thought my kids would meet you
You told me you were leaving, there was nothing you could do

I watched you quickly crumble, you turned into a wreck
My strong mentor gave up, with this noose around her neck

I can’t lose my granny, God knows she drives me round the bend,
They said you had a full year yet and you’d see it to its end

We both knew you wouldn’t though, we knew you’d given in,
Who could blame you for it, no reason to bear and grin.

Walking home a few weeks later and I began to cry
I knew I had to tell you I loved you and say my last goodbye

I knew that you were leaving that night, something told me so
I fell to my knees and pleaded with god, please don’t let her go

I knew that it was a selfish want, and I knew you were in pain
But each extra day I spent with you was such a massive gain

Granda came to meet you that night, I felt his touch in there
He had came to guide his one true love to heaven through the air

He lifted you gently in his arms and carried you away
I looked up at the bright white light, “see you another day”

2007-07-11 22:13:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i'd like to have a baby someday and i'm a little worried that i am infertile. i am a male by the way. over the years of playing baseball with a tennisball with some friends, ive been hit in the nuts quite a few times. i've heard that trauma can cause infertility. would you consider this trauma or is it something more serious, because in the dictionary, "A trauma patient is someone who has suffered serious and life-threatening physical injury potentially resulting in secondary complications such as shock, respiratory failure and death." i know i will get some tests done to see if i'm fertile, but do i seem alright so far?

2007-07-11 22:00:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-11 21:43:40 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girl A)

Came from a poor family but worked her way through college. Cares alot about having a good family and is a great cook. Her body is solid 5'6 140 pounds. We are from the same hometown but I grew up as a more fortunate person. We both come from single parents. We both havent had contacts with our fathers. She however doesnt like my friends and is a bit clingy. Also I suspect she will get fat eventually.



Girl B)

Has a great career and comes from an awesome family. Loves her father alot. Is really organized and good with money. Awesome in bed but doesnt give head. She is Latina which is kind of ot. She has no home skills but I tink will come around eventually. She has the princess attitude and is a little high mantenance. Her body is awesome 5'7 115 pounds. Her face though isnt so much better.

2007-07-11 21:39:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm working on myself and my relationships with others. How can I be a better me, or a better person to others? How do I expand, and branch out of the normal people I usually associate with? I want to meet different kinds of people, especially men, just to see where it goes, potential dating. My past relationships have been emotionally abusive, so I'm trying to develope myself more as a person, become more well rounded, gain more confidence and build my self esteem back up, and get to know more people and personalities, hoping to eventually have a real and healthy relationship with a guy that actually treats me right for once. How do I do all these things? How do I develope myself more? Thanks for any input.

2007-07-11 21:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a twin sister, were both 16, every time I get a boyfriend, when they end up coming over, my sister opens her legs and I never hear from them again. Mind that Im a virgin and plan on staying this way until im married. My sister has done this with at least 20 of my boyfriends in the past year. What can I do to close my sisters legs and keep a boyfriend?

Mind that I have a new boyfriend and Im affraid to bring him home becuase I dont want the same thing happening again.

What I mean by my sister opens her legs is she screws every guy I bring home!

2007-07-11 21:11:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-11 20:47:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is that a good thing, bad thing, or doesnt matter??

2007-07-11 20:34:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm only a 19 year old girl and he's a 28 year old man

2007-07-11 20:31:14 · 31 answers · asked by confused!!! 1

Even if the man promise that he will keep a cool head and no meeting the person

2007-07-11 20:29:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-11 20:25:57 · 23 answers · asked by el guero 1

2007-07-11 20:03:09 · 11 answers · asked by Jesca S 1

I am 22 and my girlfriend turns 18 this month. She claims she loves me and even calls me every other day. We go on dates at least once a month. But lately she has been acting immature. Not too long ago a friend and I was in a store with my girlfriend, my friend pointed out a guy with a funny looking haircut and was saying how ridiculous it looked. So my girlfriend walks up to this guy and talks to him for 15 seconds and walks back and tells us his marital status, age, and something else i can't remember.
On top of that, not too long ago my friend and i was with my girlfriend and one of her friends at a park, they were acting very immature around each other and later on walked over to a skate park where a bunch of teenage boys were skating and sat down to watch and interact with them. Is this a bad sign?

2007-07-11 19:55:52 · 6 answers · asked by Derek 3

I think it is no one's business what a guy is attracted to or why. It is a personal choice. So, why when a guy likes a woman with back do they get put down and made fun of? They are looking at her from the inside out instead of outside in. Most men don't get past the outside. So, why would anyone care what a guy is into or not? I have a friend who likes a woman with love handles and he is constantly put down by friends and family for who he dates because they are overweight. I have liked the women he has taken out. He now has a woman he really likes and is possibly falling in love with and he hates to bring her around friends or family because of their comments they make when she is around. She is the nicest and smartest girl! She is very pretty despite the weight too. I just don't get who some people get the idea that they are the date police?

2007-07-11 19:55:41 · 10 answers · asked by Stefbear 5

ive always wondered this.. i know about every guy does

ive just always wondered this annd if girls watch porn too

please dont call me a perv.. im just curious

2007-07-11 19:53:26 · 6 answers · asked by chris c 1

I got caught cheating on my gf, My girlfriend thinks i should be kicked in the nuts... ouch! She is a soccer player so that might hurt too bad. Do you think I deserve that? After all, it was only cheating..

She told me to put this question up to ask what kind of shoes she should use and how many times she should kick me. The answer with the most votes is what she will use...

2007-07-11 19:52:49 · 20 answers · asked by Tony 1

Ok, so last summer me and this girl really started talking. We knew each other for a while, but didnt get really serious till then. She is like the most amazing girl Ive met, like everything Ive wanted. But then last Novemeber she started going out with another guy. They dated for like 3 months. He cheated on her and everything multiple times. Theyve been broken up since. Ive tried to get over her, but for some reason I cant. Like I cant feel the same for another girl. I want to talk to her again and try to, but she thinks shes still in love with this other guy. This guy is a complete a hole and she cant even notice that. Its werid though like Im fine for a couple months or so and very confident, but then she comes back into my life somehow. What should I do? I mean I want to date her, but I dont want to get hurt.

2007-07-11 19:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by Balla42 2

i feel that no one loves me, and i wish i had someone to love and hug

2007-07-11 19:49:34 · 12 answers · asked by nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie 5