We have temps coming through our area all the time. When I first meet one that I'm keen on, even if its just as a potential friend, what's the best way to go from a workmate to having lunch during the week?
I usually chat to them for a couple of days then if things go well, suggest lunch but I'm not having too much luck. Not sure if my timing is just bad. For example, one said maybe she had a lot of work to do. One was busy. If the person doesn't offer an alternative time or date, is that any indication of whether they're interested?
Just a bit confused as to whether a girl doesn't provide an alternative date, should I just give up?
2007-07-11 23:46:46 · 7 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason I'm confused is because they are usually really friendly when chatting in the office. Even after I've asked about lunch. If they weren't interested at all, wouldn't their attitude towards me in the office change. I would think they would be less friendly and more professional. Thoughts?
2007-07-11 23:54:33 · update #1
no response means not interested.
2007-07-11 23:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not give up if you really want him! the fact that he doesn't say anything does not mean that he's not interesting, he's a man and they got their pride. so just hang in there
Good luck
2007-07-11 23:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not interested.
2007-07-11 23:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for the right timing..and dont lose your hope that you can get along with your workmate...just be patient..
2007-07-11 23:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably they dont know u too well, once they get to know you then there nothing to stop. just be patient. all the best
2007-07-11 23:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah whenever they don't provide a "we can do it again blah blah" move on
2007-07-11 23:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by aa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not nice just give up ..shes not intrested
2007-07-11 23:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Autism's Beautiful Face 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋