I am 22 and my girlfriend turns 18 this month. She claims she loves me and even calls me every other day. We go on dates at least once a month. But lately she has been acting immature. Not too long ago a friend and I was in a store with my girlfriend, my friend pointed out a guy with a funny looking haircut and was saying how ridiculous it looked. So my girlfriend walks up to this guy and talks to him for 15 seconds and walks back and tells us his marital status, age, and something else i can't remember.
On top of that, not too long ago my friend and i was with my girlfriend and one of her friends at a park, they were acting very immature around each other and later on walked over to a skate park where a bunch of teenage boys were skating and sat down to watch and interact with them. Is this a bad sign?
2007-07-11 19:55:52 · 6 answers · asked by Derek 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, my girlfriend once offered a three-some with me, her, and one of her girly friends. I refused though, because i don't want to be in bed with anyone but her. Is this a bad sign coming from her?
2007-07-11 19:57:34 · update #1
i would take it as she's really not into you. i mean, i would want to have convo's w/ you and not skater boys... or uh, i wouldn't share in the bedroom either. maybe you should talk w/ her one on one. i wouldn't argue though... how long have you two been together? you need to talk like adults. leave the kiddiness on the other side of the door. i would ask her how she felt... and get a straight answer. i would tell her how you felt, and do not lie... i would explain to her, the things that upset you... and let her tell you what upsets her. i am sure you two can come to an agreement... be sure to drink some coffee, or have a meal together... but like by yourself. no public place... your house, or hers.... pour some sprite. it is refreshing.... haha you know what i mean... best of luck to you.
2007-07-11 20:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice, talk to her.
Ask her what is going on. It could be something wrong or it could be nothing and you could b overreacting. Talking is the best way to settle it. You don't want to break up with her and then find out it is nothing to worry about it. But if your girlfriend really loves you like she claims she will tell you the truth when you ask her if anything is bothering her.
Hope this helps you!
2007-07-12 03:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you're looking for a little bit more class then this girl has to offfer... but you have to remember that shes still a younge girl, and if you're looking for a girl that's more mature, then you should either move on.. or talk to her about the way that she's been acting.. she just seems like she wants to have a little bit of fun, while shes younge.. but i think you made a really good choice with the whole threesome thing.
just do whatever makes you happy, and if you think that you need to rbeak up with her.. then just do it... it's worse for her not knowing what you think about her behavior.
good luck.
2007-07-12 03:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by ;asjhdf. =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what you get for dating a high school teen-ager, hun.
Why don't you try finding someone more your own age.(22-25 yrs old)
By the way, you're lucky that you are not in jail, being that you were dating a 17 year old. Hmm.
Cheers
2007-07-12 03:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... that's really strange... if it's bothering you you should maybe talk to her about it so she knows, if she reacts badly, then maybe... it's over. 'cause you shouldn't waste your time with someone who bothers you
2007-07-12 03:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess so
2007-07-12 03:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by ballerina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋