Ok, so last summer me and this girl really started talking. We knew each other for a while, but didnt get really serious till then. She is like the most amazing girl Ive met, like everything Ive wanted. But then last Novemeber she started going out with another guy. They dated for like 3 months. He cheated on her and everything multiple times. Theyve been broken up since. Ive tried to get over her, but for some reason I cant. Like I cant feel the same for another girl. I want to talk to her again and try to, but she thinks shes still in love with this other guy. This guy is a complete a hole and she cant even notice that. Its werid though like Im fine for a couple months or so and very confident, but then she comes back into my life somehow. What should I do? I mean I want to date her, but I dont want to get hurt.
2007-07-11 19:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by Balla42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her and the other guy are talking again. They arent dating, but its seems kinda like he wont date her. She is determined to date him though and wont give up the idea.
2007-07-11 20:05:35 · update #1
you can probably feel like this about another girls. there are lots of them. don't waste your time on one.
2007-07-19 12:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude just move on. It sucks but it seems like the lady has other intentions on her mind. It's not like you married her or anything like that. Don't focus everything you have on her. She is just someone you knew and had strong feelings for but "today" things are a lil bit different. She apparently likes the roller coaster type of feelings. Not very stable if you ask me. Move on and seek other women that are stable in their minds. I know you hate to do that to yourself but the more you wait and ask questions, their are a lot of opportunities passing you by. She was just your girlfriend. Love has many bounderies and love has to be treated with dignity and respect. Find a person that will truelly love you and love you for you. What you are doing is not healthy so become better about yourself.
2007-07-20 02:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by b dude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if u really like her, then ask her. As long as she's not dating anyone u should be fine to ask her. the other guy sounds like a jerk and doesn't deserve her. u on the other hand sound sweet and like u respect girls for who they r and not what they have. don't give up on her. u'll figure out a way to win her heart over.
2007-07-19 19:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by hot_chic93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the use if you don't want to give it shot?try and don't be afraid of any thing because fear is the only thing will make here go away from you and you will try your best with here to make here get over that guy OK
2007-07-12 02:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by murad k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so call her up and invite her to a movie or to dinner
2007-07-19 23:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are, saddly, someone will get hurt...just talk to her, befreind her, just nothing more. its agradual process
2007-07-12 02:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by someone, someone else... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be her friend until she makes up her mind....
2007-07-20 02:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋