Singles & Dating - 11 July 2007

Help!!! S.O.S

2007-07-11 08:40:47 · 18 answers · asked by JustAGirl 1

why do guys always make the first approach, first to ask to dance, first to ask out?

why dont women do it as often? is it because of a fear of rejection, confidence issues? I cant remember the last time a women's been earnest about her feelings towards me. nor can i remember a women ever showing ANY initial interest in me. they always try to show disinterest. I always have to suck it up and make the first move. this is not really a bad thing, but sometimes i get rejected, and that never feels too great.

what do you think?

2007-07-11 08:35:08 · 6 answers · asked by Mike 1

i see it all the time in movies and read about it in books but i just don't know.

2007-07-11 08:32:28 · 24 answers · asked by trix 2

I need some ideas of waht to do for a romantic date. I live in a really small town so there is not much to do. thanks for your ideas!

2007-07-11 08:30:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-11 08:30:18 · 15 answers · asked by hardybody111 1

i feel lame asking this. but i need to know. ALL of my relationships end up bad, and i dont know why. Ive been either cheated on, lied to, treated bad, or abused in every relationship. Every guy who says hes different then my exs always prove me wrong, they all are the same. I dont get why this happens, because i never do anything bad in relatinships. Ive never cheated, never lied, never done anything bad, in my opinion im a good girlfriend. Most people would say that its the guys that im dating. but im starting to think its not.

what the hell is wrong.

2007-07-11 08:28:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my boyfriend and me are really close we both love each other and everything- but he just wont ask me out! i really want him to! and i told my guy friend to tell him i want him to ask me out and he wouldnt believe my guy friend!! it stinks but i dont want to just say "hey i want you to ask me out" so HELP!

2007-07-11 08:28:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey ladies I was wondering what do you think about guys who have a foot fetish. I have one and have wondered what you really think? I am relly serious please help me

2007-07-11 08:19:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-11 08:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by runninkid07 1

I loved my girlfriend but she said that she didn't trust me and that I shouldn't trust her because she never sked me to. I broke up with her because i can't handle a relationship without trust.

But now i'm spending my nights crying as well as my days, and i feel as there is nothing left for me. I know im young but I told her we could work on it, and she is spending time thinking about it....but i can't handle it, this added to all the stress in my life just makes me want to kill myself...

please any advice would be nice...do you have any?

i miss her so much i am crying right now....

2007-07-11 08:12:27 · 16 answers · asked by Chris 5

Me and my boyfriend got into a fight on the 4th of July. He showed up with a friend and two girls and just tapped me and didn't talked to me the rest of the night. I felt hurt and I didn't like that he had been with two girls all day so I gave him the cold shoulder.

He sent me a text that said "You always do this. You had to of accepted the fact that at soem point id hang out with a girl or two. i dont want to have anything to do with this anymore."

I said "I don't care that you're with other girls. I just wish you would of talked to me instead of tapping me and running away"

Then he said "I was with friends. if i stopped i never would of found them again"

Well he has a cell phone and I'm sure he has their numbers...It's not the 1600s! We haven't spoken to eachother for a week now. Is it over?

2007-07-11 08:08:26 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok - I'm just me. Last night, I was talking to a male friend who knows me quite well. We were discussing my relationship with a man currently my life. He surprised me by telling me that he found me to be very intimidating at first and that maybe the problems I have been having getting this man to move into a closer friendship/relationship may have something to do with this. Looking back at some other recent relationships, I'm thinking that he may be on to something and maybe I need to figure a way to still be me and not come off like this because the irony is that I am the most insecure person I know and can't see how anyone would look at me and think I was anything but! Help!

2007-07-11 08:07:45 · 2 answers · asked by Rabbit 5

And Vice Versa
The thing i don't like about guys is they never ever talk =)

2007-07-11 08:07:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I allways like kissed to be a little longer,, i mean , all my experiance are women who kiss with lust and get it over with so i can move on,,but i dont like it like that, i just wish they could kiss a little longer and play around that area a bit, sort of teasing you for more kinda kiss,,,, hmmm is it only me ?

2007-07-11 07:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-11 07:57:42 · 7 answers · asked by audrajean05 2

don't know why, but I just can't bring myself to touch people. And I don't mean in only inappropriate ways, I mean at ALL! Even if they're my best friend or the girl I really like, I just can't touch them even in a friendly, "Hi, how ya goin'?" type of way. How would I go about getting over this "phobia", if that's what it is? Oh, and I'm a 17 year-old guy.

By the way, I did not grow up in a non-hugging family. I hug my mom and dad pretty much every night. It's just my siblings and I that don't hug.

Please don't tell me that it's okay and that some people just aren't huggers. I WANT to hug and touch. I feel so left out. A lot of people I see and friends I have high-five, pat each other on the back, and other friendly things that almost scare me that I'm unable to make myself do them. And these are boys and girls being friends, not just one gender.

2007-07-11 07:55:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im all for being a virgin at least until im in college. But in highschool,,i hear about a lot of girls who lost their virginity and stuff.

Like if i got a boyfriend in college, and he wanted to do it..would it be weird if i told him it was my first time? like do guys care about a girl having enough experiance?

it would help if i got some guy opinions on this.

2007-07-11 07:54:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

The news reported that research shows women are now dominant in the marriage. Guys it seems that we have decided to give away our balls to our wives for some reason. The funny thing is the people researched had been married for just 7 years and were young. I know our parents generation would never stand for that. What guy will stand up with me and regain the ground we lost back and make the relatioship equal instead of a gender dominant relationship

2007-07-11 07:52:13 · 3 answers · asked by velvetsmartguy 3

What hair do u like, serious,playful, easy going, willing, idk...help me dude

2007-07-11 07:51:34 · 11 answers · asked by Minnie 1

I once read that men's eyebrow ridges, the prominence or bulge above the eyes, like if you look at a sideways mugshot. The ridge is caused by testosterone. Wanted to do a survey, if you could say if you have a
A. smooth forehead
B. slight eyebrow ridge
C. medium eyebrow ridge
D. manly eyebrow ridge
Then measure your sex drive on 1-5
5 being the highest.
The logic being relating ridge to testosterone to sex drive.

2007-07-11 07:50:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mum says that men r like dogs u have 2 train them is that true?

2007-07-11 07:42:46 · 11 answers · asked by avril Q 1

I think my b/f's a little bit in awe of me. I've just passed the Vidal Sassoon Marcel Wave retro look hair design challenge and have the certificate to prove it. Should I burn the precious document in front of him to prove it doesn't mean he is a lesser person to me now?

2007-07-11 07:42:28 · 73 answers · asked by poppy vox 4

females try to be players like guys are, and in the end they end up falling for one of their sanchos (boyfriends) and they end up getting their heart broken! how do guys hold up when they don't have what they want in a relationship with a certain person that they fall for?
do you guys just say "F" it and go onto the next female and forget about the one you fell for? how do you do it?
what do we have that men don't that makes us hurt more?

2007-07-11 07:41:45 · 5 answers · asked by **Lil QT** 4

2007-07-11 07:40:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a guy I am interested in who's 30...it appears to me that he likes me, but could I be blind? Would it be unusual for a man of 30 to take interest in a 21 yr old? How should I begin to even approach this?

2007-07-11 07:37:41 · 12 answers · asked by kelly 1

women are drawn to the "alpha" male. I've never really gotten a hold of that concept. What is it? Is it a man that is physically appealing? Or is it a man with strong self-confidence? Or is it both? Can it be achieved by any man no matter how attractive or how ugly they are? How can a guy tell if they have the qualities of the "alpha" male? Can those traits be hidden within the man? I'm assuming when women say they are looking for MEN they are looking for the alpha males (guys with their heads on straight, take care of themselves) and Beta males are the boys. Or is this just a looks thing and if you're genetically not attractive you are considered a beta male? If anyone of you have the time to explain it, would be greatly appreciated

2007-07-11 07:36:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im going to the wilderness in wisconsin dells with some friends this weekend and they told me today that they set me u with this guy...cuz i dumped my ex and i wanted a new bf .....but i was wondering do blind dates ever work our for u? did anything ever happen after ur blind date?

i want a bf but im not so sure bout this whole blind date thing wat do u think?

2007-07-11 07:35:46 · 5 answers · asked by star 5

2007-07-11 07:34:45 · 18 answers · asked by Brian S 1

It had a condom over it...What the hell does this mean? I'm so freaked out.

2007-07-11 07:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will someone with a flirty personality always be untrustwothy? Will they constantly cheat or be tempted to cheat? Do they flirt to hurt you intentionally? Do flirts know when they are flirting?

2007-07-11 07:22:40 · 2 answers · asked by Emory W 3