females try to be players like guys are, and in the end they end up falling for one of their sanchos (boyfriends) and they end up getting their heart broken! how do guys hold up when they don't have what they want in a relationship with a certain person that they fall for?
do you guys just say "F" it and go onto the next female and forget about the one you fell for? how do you do it?
what do we have that men don't that makes us hurt more?
2007-07-11 07:41:45 · 5 answers · asked by **Lil QT** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, you can answer this in two ways:
1). History--See, in the far past, cave man times, males use to mate with several females in order to reproduce and let the species live on, as our primal instinct told us to do. That's why there are so many people on this earth. This alows males to not get too attached to other females then and in our modern world. It also explains why us guys look at other girls, no matter how hard we try not to, in a relationship. However, females are happy with just one male at a time, namely the male she's reproducing with, thus this explains why most don't have several partners and only choose one as in the far past and now. That's why females have a more powerful feeling of connection to that male , since she is content with one, than a male who has to have several partners to reproduce, thus males have a lesser feeling of connection. You see, a female is able to focus all her love into one male while a male puts in the same amount of love but it is divided by his number of partners. That is why most girls don't feel that their love is returned. Hope that makes sence. Also, this is my theory.
2). Genetics--Men do have feelings, however, our emotions aren't as high as yours, assuming your a girl. See, while men have hormones, females have much more hormones in their body, right? These hormones increase the feelings of women, and affects their moods and thinking, thus altering how the brains of women function and think compared to men. This can explain why males have a hard time understanding females and vise versa. With less hormones, as stated before, this allows men to not have as strong of emotions to their partners as females do. This allows a male to not have as hard a time to move on as females do. Again, one of my theories.
I'm not saying that males are better than females, that's far from the truth. I hope this just explains kind of why men can and females can't, as according to your question. To tell you the truth, who really knows. Some females are able to move on way better then some males. It depends on the person(s), the relationship, and personalities of both people that can tell how they will react after a relationship is over.
You've probably have been hurt recently and I know that sucks, real bad. Also, men don't like to show their emotions and are known not to but deep inside, we hurt too, and sometimes it's not easy to move on. I hope you find someone soon or solve whatever problem your facing that led to you asking this question. Hope this helped some.
2007-07-11 08:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by cdw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With me, I can always try to forget a girl but the truth is that my first infatuation stuck with me. As much as I try to forget her, I can't. However, it doesn't hurt as much anymore. Women tend to put all of their emotions in a relationship and leave their heart unguarded. Guys try to forget the one they loved with another girl, but when that doesn't work out it just makes things worse for the guy. All people hurt in different ways from a relationship.
2007-07-11 10:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when it comes down to being a "player" their is always a chance your gunna get played stronger "players' say "f" it and move on and don't be fooled it's on both men and women it seems like there are more men "players" then women because men advertise it and women are more discrete about it
2007-07-11 08:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by evil_mexican 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are as many emotional guys as there are girls, and there are as many cold blooded unemotional girls as there are guys. Some people are just different, gender really doesn't have much to do with it. I've been known to pine for years.
2007-07-11 07:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too much wishful thinking and not enough reality or critical thinking.
2007-07-11 07:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋