i broke up with a guy after living with him for 6 months- there was a 10 yr age difference, were from different countries, and he said he didnt think he loved me, that he was terrified of falling in love, that he was committed to me as in h could never be unfaithful to me, but that he couldnt commit longterm to me. then a week after i met him and he asked me to stay- we had a really good night together.. and he said that he couldnt make me as happy as i deserved to be and he said i knew that. then i went back to my country 2 days later. we spoke on the phone a month later and he blurted out that he loved me and he thought i was amazing and wished i hadnt run away. he said hed been to impulsive. and that wed never lose each other. im going back to the same city again where he is... but i havnt told him yet that its definate. i sent him an email because i had a dream about him - where i couldnt catch up with him, and he sent me this email back: (see extra details)
2007-07-11 23:12:44 · 5 answers · asked by kljhh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the email was saying: that it was good to know that i missed him because he missed me too, to take in mind that wel never lose each other no matter what- that he knew it was hard for me especcially now i was back home, and who knows maybe id come back to (the city) and for sure wed hang out together.
???? i dont know where i am with him. do i move on? or do i wait and give it a chance? i love him, and im thinking about him every second of the day - its been almost 2 months now since i left..
2007-07-11 23:16:06 · update #1
the reason im going back is beacuse i work there- not because of him...
2007-07-11 23:22:58 · update #2
well u'll find another guy!
2007-07-11 23:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he would feel if you came back. Ask him if he truly meant what he say when he said that he loved you. I would not go running over there until I got more details about what he expects from you when you get there.
2007-07-12 06:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly? Im confused!!! It sounds to me like this man doesnt know what he wants and could change his mind at the drop of a hat!
Id go into this with your eyes WIDE open as you could get hurt by the sounds of it hun
xx
2007-07-12 06:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance stuff usually never works out
2007-07-12 06:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not always that easy,think through it and know if you really want dis or not.the rest is up to u.think wise it's the best thing to do.
2007-07-12 07:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by danmay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋