i know he likes the girl a smarty type...he is joker but on his job hes very serious i know he likes me too..but he didnt respond to my text he dont want to talk about our situation we made sex but only when his gf was not there on his house i know we love each other but hes afraid to his gf coz there have both compromises.he never said he loves me but i know he do..and he might think that i cant get serious with him because of there situation of his gf............
2007-07-11 22:59:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make someone break up with their girlfriend.
If he won't break up with his girlfriend, he won't talk to you about your situation and won't say "I love you" then to be quiet honest he's probably just in it for the sex and if he is having sex with you while he has a girlfriend, why would you want to be with a guy who's a cheater?
I think moving on would be the best solution to your problem.
2007-07-11 23:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so he is taken? He never said he loves you? And he doesn't want to talk about what had happened?
Duh? With these, do you still think that he "loves" you??
Don't be offended miss, but I think you are expecting too much from him. I'll give you reasons why you should not pursue in getting his heart anymore:
1.) He has a gf already.. If you were the girl, what would you feel? O c'mon
2.) You said it, he NEVER said he loves you. So why expect?
3.) After what had happened, he still sticks to his girl PLUS never responds to your text messages... He is totally not a man.
and lastly...
4.) There are a lot of better guys out there. Why go for this guy who's even afraid of his girlfriend? Huh? It only means that he is still under her spell.
However, you still have your choice and the final decision is yours.. I just hope you balance your heart and your mind.
Good Luck!
2007-07-12 06:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by YAHOO ANSWERER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is a situation you should get into. Its already over your head, because you are so confused. Fact is, he is in a relationship already. Back off. You sound very young yet, so there is no rush. Because of your age, your body is swimming with chemicals. It may feel like you are desperately "in love" with him, but thats because your body is trying to convince you to reproduce.
Now, no offense, but if he slept with you, while he is still with his gf, what does that say to you?
This is what it says to me: He is a guy who can be easily distracted from his commitments. Think of your future, would he carry a job? would he change his mind, like, heaps? Would he stick with you? It doesn't sound like he is the "honest" type, since he has gone behind his gf's back. Think about how you would feel if you were the gf, and he was cheating on you. Not good.
Its all chemical. Thats why they say when two people get along extremely well, they have "chemistry"/
The chemicals being produced will actually disippate. Relax, and try to distract yourself with other things.
Seriosuly, it feels like you can't have anyone but him, and maybe you two are meant to be, but currently he is in a relationship, and that is a commitment.
Talk to him, if you have slept together, then you should be able to talk it over. If he doesn't want to talk about it, then its not worth it, because thats what a real relationship is about, knowing how each other feels.
Until he leaves his other relationship, you shouldn't do anything but talk. Otherwise it makes you seem very cheap, and that might be all he sees you as.
Remember, you are young, chemicals and hormones are having parties in your body, so its normal for you to feel extra-strong emotions at this time. It'll settle down by the time you are in your early to mid twenties, sometimes later. This is when most solid and lasting relationships are formed.
2007-07-12 06:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by treemeadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show some dignity. do u wanna be his go-to girl who's just there for some bed action? if he loves you, he'll leave the gf. and it looks like he doesn't really care about you enough to respect you as a woman. he's not afraid of his gf, he just doesn't think your worth the risk. and if you were the gf, how wud you feel if you found out? karma! it'll bite you in the *** so drop him, like, NOW!
2007-07-12 06:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by xtra0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girl friend you ha veto look for someone else the ocean has a lot o fishes so don't take the one who was already hook cause you don't want that to happen to you and I am sure that you can find one,just be patience and he will come,and pray about him and God will send the right one.
2007-07-12 06:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now u need to understand that to win a mans heart is simple. all a man longa for is some one who will love him and care for him throgh out his life, one who will look after his kids too, sex and physical attraction may attract a man towards yu but if wont keep him with u for long so if u really want to win his heart make him realise that u are the one for him, care for him be with him in all his good n bad times. and i am sure someday he will realise whos the one for him. all the best
2007-07-12 06:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing to "do" there is no way to force this situation to be what you want. He has a girlfriend and he can't be loyal to her...stop thinking about "love" for a moment and ask yourself about his character...is that the kind of guy you want? Ask yourself how you would feel if YOU were the gf and your bf did this to you? Please, let him go and find someone worthy of your devotion.
good luck!
2007-07-12 06:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by angelalynnanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really love you, he should respond to you.. he may be planning something in his mind.. so why dont you tell his current gf that you had an affair with him..
2007-07-12 06:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy really love you he will not put you in this kind of situation, either he will choose you or his g/f, but i think he only wants your body, just forget bout him, you are too precious to be in this kind of situation..
2007-07-12 06:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by tan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but maybe he doesn't want to get serious with you cause...you're just a fling he has. He doesn't want to leave his gf, maybe you just need to back off.
or
you can talk to him about it.
2007-07-12 06:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Miss.Murder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋