i am dating this guy and he just had a baby with someone else and i meet him while she was prenant .but he swears that he wants to be with me he is areally good man he wants to be there for his baby and move on at the same time. should i be trying to get serious with him or should i give him his space to focus on his new baby cause I get jelous when he goes to see the baby or when he goes to buy her something but i really like him and i love the fact that he wants to be there for his child (sometimes) so what is the problem how can i get over this.
2007-07-08 07:24:41 · 4 answers · asked by starodo1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk is cheap...if he was really a "good man" why was he available to meet you while his other woman was pregnant? (And where will he be when you're pregnant?) Think about these types of things or what she's going through will be your dilemma with him someday...maybe sooner than you think.
2007-07-08 07:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The right thing to do it to let him be with his baby. Think about how the girl feels who had the baby, the father of her kid has moved on already, pretty much leaving her in the dust. It will just cause too many problems. He is not a guy you want to be with who already has a kid, he won't have too much time for you.
2007-07-08 07:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
look, he has a family of his own...eventually he will end up back with her if he's going to see the baby right now so save yourself the hurt and find someone who hasn't had a baby yet....
2007-07-08 07:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by stevethebeeve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. If u already see that as a problem forget him.
2007-07-08 07:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ev_angel_ia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋