Singles & Dating - 8 July 2007

how do you know if some boy is just using you for action when you're not even going out? i mean..we do talk about sex (sometimes) but we also talk about other things..random things like bunnies,what we do and all that although we don't get to spend alot of time together. and he talks about me to his friends and stuff. and he's sort of shy around me. we're moving sort of fast..but not that fast. you know? but i can't tell.i trust him and all,but i just wanna be careful too. so please help me?

2007-07-08 18:56:21 · 3 answers · asked by cookie_monster 1

I feel very disapponted and hurt, but most of al confuse, because I just found that my husband read pornographic magazines, wich make me feel that Im not women enough or god enough for him. I feel very hurt because even when I'm not as young an pretty as I used to, I still feel that I was pretty, Im 28yr and he is 35yr, we have sex 1 or 2 per day, I have lots of sexy lingery from Victoria Secret, etc. I do belly dance and use cupDD and I'm size M, I know I'm not thin but definetely I'm not ebesse or ugly, still it seems is not enough to him. I'm feeling miserable, what else can I do? I have tryed to keep this marriage interesting for both, Im a very creative person and never feel or sex life was bad, he even say often that is soo good, but still, why is he doing this to me, I'm realle hurt, I don't even want to see his face, really feel that he cheat on me on some way. am I wrong? what to do?

2007-07-08 18:55:35 · 17 answers · asked by desperatehwife07 1

This girl and I have been friends for a long time now and I think we both like each other. I asked her out on a date once and she said yes. I think we have that connection. How do I ask her or start a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with her?

2007-07-08 18:55:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

how much do you think is too much?

2007-07-08 18:53:49 · 13 answers · asked by thepinkpipster 3

What would make you crazy and leave you wanting more?
Either physically or verbally...after the date is over and you go home...what would make you determined to see that woman again...what did she do that kept you up all night fantasizing about the NEXT date?

2007-07-08 18:50:39 · 15 answers · asked by Starfire 3

2007-07-08 18:49:55 · 7 answers · asked by Cliff 6

I found this guy that i am total in love with and hes comeing to see me in like 2 weeks ! and my family is scared that hes some wierdo just because i meet him online! But what they dont understand is that im really in love with him and that i feel that i could spend the rest of my life with him and that hes not really a bad guy!!

2007-07-08 18:49:54 · 4 answers · asked by angelbrat18_1989_2009 2

sum times we text and i can't find the right words to put him in the "mood" what are sum sayings or phrases that will turn him on? Get him horny?

2007-07-08 18:48:08 · 5 answers · asked by Becca H 2

2007-07-08 18:45:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend just broke up with me 2 go out with some other girl he just met. He cheats on everyone including me hes mean and rude and i dont like him, I need a way to break them up and fast! She doesnt believe anyone that hes going 2 cheat on her but he will like he does 2 everyone. Ok so help!

2007-07-08 18:45:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been chatting, emailing & talking to this fellow on the internet. And we really liked each other. But we didnt really have this formality that we couldn't date each other. It's just we liked each other. Just like friends who likes each other but can't be together kinds thing. Admirers shall I say. We started talking sweet and sending each others emails.

Now I meet this guy, and I'm really inlove with him. Things are getting serious. I don't wanna chat with him anymore? What should i do?

Thanks for the help. Honest answers are welcome.

2007-07-08 18:45:37 · 5 answers · asked by --- 2

I met this hotty at a bar we talked and kissed all night. Things were gellin. Chemistry was hot. We were fully makin out on the patio. it was crazy. I asked her to come back to my place. she politely said "not tonight" which I saw coming but instead gave me her number. I called her the following weekend and we arranged a date. this is when **** hit the fan. I called her to get directions to pick her up and she totally blew me off. She didnt pick up. I tried calling her one more time the next day to ask her "whats up" and still she didnt pick up. Whats the deal ladies. I havent talked to her since

2007-07-08 18:40:52 · 11 answers · asked by dude11 2

So!

I've been with this guy for about a month, things are going great, we both really care about each other and are very physically and emotionally attracted to each other. I feel the sexual tension between us (in a good way!) all the time but we haven't done anything other than making out...

He has no idea I'm a virgin but also hasn't tried to do anything with me. He's very respectful. I want to tell him I'm a virgin soo bad but I want a clever, light-hearted way to tell him. Any suggestions?

Thanks in advance!

2007-07-08 18:28:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very confused about this issue and thought if I could answer some thought provoking questions it might help me on this issue.

2007-07-08 18:26:41 · 8 answers · asked by sisterwater92 2

i am in a relationship with someone else everthing is good but i find myself still thinking about him what do i do its driving me crazy

2007-07-08 18:26:24 · 8 answers · asked by soldout4christ 2

Ok, what's most important to you in a woman? Her looks, her personality, her intelligence, etc...

2007-07-08 18:17:29 · 12 answers · asked by Starfire 3

while making out with a girl for only the second time, she grabbed your crotch? I really want to do it...but don't know how he'll react.

2007-07-08 18:16:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. We have an amazing relationship and I couldn't ask for a better man. My delema is that I have recently had between 10-15 friends get engaged or married. Several of them have been dating much less time than my boyfriend and I have. For some reason this is very hard for me. When I go to a wedding, view their wedding photos, or give advice on planning I can't help but think it's not fair that these girls are getting married while they've been with another guy in the amount of time I've been dating my boyfriend.

We've disscussed marriage and I know that some day we're going to get engaged, but how do I keep my mind off of it in the mean time when it's all around?

2007-07-08 18:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by prschltchr_2007 1

Sometimes you like someone just as a friend and they want more. So you feel bad telling them, but you have to. So how to make it easier for them when you say no.

2007-07-08 18:03:20 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2

First of all I have to say that Ive done some research lately to see what women really want cause ive had it up to hear with what women say they want and what they really want. They say they want a guy who challenges them makes them laugh, has confidence and has self control. I think that it is understandable. My question is i have been waiting for a girl that I can honestly say that I love before i have sex truthfully i am. My question is i am 20 and the girls I date i know by the way i act i can attract them but whenever the sexual talks come into play i tense up and show no confidence because i really dont have much experience. My question for the ladies is how do i go about maintaing all the things a girl would want even when i have no experience sexually. How can I win there heart if they almost have to show me the ropes sort of speak and they dont want a guy that they have to do this for. So how does a labelled nice guy by many women get out of a jam like this.

2007-07-08 18:02:19 · 8 answers · asked by canuck131986 2

ok, well we have been going out for about 5 months now, we are both still in high school, and the relationship between the 2 of us has been magical, I have never been this happy before in my life, we are perfect for each other. However our relationship is hard at the same time because of her dad, who does not even trust us to be alone together, so no going out alone, and on top of that if I want to see her it can only be once a week, this makes things almost impossible for us, he has called me a ******* prick before, and also has a proablem with the fact that I am not jewish, I have tried just about everything to gain his trust, but its not working and it is making things really hard on me and my girlfriend, and has been almost tearing up our lives, I know that it has been a mayjor part of my life, effecting me a lot ever since it started, HELP please, this girl means everything to me, and I cant let it not work out because of her father, but its driving us crazy...... I cant take it.

2007-07-08 18:00:26 · 17 answers · asked by janitorc7 2

You just found out that she/he has many bank debts on his account, she/he never tells you before and she doesn't want you to know because she/he doesn't want you to get involved with the matters.

2007-07-08 17:57:01 · 10 answers · asked by Sparkling pearl 4

Is it just me, or are girls to attracted to the "bad boys" and thugs?

I'm a good student, and people always tell me that I'm really nice. I'm nice to girls, and I talk to them every now and then (just about normal stuff, how their day went, etc.). I just worry that I'm too, well, boring.

I've tried being the jerk (stupid, stupid, stupid!) with disastrous results.

How do I develop the confidence and charisma to get to know the ladies as people, take them out, etc,and not bore them to death?

(addtional notes: I'm 18)

2007-07-08 17:55:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kris 4

ok so im goin to the movies with one of my friends (shes a girl, im a guy, its kinda our thing) and i was wondering if i should get her a gift. you know something so she will remember me. we are goin to different colleges thats why this is the last time we will see each other for a while. we are JUST FRIENDS nothing more. i only say that cause we tried the "dating" thing and it didnt work out so we decided to just be friends. so should i get her something or not? if so what should i get her?

im a poor kid w/ not job, i know thats my own fault, so jewelry is a no go. i need other ideas.

2007-07-08 17:53:08 · 5 answers · asked by jmon 3

When I look at guys looking at me, they would look away or move their head back a little, looking stunned. What does this mean? Do they realize that I'm not pretty anymore?

2007-07-08 17:50:43 · 11 answers · asked by Mike G 1

2007-07-08 17:46:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went to the movies alone today because me girlfeind was sick but during the hole the movies the people next to me were making out i want to do that how do i move in to kiss her

2007-07-08 17:46:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i'm 14 and i'll turn 15 in december, and i like this guy who is 16 and turns 17 in november,. i know he is more... um "experienced" then me but i like him alot and i know that he isnt the type of person who would try to push me into something i didn't want to do, do you guys think he is to old for me???

2007-07-08 17:46:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you answer back personality please be bit specific, thanks

2007-07-08 17:42:40 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got really drunk at a party & messed around with this guy. He still calls me..he wants to take me out...do you think he has the wrong impression of me now??
..I had 4 cranberry & grey gooses & I never usually drink..we kind of kissed a lil..I was the naughty one..doing some other things to him too..

2007-07-08 17:40:03 · 9 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4