Singles & Dating - 8 July 2007

Three weeks ago, I was in Starbucks. The girl that got my coffee for me was kind of cute, so I was talking to her. I got to know her hobbies, where she went to college, what she does on her spare time, how long she was working their, and obviuosly, her name.

15 minutes later, my buddy called my phone, I looked at the time and was like crap, since she was just sitting in my car. I wanted to get her number before I left, but she got busy with someone else.

I have been in there a few times since, but she wasn't their til recently. She told me she hadn't seen me in a while, then I said I've been here, where have you been? She told me she went on vacation, then she had to get back to work so I wasn't able to talk to her long.

I am trying to figure out if she was just talking to me because she was bored or if she might have been interested. So to all the girls, which one do you think it was and should I go and try to she if she wants to do something one night?

2007-07-08 15:24:17 · 17 answers · asked by count1564 2

o0ki. so0 i have gone out with this guy before .. and then we broke up because he thought he was to0 younge to be in love.. so0 we dated other people but we whould still hung out and ho0ked up while we were both taken. for the past 6 months.. and now were both single.. and were starting to0 talk like we might get back toghtther again. and he calls me all the time. i never call him unless if im calling him back.. should i call him everyonce and a while? or should i let him chase after me?

also, i really like him but i dont want to fall to easly for him again and then just get hurt. im trying to keep my distance but we talk all the time. and we have been hanging out alot to now. what shoul di do0? about these things cuz i really want to be with him. but im not sure if he wants to be in a serious realtionship this time.?

ahh hellpp!! :[

2007-07-08 15:19:47 · 7 answers · asked by onelove4meh15 1

I was texting this guy after midnight and I said to him at the end of our conversation, " Have Sweet Dreams Babe", do you think he took the message that I was flirting with him and that I wanted his Sweet Dreams to be about me?

2007-07-08 15:19:40 · 36 answers · asked by Kemma 3

My guy friend (that i like a lot) was like "lets go make out" to me and one of my friends, then was like "yea but you would and you know it"(to me). Then later (we were outside our church (hahah)) he was trying to get me to ditch my friend so we could hang out one on one. Does that mean that he's interested? (Its kind of complicated)

2007-07-08 15:17:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well this is kind of complicated right now so I met this guy and we set a date for thursday and we had sex and we barely knew each other for a week.Then after he left to Frisco to visit his mom, and I am kind of confused because he lives with his ex-girlfiend and he is trying to raise money to move out on his own so I can move in with him...But we haven't talked in a while because he says if his ex sees him talking to another girl she will put him out but he wants me to be friends with her so I can go and chill with him so I won't feel like bad.So are they together or am I over reacting.And their might be a possibility that I am pregnant by him.Please help me I need answers before Tuesday I think I am in love for the first time.

2007-07-08 15:16:04 · 18 answers · asked by Hotmom1216 3

Alright! So my very good friend likes this guy, but really isn't into telling guys straight out what she feels because she doesn't know how he feels. The boy has had a really hard life and she baically doesn't wanna scare him. So a friend of ours casually told him that she likes him and he really told our friend that he really isn't doesn't want a relationship right now because of all the things going on in his life right now. But then the first time i met him (which was after all of this previous stuff happened) he started to hit on me right in front of her. Pretty much the couple hours of us hanging out turned into him paying all his attention to me!! I don't like the boy but should I tell my friend to move on? I mean it's clear that he doesn't like her but I feel horrible about it.

2007-07-08 15:15:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i asked this girl out a few months ago and she said she just wanted to be friends but maybe in the future,a few months later she gets a boyfriend and i let her know i like her again but i said it just to get it off my chest so i could feel better and i told her that.So now they broke up last week and a couple days ago she calls me(she never calls anyone,even her boyfriend,which i heard from her last boyfriend because we are good friendds)and asks if i am going to her youth group and she said she wanted to watch a movie with me sometime.
So i call her a coulple hours later cause im bored(i never use my cell phone or any phone cause i hate phones so her call was very random and surprising)and it goes good and then i call her the next day to go see a movie but she couldnt cause is was her sisters birthday.So i want to know if she is interested in me at all.We are best friends and have been for a while.I like her alot and i have tried to move on but i cant.

2007-07-08 15:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

before the problem i was in love with this person that talked to me on the phone every day and we made eachother laugh and smile all the time.he thought that he wasnt ready for a relationship and he knew that i was.i waited six months and during those months he said one time after another that he would be with me and then he changed his mind after saying that.at the end of the six months i fell in love with another guy and him and i were later seeing eachother.we have had no problems and nothing wrong has happened between our relationship.but a little before seeing the second guy,the first guy told me that he was ready for a relationship.now i have two people that are in love with me that i have the same feelings for and i have no way of choosing between them and i dont know what to do.but i do know that i want to be with one of them.PLEASE HELP p.s. i am 24 years old not a little kid

2007-07-08 15:11:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 times he (my boyfriend) has told me that he loves me while he's been drunk (over the phone). Only those 2 times. My only reply is "you're wasted." I don't say it back. So tonight I texted him "no more drunken 'I love you's' If we get to that point of a sober one then maybe- whatever, but until then... no more drunk ones would be good. K buddy?" No response from him... so I wrote "not upset about it. and if u want I'll talk to you later."
Heres my question.. I still haven't heard back from him. How would you guys take this if you're girlfriend did what I did?? I was hoping he'd be glad I was being realistic and even find it a challenge (b/c most girls probably would've gotten excited and said I love you so much too)

2007-07-08 15:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy, but im not sure if he likes me, when we are around each other he acts like an annoying big brother, like throwing stuff at me or gently hitting my leg, but when he is not so sober we always seem to be touching, like our bodies or hands, he still acts immature, but with flirtation, does he like me or am i reading him all wrong?

2007-07-08 14:49:43 · 7 answers · asked by A.P. 1

Well you see I'm 17 years old and still I don't have a boyfriend... It's okay from me at first but then I began to get sad... I'm always left out, I feel that my heart is now searching from the right guy but until now I still searching. Now, I feel like that maybe I will never found the one who will love...

What should I do to get rid of my sadness?
Will I ever find him?

2007-07-08 14:46:47 · 18 answers · asked by Lourielle D 2

We have only been dating for a short time and the love word is not spoken although we have just entered into the staying over at night part after a month. I want to do something sweet and romantic but simple,I know asking a lot, but since the L word is not spoken i don't want it to be over the top. What do i do it is easy it seems for the man to be romantic candlelight,flowers but what does a woman do? Help? It can be anything from a sweet text,to e-mail,etc just feel like I should do something but don't know what.

2007-07-08 14:46:18 · 18 answers · asked by missinmysailor 2

2007-07-08 14:45:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So back in November, I met this really nice guy with my friend in a different city. Her boyfriend was on an army base and we were visiting. So I dont ever talk to this guy we met but he tries to contact me on myspace and tells me how beautiful I am and what-not. He isn't the stalker type, I just dont respond. It seems innocent. So I just told my boyfriend of ten months tonight and he flipped out. Said that he thinks there is a big problem because I like the attention from this guy. I mean I guess he is right because I dont talk to this guy but it is nice to hear what he has to say about me i guess. I was just trying to be honest. Please help.

2007-07-08 14:44:31 · 5 answers · asked by SpaceBananas 1

i live with the person still . i cant move out because i dont have a job or a place to stay . its crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

2007-07-08 14:43:56 · 15 answers · asked by candi b 1

My friend is having problems with other people making sure that he cannot be with or around anyone in his life. He is struggling with selfesteem and all. He needs me to help him but I haven't been able to with his attitude so low. How can I help him get back into the groove of things and be happy. All he can do is putter around doing little things. People can be so hurtful when they have their own problems. Why don't people just mind their own business sometimes!!!

2007-07-08 14:42:12 · 2 answers · asked by karen kremer smith 5

i dont know if its me or not. i been with this boy for a year a 2 weeks i love him with all my heart and soul he means alot to me. but lately i cant see him for so many reasons. but i try calling him he always ignores my phone calls and i leave messages he ignores me last time i talked to him he said i'll brb then he took forever and when he was back i said babe what took you so long and he said dont worry i mean thats just rude i didnt ask for much. like 8 months ago was the last time he sais " i love u" to me by him self with out me saying it first. i believe he doesnt love me no more and btw he has a son with his ex gf and i didnt leave him because im so in love with him and i miss him so so much i dont know im living this twisted feeling im so sad i dont know what to do or say to him. i know he not with that girl because she doesnt live here no more and his son isnt present also. my point is what should i do or say to im?

2007-07-08 14:40:00 · 6 answers · asked by JAMILAH D 2

I had....Had is the word been seeing this guy since Feb. We haven't had sex yet 'cause I don't want to just give it to anybody. He didn't seem to understand that. We were still talking when I moved down here and he even said he wanted a committment. This past weekend our plans were to go to Galvenston for the weekend together. He didn't call, text or show up...I'm thinking its b/c he hasn't gotten it yet. I'm glad I hadn't now I know his true colors! Why are guys such jerks about waiting for sex??

2007-07-08 14:19:33 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Honey 4

"If a guy says that you're calling him at a really bad time and wants you to call him back later does this mean he's not interested?"

He called me but I did not return his until five days because my mom does not want me to call him but she says let him call. Instead, I called him and he said he is too tired to talk. What should I do? Should I call him back?

2007-07-08 14:19:20 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa 1

My girlfriend and I are both virgin. Sometimes when we get freaky she grabs my butt and I get excitement from it but that is as as far as we go. Is this thing ok in a relationship or is a little too sexual?

2007-07-08 14:14:45 · 3 answers · asked by NBA Man 1

(examples)

any time i dont act the way she wants, she curses at me or acts evil.

she has flipped out on me for having other girls besides her on my myspace/facebook top friends.

she threatened to break my PSP if she found as much as swimsuit pics on it.

she threatened to break up with me over seeing a movie with hot girls in it.

she forced me to end contact with most of my female friends because "she dosent like them"

she always has to know where I am or who i'm talking to on the phone.

if she even *thinks* im attracted to someone else, i wont hear the end of it

she has threatened suicide multiple times, and has slit her wrists in the past because of our arguments, and her jealousy.

If i threaten to leave/take space, she makes me feel guilty because she has so many problems id leave her with, or threatens she'll be worse when i come back.

when she says something out of line, she makes me drop it, no matter how evil/low it is.
I still love her though, but is she abusive?

2007-07-08 14:14:10 · 20 answers · asked by Han 2

2007-07-08 14:13:37 · 4 answers · asked by Evan C 1

(this guy was with his friend)..

lol..yeah i know its kinda a weird question to ask..

2007-07-08 14:11:14 · 9 answers · asked by Kylie 1

I am really interested in someone. We were only seeing each other for around 3 weeks. Things got a little complicated (she has a serious health condition) and I told her that I felt we shouldnt see each other again. I said that out of fear. She hung up on me before I could explain. I've called her a few times and left messages asking her to call, but no call. I've tried to explain that I said what I said out of fear but nothing has worked. I know she was really interested in me before all of this happened. I dont want to give up, but at the same time I dont want to look like a stalker. I was thinking about sending flowers, trying a new approach. Any suggestions? Should I just leave her alone? There is that old saying that you will never know until you give it your all... but I dont want to look psycho or desperate. Where do we draw the line?

2007-07-08 14:09:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i broke up with my gf. met someone new.. she is nice..but lives in another country... met someone else at, home, broke p got back together, seeing her and she lives in a different coutry... so i have two girls, different places... i think i love them both... i meet someone else... we see each other from time to time.. nothing serious... i dont love her... i meet another girl.. again a different coutry, she is great too... they all think i am great... they all want to have me... and actually i want them all cos they are all FAB but in totally diferent ways... what do i do...

should i chose one..
keep seeing them all...
get rid of them all and start again...

should i feel guilty ?

2007-07-08 14:01:49 · 10 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4

I'm out of a long term relationship & I took about a 1/2 year to just be by myself & recover, live life & pursue my interests & talents. I've been meeting girls lately & hitting it off w/them to where there are some that are just really nice to be around. Casual dating, talking on the phone, taking walks, going on motorcycle rides, etc. Just pretty much having innocent fun. What is the best way to handle things when two or more people seem to have started to like you? So you don't have to get rid of them, but also make it known that you are just casually going out & doing things that are fun with the girls you've met, not realy pursuing a relationship, yet. To talk to them & b like, "I just want u to know that I'm casually dating & not ready for a relationship yet or anything" will make them feel stupid, like I think they are all clingy. They're not clingy. They're great. I've kissed two of them, too. Is that ok as they were just "after-date" kisses, or is that a rude lead-on

2007-07-08 14:00:44 · 4 answers · asked by rlfesty 3

Should we woman take it as,not right now,,or that we are wasting our time with you. I know this question has been asked a million times,but this man keeps in contact with me all the time,,he really goes out of his way,,plus he is going through tough times right now.If i told a man i just wanted to be friends i would be giving him the brush off,A man said once a friend is forever but a girlfriend isnt,,so is it really a bad thing for a man to say he wants to take it slow and doesnt want to lose me as a friend ,no he isnt using me for sex,,,or shall i move on?Or am i being shallow and missing out on something good from a friendship?

2007-07-08 13:54:30 · 3 answers · asked by heartzz_ablaze 3

Alrigght its going to be my hoe's birday this friday!?!?...should i buy her something?!?!...were not togethere!...but shes been a nise hoe to mee...like she lets me hit it whenevers i want...but inonn ey should i buy her something?!?!..should u buy a gift on ur hoes birthday??!?.....

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2007-07-08 13:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

So...every guy i've ever kissed has made it totally unromantic....u know.....food ( yuck) in their mouth, accidentally missing.....eating my face off...that's a popular one.....tongue for a first action....ew. ya sooooooo...........


how do i make sure this time it's magical?

2007-07-08 13:36:48 · 14 answers · asked by kiki<3 4

I am also scared that he might be using me and I dont want to ask him because I'm scared of the answer and i do really like him but sometimes he is only a "**** buddy" to me and nothing else. Also we usually talk on msn but recently we havent been talking like how we used to before he started coming over my house...

2007-07-08 13:34:05 · 18 answers · asked by muffin_gawjuzz 1