i dont know if its me or not. i been with this boy for a year a 2 weeks i love him with all my heart and soul he means alot to me. but lately i cant see him for so many reasons. but i try calling him he always ignores my phone calls and i leave messages he ignores me last time i talked to him he said i'll brb then he took forever and when he was back i said babe what took you so long and he said dont worry i mean thats just rude i didnt ask for much. like 8 months ago was the last time he sais " i love u" to me by him self with out me saying it first. i believe he doesnt love me no more and btw he has a son with his ex gf and i didnt leave him because im so in love with him and i miss him so so much i dont know im living this twisted feeling im so sad i dont know what to do or say to him. i know he not with that girl because she doesnt live here no more and his son isnt present also. my point is what should i do or say to im?
2007-07-08 14:40:00 · 6 answers · asked by JAMILAH D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you should just give the guy a little bit of time!!Don't call him or message him for about a week.Soon he'll wonder what happened and if everything is ok or something.Then after that week call or message him and say,"hey hows it going?"if he doesn't pick up he'll most likely call or message u back if he does pick up just start a coversation!!!Guys just need some time alone kinda thing sometimes!!!
2007-07-08 14:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by gurl4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to sit him down and tell him how your feeling.And find out whats going on him because if he hasn't said he loves you in 8months on his own then somethings going on.He ignores yours calls and messages,that usually means that theres someone else in the picture.I know thats not what you wanted to hear and I'm sorry but why should you have your heart get in any deeper if there is someone else.You deserve better then that
2007-07-08 21:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by joesgirl526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart aches for you because I can sense your pain. But I'm afraid I am going to add to your pain and I am sorry for that. It is evident this guy no longer has feelings for you any more.He has done everything to let you know short of hitting you over the head with a baseball bat.As hurtful and painful as this may sound now because of your feelings for him, I will ask you to cut your losses and move on with your life. You deserve a guy who will love you ,respect you ,be caring and sensitive to your feelings, and wants to be with just you. Don't allow yourself to be a doormat , be used as a sexual toy, and/or abused. You deserve better even if his son and ex were in town; more so since they are not and he has no excuse for ignoring you.All the best and please keep us posted on how you're doing.
2007-07-08 22:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up. I think he's done.If he cared he would have paid more attention to you.Have you sleep with him? Maybe he got what he wanted,or maybe he didn't?Move on sweetheart.Maybe the next one will be better! B.B.from Texas
2007-07-08 21:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by barrlou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how hard it might be, it might be right just to break it off... if he don't have tthe time to give you than he isn't worth it... no matter how hard you love him!!
2007-07-08 21:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Som1sBaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel!!!! set a date with him and tell him how but you love him and care about him! He cant read your mind, you have to tell him whats in it!
2007-07-08 21:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋