Couple of things catch my attention. First of all you said that you "waited" 6 months for man 1 to make a choice. He said he wanted to be w/ you and then changed his mind, wasn't sure etc.... You were within your rights to see someone else. If guy 2 seems to be steady and reliable and can make up his mind, he might be a good choice. Guy 1 scares me 'cause he seems wishy washy. Second, did guy 1 find out about guy 2? If he did it might influence his decision to all of a sudden want to be in a relationship. Does he really not want to lose you or can't he stand the idea of someone else having you. Think about it. .Girl, love is a crap shoot anyway and there are not any guarantees
2007-07-08 15:32:51
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answer #1
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answered by totalverity 2
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Only YOU can decide who you want to continue having a relationship with. Either way, you'll hurt the other persons feelings. So think this over and hopefully you make the right decision.
I would stay with the fellow you're with now. If it was meant to be with the other fellow it would have been already. He wasn't ready before and NOW that you've found someone else, he realizes that He wants to be with You Now? I would try things out with the guy you've already starting seeing....if the other guy is still waiting for you(if you and this new guy don't continue) then perhaps you can give it a shot with him..but definately don't be dumping this guy to see what it will be like with the guy that's put you off for months now. (often guys arn't interested until some other guy is interested in her..then all of a sudden, they soooooooooooooo want to be with this girl*)
But in the end...tis up to you* Who do You want to be with??
2007-07-08 15:20:17
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answered by friskymisty01 7
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I would guy #1's heisitation as a sign that his feelings may not be entirely true, or that he does not really know how he feels. If you are already in a relationship with someone who you care about, then there is no real reason to cease seeing him. Although it will hurt to let one of them go, it must be done. I have been in a similar situation, and it is not easy. By making the decision early, you avoid excess heartache. I would reccomend sticking to the guy you are with and seeing how it plays out. If the relationship ends up failing, maybe guy #1 will still feel the same way about you.
2007-07-08 15:20:56
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answered by Dan Q 2
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As any person with a measure in technology, and years round universities, scientist, and lecturers, I can guarantee you that your declare the ninety eight% of all scientist feel in evolution isn't actual. Neither is you assumption that every person immediately actual their general practitioner for melanoma cure. Having long gone via it's going to my spouse, we (and a number of the different sufferers we spoke to in the course of that point) mostly puzzled the medical professionals, checked out choice remedies, a few have long gone to Mexico for remedies no longer to be had within the US, or refused remedies. Take a survey of what number of individuals don't fly on account that they do not believe the 747s and different planes. Very few pharmacist in these days "combine remedy". They get a bottle of it, rely out the drugs you want, and placed them in a smaller bottle for you. So that one is sort of needless... And of path you might have learn of the quantity of individuals who've NOT fleed from tsuanmis, New Orleans, and so forth. on account that they doubts the crisis predictions. So why might we swallow the complete evolution instructing, specially due to the fact scientist are not any in which nearly undertanding it. Every week I learn of a brand new conception, a revision within the time traces, a correction to earlier ideals, and so forth. Every unmarried scientist in these days continues to be wondering a few element of the speculation on account that it isn't but utterly understood (or established). Until it's - or is no less than a complete lot nearer that it's in these days, I will do the equal as them.
2016-09-05 20:15:27
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answered by hone 4
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a person on the phone versus a live person your seeing? I would think you would have a better chance with the second guy and forget the first one he doesn't really know what he wants and at 24 you do so go with your heart and choose the guy that really makes you happier.
2007-07-08 15:18:06
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answered by Carol 3
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For starters just because your 24 doesn't mean your not a kid....
Secondly you'll need to assess what you want in your life, balance out your options and make the decision based on your information at hand.
You could always just take some time away from both of them and take that time to reflect on yourself, becoming more aware of your self will help make you more aware of what you want from others.
2007-07-08 15:16:34
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answered by Chris H 5
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i think you should pray about it tho, if ur not christian or dont believe in God i think u should wait and really REALLY think about it, ur already seeing the second right? so if ur lookin at the first guy and thinkin which should i choose, i say the first one, even tho he made u wait it might of been for a good reason, if ur wit the second guy but yet wonderin about the first then pick the first, cuz u dont wanna be wit the second guy and thinkin bout being wit someone else, ur having second thoughts about the second guy...lol i hope i didnt confuse u
good luck♥
2007-07-08 15:18:00
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answered by princessjazz 2
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I think I'd take the guy who was ready for the relationship, not the one who had to think about it till you found someone else. I can tell you, as soon as you go back to guy #1, he'll decide he isn't ready after all. Stick with the one who knows who he is and is commitment ready.
2007-07-08 15:15:51
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answered by Sassie 6
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Wow. Quite a predicament...
Ok, 1st off...write down the pros/cons for each guy and weigh them (thats a good start)
If those are even, or around abouts there...sadly, you are just going to have to make a decision as to which one you truly want to be with. I know you may in love with both of them, as they you, but you cant have both.....and you cant prolong this because thats not fair to them...
2007-07-08 15:17:58
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answered by da_nikkster 3
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well tell the guy that didnt want to go out with you before that he had his chance and he didnt want to start nothing and u found someone who wants to and u love him just as much.....Go with the second one because i feel that there will be no mistakes in this relationshhip....
2007-07-08 15:15:58
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answered by Anonymous
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