Well you see I'm 17 years old and still I don't have a boyfriend... It's okay from me at first but then I began to get sad... I'm always left out, I feel that my heart is now searching from the right guy but until now I still searching. Now, I feel like that maybe I will never found the one who will love...
What should I do to get rid of my sadness?
Will I ever find him?
2007-07-08 14:46:47 · 18 answers · asked by Lourielle D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a year or two you will do fine. Most young guys only want to ask the prettiest girls. It is not until after they get turned down a few times that they realize they should ask girls with their level of looks.
2007-07-15 16:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm 18. I haven't had a GF in 5 years, and technically they weren't serious relationships. It happens, I just tell myself that Highschool is the worst place to look for a Girl. Try to go to places of your interest and find a guy who likes to do the same thigns with you.
May sound wierd, but man if you have a guy friend or two, they may be what you are looking for. Relationships are meant about commitment, trust, and not about Titles and insecurities.
2007-07-15 16:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by Alex M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young. You should not be feeling like this, I belive that there is someone out there for someone, and sooner or later your prince charming would come for you. But your still young, have fun with friends and family. Don't get to serious yet, you still have to party on your 18th birthday and also your 21st birthday and have fun with no committments. I would say, set a goal for yourself...like by age 25 I want to have a boyfriend and engaged, and by 27 have my first baby. Plan ahead, and not let life surprise you. Good Luck!!!
2007-07-08 21:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at that age where you see everyone being happy and you think that you are missing out... Don't worry, you will find that special someone, for now do things for you, hang out with friends, have a nice day at the mall or the movies and enjoy life! As you get older you will have much more difficult things to worry about, so enjoy life as a teen!
2007-07-16 20:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by mntekor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be lonely but you need to find things that keep you occupied and not thinking about what you don't have....Know in your heart that you will have delivered to you what you want in your life...you attract the things to you....Have you seen "The Secret".....it's a docudrama that is very positive and it helps you understand yourself a bit better...You will find someone...but work on yourself..good things will come....get your education and become mentally structured and strong as a woman...then you will feel much more comfortable with who you are...get a hobby/hobbies...learn a new skill, language and focus on you...the rest will just happen and come to you effortlessly!
2007-07-08 21:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club, im also 17 and ive never had a boyfriend. U feel lonely, i know, trust me. But there is someone out there for everyone its just matter of finding him. You just have to let things flow...everything you want comes the minute you stop looking.
2007-07-16 15:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by gabrielle f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, im 17 too and now hav my first ever bf..beleive me ur not alone! one of my best firends deosnt hav a boyfriend and she is feeling that exact way..its ok..u dont need a boyfrend right now. i kno it mihgt sound a little corny but one will come when its time plain and simple. the right guy will come aglong sooner or later..but right now ur young and dont need to worry about these things. maybe u dont hav a bf b.c u get nervous around guys becasue u want one so much..jsut relax and be yourself and the perfect guy will come around..
2007-07-16 15:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep looking and keep ur options open. you'll find the right guy someday. but dont waste all your time looking. he'll come to you. live everyday as if it's ur last. i used to not care about that, but now i do. if i waste my life searching for something or someone and i live in sadness, then im wasting life and not having fun. just have fun but be yourself ! good luck in finding ur perfect man ! ;)
2007-07-16 15:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Amanda Grace♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun Ur still young you got a hole life in front u My bros 21 hes still single lol and hes sad but he still has the future ahead so hes not so worried. your white pony will soon come. Remember this........... Great things take time
2007-07-16 16:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have guy friends? Maybe one of them likes you... send your friends an anonymous message at http://www.hikkup.com and ask them what they think of you. Maybe you'll find out that someone has a crush on you...or if nobody does, maybe they'll give you some tips! I asked my friends what they thought and got a lot of really honest helpful answers.
2007-07-16 17:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋