Three weeks ago, I was in Starbucks. The girl that got my coffee for me was kind of cute, so I was talking to her. I got to know her hobbies, where she went to college, what she does on her spare time, how long she was working their, and obviuosly, her name.
15 minutes later, my buddy called my phone, I looked at the time and was like crap, since she was just sitting in my car. I wanted to get her number before I left, but she got busy with someone else.
I have been in there a few times since, but she wasn't their til recently. She told me she hadn't seen me in a while, then I said I've been here, where have you been? She told me she went on vacation, then she had to get back to work so I wasn't able to talk to her long.
I am trying to figure out if she was just talking to me because she was bored or if she might have been interested. So to all the girls, which one do you think it was and should I go and try to she if she wants to do something one night?
2007-07-08 15:24:17 · 17 answers · asked by count1564 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cannot tell which one of the situation exactly she was in... But if i were her, I might not feel comfortable to see you coming back so soon.
However, though, I would feel impressed to see you back again after awhile. Maybe in 2 weeks or so.
2007-07-08 15:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to Starbucks, or call and find out when she's working next. Stop by, order your coffee, and talk story again. But don't spend too long, b/c if there's a line she's going to have to help the next person. Ask if she can talk to you on the side, ask for her # then. Good luck!
2007-07-08 22:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe have a friend come in a bit after or before you and sit down or wait on the side as if you didnt know each other. After a few times his observations could spot weither she is just being friendly or flirting.
a second opinion is very important!!!
It could be super awkward if she was not into you and had to say no with others around.
If you do decide to ask her, do it with confidence(but not too pushy)
good luck!
2007-07-11 01:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should definitely go up to her and slip her your number and get hers also and while at it ask her out.Many people that talk to you on their job like that are interested and not just trying to talk.Think...they could lose their job but they are not thinking about it now when they are talking to someone they may like so ask her out one day when she gets off..or ask her when she is off can you take her for a meal or something.
2007-07-08 22:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um it sounds like she likes u (or has a crush on u) now u have to be careful from here on out, if u say something it could piss her off or if u were to make a joke it might make her be like "okay watever" u have 2 be careful, i think u should casually ask out maybe dinner somewhere, nothing too fancy or not too fancy, ur still tryin 2 get 2 kno her, be open and kind, but yet honest...
good luckâ¥
2007-07-08 22:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by princessjazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might seem corny, but I would ask to talk to her about her vacation. What did she do? Can you see pictures? That might open up a whole new dimension of conversation about travel. Ask when he break is and if you can talk to her about what she did. If it's something amazing, then act like that's what you'd want to do as well, and tell her you want to talk to her more about tips and stuff. Might seem corny, but worth a try!
2007-07-08 22:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you wanna take that chance! And also when you said she "got busy" with someone else... sorry, disturbing images in the head, i think i may be scarred for life. im only 13, but i live with 3 brothers (2 of them are older) and they always have friends over. think about that b4 u report me.
2007-07-08 22:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, she's waiting for you to ask her out. just do it casually. Specially, because she said she hadn't seen you in awhile, which means, she has been thinking of you. Go for it!
2007-07-08 22:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Miss YSL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she asked you where you were that means that she is most likely interested. I think you should ask her lightly to a causal thing to make sure that she likes you and to make sure that she does not have a boyfriend.
2007-07-08 22:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-08 22:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋