so i asked this girl out a few months ago and she said she just wanted to be friends but maybe in the future,a few months later she gets a boyfriend and i let her know i like her again but i said it just to get it off my chest so i could feel better and i told her that.So now they broke up last week and a couple days ago she calls me(she never calls anyone,even her boyfriend,which i heard from her last boyfriend because we are good friendds)and asks if i am going to her youth group and she said she wanted to watch a movie with me sometime.
So i call her a coulple hours later cause im bored(i never use my cell phone or any phone cause i hate phones so her call was very random and surprising)and it goes good and then i call her the next day to go see a movie but she couldnt cause is was her sisters birthday.So i want to know if she is interested in me at all.We are best friends and have been for a while.I like her alot and i have tried to move on but i cant.
2007-07-08 15:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she broke up with him btw and she told me she was going to a couple weeks before
2007-07-08 15:15:30 · update #1
it sounds to me like she does like you. make sure your positive though b4 u ask her out. since you've asked her b4 any more than one more time might get awkward.
2007-07-08 15:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by livestorun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belive that she might be interested as well only that these days have been a littlle busy for her.. Ask her when she will have time for the both of you to sit a chat to see where things are going and if you could both go out.. I wish you the best luck ever.. :}Ciao*
2007-07-08 15:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure, but if you've got any chance at all, it's in the here and now. close the distance between you two right away (but don't scare her) because things change fairly quickly from day to day with you young folks.
2007-07-08 15:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love these kinds of questions because you wont other people to tell you what shes thinking......NOT GOING TO HAPPEN, dude, just freakn ask her, open up when you go to the movie or wherever and just ask her straight up what you two are? Are we dating ? Give her the floor to open up and talk, give her the stage, and believe me you will get your answer, no one can answer this question for you but HER!
2007-07-08 15:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by timothys2829 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.
why did she break up with her boyfriend?
maybe she broke up with him because she was interested in you.
girls change their mind a lot.
so i really think her spontaneous call could the hint she was hoping you would catch on to as something that meant she was interested.
good luck.
keep asking to hang out.
when you don't hang out enough that's when trouble happens. good luck!
2007-07-08 15:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what her intentions are but I guess you have to do it step by step. Starting tobe friends and then, close friends etc. Keep it platonic and do not expect much out of her. She may dissapoint you again. So take it easy and be cool.
2007-07-08 15:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just might be scared because you guys are good friends and she might think it'll ruin your friendship, maybe if you give her some time she'll figure things out... i still think she's being kind of silly
2007-07-08 15:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let her move on from her previous relationship first before you ask her for a relationship. you dont want to be a rebound fling because your friendship would be ruined from that. try doing stuff in a group first and move into it slow. take your time with it.
2007-07-08 15:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a playing hard to get...she wants to go out with you but also she dont want to ruin yalls great friendship....i would sit her down and tell her how u really feel about her and tell her you see her in your future and if anything happends between yall, yall will stay friends no matter what but tell her nothing going to happend because you love her no matter what...hope i can help
2007-07-08 15:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she might have dumped her bf to get with you or try to give it a try with you to see what would happen and she is maybe liking you kid.Well dont seem to desperate and talk to her and work it out.
2007-07-08 15:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make move but before just think y she she left her BF. She just using u maybe just temperory, so before going out with her think. GooD luck.
2007-07-08 15:19:49 · answer #11 · answered by Moh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋